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Topic: looking to exchange: what is going on?
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andstuff Knowflake Posts: 2997 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 27, 2016 11:38 AM
Hi LL,Would be grateful if someone could look into a couple of things for me: 1) What was P.'s intention while messaging me? What does he want from me/to happen between us? 2) Where do we stand, what are we to each other (me and P)? Please don't quote. Please feel free to leave your questions, I'd be delighted to offer a reading in return Ideally I'd like to trade Tarot for Tarot. Thanks in advance x IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 2243 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted June 27, 2016 11:42 AM
Hi! Im in, give me 5 min to brush my hair and Ill do the readingsbefore anything, are u good with timing? IP: Logged |
andstuff Knowflake Posts: 2997 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 27, 2016 11:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by lilypad18: Hi! Im in, give me 5 min to brush my hair and Ill do the readingsbefore anything, are u good with timing?
Hi ! Not massively to be h, never really practiced seriously IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Knowflake Posts: 4921 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 27, 2016 11:59 AM
Hi! I want to do this, but is P a love interest?IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 2243 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted June 27, 2016 11:59 AM
ohh, it's okay thenmy questions are: -Is H, my ex, still having some feelings for me? even if u see the slightest feeling lol -Does T want to be in a relationship with me? brb with urs!! IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 2243 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted June 27, 2016 12:08 PM
1. I think P was feeling kinda lonely and wanted to message you. When feeling lonely, he started fantasizing about talking with you, about how could it be, what would happen as in what would you say to him, etc. So he started being enthusiastic about this idea and messaged you, probably out of nowhere, but while u were talking something didn't turn out as he expected (of course, cause he was expecting waaaay too much, too many daydreaming) and he suddenly got blocked, didn't know how to continue the convo with you. He didn't like the way the convo was going and maybe he started being a lil rude to you? or just kinda dissappeared, evasion The initial intention in any case was a daydream about love in regards to you; I get the feeling he had one of those daydreams where you talk with ur crush and everything just turns out fine, falls in place, and everything is filled with tenderness and everything is okay, u know what I mean?2. 6 of wands - hermit - high priestess I think, according to the cards, that what u have is something more physical or in the moment; he conquered you somehow and he feels that you are his victory maybe? He likes his freedom and being alone, maybe he is a solitary person, and the high priestess looking at him, it's like u don't trust him too much for whatever reason. You maybe want something with him but don't trust in this something happening or trust in him for giving u what u want or need So where u are now is maybe a light affair I'd say IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Knowflake Posts: 4921 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 27, 2016 12:32 PM
I asked what does P want from youSo the first card I pulled shows a lady sitting in the sky with the stars. I would assume that you two don't talk much or something happened? With this card, it talks about having good feelings and trying to reconcile with the other person.. It might even be some healing involved in this. I think he wanted to talk to you because he thought it was a good idea, he may had thought that something good may come out it, if he did. But I see that someone is struggling or having trouble trying to not let it go in the way that it seemed. On the next card shows 5 people with different wands in their hands..it looks like they are going to fight, but usually this card to me is about struggling and have some trouble. Have there been any disagreements going on, may be not having the same thoughts in y'all mind as when you two communicate? May be you two don't see eye to eye on what you two may want from each other. The last card shows a big machinery controlling two people that are attached to strings. Usually this card is sometimes about lusting or material wanting. Someone may think that this is unhealthy or may be not agreeing on the same thing is unhealthy to them. I also pulled another card, and it shows a man looking from afar. Are one of you feeling distant from each other or someone is waiting for something to come to them, something good? Stars - 5 of wands - the devil - 3 of wands Does any of this make sense? :/ I have a small question, can you pick up anything between me and E.L.W.? Anything at all.. I'm just trying to see what you may get.
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andstuff Knowflake Posts: 2997 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 27, 2016 12:44 PM
@ lilypad1) wheel - 3 pents - 8 swords Based upon this I would say he is still processing the break up, perhaps replaying it in his mind a lot, overwhelmed by how little he or anyone could do to prevent it. He is doing a lot of soul searching and is feeling disoriented, perhaps he is confused re: what he feels towards you. 2) king of swords - 8 wands - queen of cups I'd say he is interested. The desire is definitely there, and he has the guts to act upon it, perhaps he's still considering the idea, weighing up his options, something along these lines Thanks for doing mine. Yes it seemed like he had expected a different reply or something. But I wasn't any different from my usual self so I'm basically baffled. We are friends (supposedly), but I defs don't desire him, I'm just fond of him that's all. I had always been emotionally unavailable for some reason or other, so I will never really know for sure if he wanted more from me IP: Logged |
andstuff Knowflake Posts: 2997 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 27, 2016 12:50 PM
@ILPThanks for taking a look. Things are weird between us, we're supposed to be friends, but there have always been weird vibes, I don't want anything physical with him, plus he is involved with someone. But the message he sent me was defs for a reason, I'm just trying to figure out what in the world is going on. I'll do yours in a bit IP: Logged |
andstuff Knowflake Posts: 2997 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 27, 2016 01:54 PM
@ILPFor you and ELW i get 4 wands - 6 cups - 5 pents This is weird. Seems like there is or was harmony in the interaction between the two of you, however lately there has been a certain alienation and there is currently a distance that's making either one or both of you upset/ uncomfortable, as if something was taken away. I think I saw 3 wands at some point as well, so maybe things are going to change. So far there is resentment, as if there was something unnatural about the situation. It doesn't have to be a quarrel, maybe just some sort of drifting apart. Is it even close at all? IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Knowflake Posts: 4921 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 27, 2016 02:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by andstuff: @ILPFor you and ELW i get 4 wands - 6 cups - 5 pents This is weird. Seems like there is or was harmony in the interaction between the two of you, however lately there has been a certain alienation and there is currently a distance that's making either one or both of you upset/ uncomfortable, as if something was taken away. I think I saw 3 wands at some point as well, so maybe things are going to change. So far there is resentment, as if there was something unnatural about the situation. It doesn't have to be a quarrel, maybe just some sort of drifting apart. Is it even close at all?
That is interesting.. I think you're right. I used to talk to him alot but now I don't anymore. The other night was weird, I felt him.. not literally but it's like he wanted me to talk to him or something. But yes I don't talk to him as much (even though I think of him everyday) and the 5 of pentacles may be makes him feel left out? I will do your second question. I got another question o: IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Knowflake Posts: 4921 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 27, 2016 02:21 PM
So for number 2 it is a little hard to interpret a little..I see that with the 9 of cups, it looks like someone is trying to get what they want. They may seem that they are confident that they will get what they wish for. This person, who ever this is may seem to come off as being happy and joyful. I see that with the knight of swords, did someone do something that was unexpected and quick? I think with the knight of swords, they probably didnt put much thought into what they were saying. On the last card it shows a lady with a bird, alone. I would seem that this could talk about someone that enjoys being alone or feels comfortable with being alone.. They don't seem to really care if they have someone in their life or not. 9 of cups - knight of swords - 9 of pentacles Does this make sense? I feel that I didn't answer your question o.o IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 2243 From: my mother's uterus Registered: Apr 2015
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posted June 27, 2016 02:55 PM
thanks andstuff!! IP: Logged |
andstuff Knowflake Posts: 2997 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 27, 2016 03:42 PM
@ILPI'm defs the woman in 9 pents at this point. I got a hunch he does want something from me, maybe to share memories/emotions, perhaps more. Last time I saw him he was in a relationship with my friend, and sort of telling me all about how she would never be able to know the person he is, was weird. I felt like he could have made a move at me if I had hinted, but I basically didn't So really I don't know.... My own readings vary a lot, most of them indicate he has feelings for me, but I'm just being skeptical. I thought he was content and happy, but now it looks like I was wrong IP: Logged |
andstuff Knowflake Posts: 2997 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 27, 2016 03:43 PM
I will do your second question tomorrow if that's ok? Kind of drained for the day IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Knowflake Posts: 4921 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 27, 2016 04:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by andstuff: I will do your second question tomorrow if that's ok? Kind of drained for the day
No rush, its okay IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Knowflake Posts: 4921 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 28, 2016 03:15 PM
*friendly bump* before this gets lost lolNevermind about the question, do you have another question for me to practice on? IP: Logged |
andstuff Knowflake Posts: 2997 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 28, 2016 05:22 PM
Hey, do you mean you don't want me to do that Q for you anymore? I can't think of another question right now, guess ill post another thread as and when Thanks again for exchanging with me IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Knowflake Posts: 4921 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 28, 2016 05:26 PM
Well..I was thinking on that question to see if I want it to be answered.Are you okay with answering it? o: If so, can you ask how does E.L.W. feel about me? IP: Logged |
andstuff Knowflake Posts: 2997 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 28, 2016 05:41 PM
I pulled 8 swords - 10 pents - 8 wandsELW seems disoriented re: where you stand, but they feel like you're really close, like family almost, like you're the kind of person around whom they are safe and don't have to hide anything. Seems like they wish you could talk more often IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Knowflake Posts: 4921 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 30, 2016 11:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by andstuff: I pulled 8 swords - 10 pents - 8 wandsELW seems disoriented re: where you stand, but they feel like you're really close, like family almost, like you're the kind of person around whom they are safe and don't have to hide anything. Seems like they wish you could talk more often
Thank you! Yeah I kinda feel close to him too, I wish I did communicate more. IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 1832 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 30, 2016 12:12 PM
Still exchanging?I'm wondering if L will realize he over reacted this morning and reach out to me since he's blocked me or is it over? IP: Logged |