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Topic: Exchannging, come on in :)
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Adimi Knowflake Posts: 1212 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 04, 2016 01:38 PM
Hey all,So I met P. yesterday, after not seeing each other for a bit over 2 months... This was because of arguments happening between us. We managed to put those things behind our backs... And yesterday we ended up in each other's arms again. I don't know if this was the right move for me though, to be honest. Sometimes I tend to act more with my heart than with my head, when I shouldn't. I'm just insecure of what's to come, I don't know. He's overall a good person but I have suffered so much with this situation already... I can't help to be aprehensive. Could someone please check what's on his mind in regards to me after our meeting yesterday? I would greatly appreciatte some clarity on this. I can exchange today, just leave me your questions! Thank you so much in advance! IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 6010 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted September 04, 2016 01:46 PM
Id love to 😁 if you wish to also.My Q : whats to come in Sept for me and A? We are recently back in contact. Thank you! Brb IP: Logged |
poochycat Knowflake Posts: 3163 From: Vancouver, Canada Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 04, 2016 01:51 PM
Hi Adimi,I will do a reading for you. Queen of wands, two of pentacles, the tower The queen of wands would be you next to two of pentacles. The two of pentacles is a card about balancing situations, not really feeling sure about a situation. Your final card was the four of pentacles, again showing a lot of uncertainty with your relationship. You told me this. I pulled one more card to clarify and it was the tower so it looks like this relationship is coming to an end. Wish it was more positive for you. I would like to know if J and I will have a discussion on how he feels about me soon. I've been told it might happen. Will I see him this Friday. Thanks! IP: Logged |
Caprika Knowflake Posts: 224 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted September 04, 2016 01:54 PM
Great, I am going to pull for you in a bit.can you check and see how my relationship with M. will go further. It's been difficult in the past month, I wonder what is to come of us. IP: Logged |
Adimi Knowflake Posts: 1212 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 04, 2016 01:58 PM
Thanks for responding all, on to your readings now IP: Logged |
Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 5319 From: UK Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 04, 2016 01:59 PM
Hi Adimi, Great to see you here . My q: What do you see ahead for me as a career? I am just completing a post grad degree (will hopefully score a high grade) and would ideally like to work for an NGO. Should I answer the same question?
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intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 6010 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted September 04, 2016 01:59 PM
These may not only be thoughts about yesterday but what they are about you. There is a feeling of feeling of being at home when with you. He does wish for a new fresh begining to leave all in the past. So almost like building new memories and starting off fresh. This I get what is hopes. I do still get some push pull energy. So there may be a slow start and still some fears in both of you. There will need to be work on this to balance the energies but I feel you both want this. I get a sense of him wanting to avoid drama also . He cares very much about you I get a deep feeling here and he doesnt want to lose you again but fear is present similar to yours.IP: Logged |
lilypad18 Knowflake Posts: 3289 From: the Empress's garden Registered: Apr 2015
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posted September 04, 2016 02:00 PM
nvm ☺️IP: Logged |
Caprika Knowflake Posts: 224 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted September 04, 2016 02:07 PM
6 of Pents - Judgment - Queen of Cups - 2 of Swords - Knight of SwordsThe Queen of Cups in the middle of the spread is certainly you, this is how he sees you in your core - love and warmth and a big heart, this is what attracts him to you. The problems start outside of this lovely vision of you - it's the unstable energy between you two which is on and off and it seems like you cant find a middle ground. Judgment shows up in the spread of how he feels about you, and it can mean that he feels judged by you or he feels like you treated him harshly in certain situations, in any case thou - there is a lot of finger pointing and blaming. Hence the 2-of-swords- card appearing to the right of the Queen - the burden of dueling between all cons and pros of this connection. He wants equality but somehow equality is not present in this relationship, it's always one of you giving more while the other receives. So, this kind of thoughts cross his mind at the moment - a lot of thinking if this is worth it or not, a lot of judging, seeing all pros and cons, and with the Judgment Card - they usually stick to the cons rather than the pros. There is also some new development in his life now which brought him back to you. IP: Logged |
Adimi Knowflake Posts: 1212 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 04, 2016 02:26 PM
Of course I'd love to exchange with you intuitivefish For you and A. in September, Very positive vibes here. I'm sensing a turning of cycles, there is something to be left behind in your relationship in order for you guys to move forward and I feel this will be the main focus of the month when it comes to you two. I'm getting strong determination from both sides to be noticed by the other and huge attraction. You know when two people meet for the first time and there's this instant chemistry that draws the two together? It's this type of attraction that I feel, as if you were getting to know each other again... But it's more like something that was sleeping will be awakened. He will be flirtatious at some point. Nothing serious, just know that this is just to try to test the waters with you, to get the feel of where you stand with him. This will bring out some laughs on your part, he will be cute about it. As per your reading, it makes a lot of sense. There was huge drama between us and I know he hates that... But it was needed. He did ask me to leave all of this in the past and I agreed to... But it takes time to fully forget or not care about it. I also get that home feeling with him. But I'm afraid that he feels too comfortable with me, you know? The push pull energy I'm already feeling... He was sweet yesterday afterwards, but today he has barely talked yet... Things like this don't give me much security, but I'm giving the benefit of the doubt because I truly don't want any more drama any time soon either and I don't want to make unfair assumptions towards him... So I'll keep it cool. Thanks for the reading and assuring me of his feelings IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 6010 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted September 04, 2016 02:28 PM
Thank you so much on the reading. This sounds so much like him and what he does to get on my good side. Looks like a nice month. XIP: Logged |
Adimi Knowflake Posts: 1212 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 04, 2016 02:45 PM
Poochycat,That will definitely happen. Definitely. Soon though? I'm not so sure... Because I feel obstacles here in the way, things that delay his intentions of coming forward. I don't think he is even too sure right now of where he wants you in his life. But you bring out strong emotions in him, so there are feelings there... I also get he needs to release some judgements about attitudes of yours in the past that I think he didn't interpret the right way. But yes, he will eventually want to come clean with you and let it all out in the open. I wouldn't bet on this month, though. As per Friday, hum... He wants to... But it's not too clear for me at the moment, I feel unexpected events eventually happening. But there's a chance he may work around it. Thanks for your reading, no worries about the outcome. There is a lot of balancing to be done yes and uncertainties with this. Just taking one day at time, I guess. IP: Logged |
poochycat Knowflake Posts: 3163 From: Vancouver, Canada Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 04, 2016 02:47 PM
Oh! You jumped over four of us. Are you still exchanging?IP: Logged |
poochycat Knowflake Posts: 3163 From: Vancouver, Canada Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 04, 2016 02:48 PM
Sorry Just saw.IP: Logged |
poochycat Knowflake Posts: 3163 From: Vancouver, Canada Registered: Jun 2013
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posted September 04, 2016 02:54 PM
Hi backThanks so much for my reading. It is so true that he is one mixed up character when it comes to his emotions and women in general I feel. I'm glad that you see a resolution of some sort happening as I feel it has to happen for better or worse. As per Friday, he did say that he may have to work he is not sure so I won't be surprised if I don't see him. Thanks again and good luck with you. IP: Logged |
Adimi Knowflake Posts: 1212 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 04, 2016 03:16 PM
Caprika,For this month I'm actually getting you putting your heart out there, even showing a bit of a vulnerable side of yourself, but he not really wanting to give in... It seems more of an ego issue here, is he a proud man? It doesn't seem to me he will let go of his views or beliefs about this relationship that easily... He seems to just want to be right. I'm sorry, this is a hard energy to deal with... And this is what I'm getting for you this month. You working around his ego and having to be strong... But positive internal changes happening on your side. With suffering comes wisdom and bravery to do the difficult things that most times are tough for us to do. Let me know if this resonates Your reading is quite on point, actually. I did treat him harshly in the recent past due to some of his attitudes... I understand he doesn't like feeling criticised, but he did get why I reacted the way I did and admitted he could have done things differently. So he knows it was not out of nowhere. We've always had to deal with balancing the pros and cons of this connection since the beginning, because of outside circumstances... Which are not as significant at the moment, but still affect somehow. Yes to new developments... He just finished a project which took a lot of his time, many times he was unavailable because of this. Thank you IP: Logged |
Adimi Knowflake Posts: 1212 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 04, 2016 03:29 PM
Astro keen,I see you getting a job very soon after you finish your studies, if not immediatly. There might be a proposal on that for you. I can't say that it will be in a NGO, but I feel it will ideally be better than what you expected. In practical terms, I sense it will take more hard work (perhaps in the form of hours to be done rather than the actual tasks) than wished, but you will quickly adjust to that. Let me know if you'd like to know anything more specific What do you see for me and P.'s connection in the near future please? IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 419 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted September 04, 2016 03:30 PM
wanna exchange?IP: Logged |
Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 5319 From: UK Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 04, 2016 03:35 PM
Thank you, Adimi. If it is a proposal, will it come from someone I already know, perhaps in the University dept or maybe a friend (I know of one person who could help)? Or will I apply for an advertised post?brb IP: Logged |
Adimi Knowflake Posts: 1212 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 04, 2016 03:36 PM
Go ahead missblyss Can you see what are F.'s (male) thoughts since he saw me and P. hanging together yesterday please? Thanks IP: Logged |
Adimi Knowflake Posts: 1212 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 04, 2016 03:43 PM
Yes Astrokeen, it seems more likely that it could be from someone who is actually attached to you already. It may even be from someone you interact with on a daily basis in the department and they'll think of you when they are aware of a job offer.IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 419 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted September 04, 2016 04:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by Adimi: Go ahead missblyss Can you see what are F.'s (male) thoughts since he saw me and P. hanging together yesterday please? Thanks
I am not sure if this will make sense to you, but what I see is him staring on and feeling excluded, then he kind of just tries to brush it off and think oh whatever.. but there is an element of wishing he was there IP: Logged |
Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 5319 From: UK Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 04, 2016 04:00 PM
Thank you.About the near future: rider, cross, snake, bear, bouquet Snake at the centre speaks of manipulation taking place. There will be a message from him which will cause you concern. Perhaps he is testing you or playing with you (hence manipulation). The final two cards speak of strength and a good resolution so you will come out well. I asked another question - what is the advice for you? key, clover, bear, bouquet, coffin Interesting to see bear in the middle followed by bouquet again. It is important for your happiness to show strength. That will bring about a transformation in you (key/coffin) and you will reach a resolution. Hope this makes sense. IP: Logged |
Adimi Knowflake Posts: 1212 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 04, 2016 04:14 PM
missblyss, yes, I think it makes sense... I don't think he was quite sure what was going on and was probably curious about it, therefore wishing he was there to know. Post yours Astrokeen, it is very sweet of you to ask for some advice for me, thank you. Actually something is already concerning me, which is the lack of a message from him lol. The main concern here is because the last thing I told him earlier was basically letting him know that I enjoyed our time together, so a lack of response to that gives me strange vibes.. Could that be what you saw or is it more likely to be an actual message? I'm trying to be strong here, I'm not double texting him, I'm giving him space... Intending on playing it cool... But being strong could mean so many things. Arrrrrgh, emotions! IP: Logged |
missblyss Knowflake Posts: 419 From: Registered: May 2016
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posted September 04, 2016 04:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by Adimi: missblyss, yes, I think it makes sense... I don't think he was quite sure what was going on and was probably curious about it, therefore wishing he was there to know. Post yours
okay that makes sense, I was getting the overwhelming feelings of being "left out". my question is, what is the deal with my ex boss? I feel like she is insane and rude, but I wonder why I brought this experience into my life lol. Are my perceptions of her spot on? Her name is Jolie IP: Logged |