posted January 09, 2017 03:36 PM            

I'm concerned this isn't going to be good.
Would like some clarity on this transit.

Astro.com says:
Every little tension that you have suppressed over the last several years will suddenly seem to surface and demand to be released in some way. In your close relationships, such as to parents and partner, problems that you have been ignoring may reach the point that you have to deal with them. In an intimate relationship, this influence can have the effect of either you or your partner suddenly breaking away and seeking a relationship elsewhere. But that would happen only if the tension between you has been very severe and neither of you has been doing anything about it. In any case, you may have to make some changes in the demands you have been making upon each other.
Your domestic life may be the source of considerable upsets now. There may be accidents in the home, a sudden need for house repairs, or other sudden problems on this front. Certainly this is not a good time to buy a home, because what you look for now will not reflect your usual needs. If you are forced to buy a new home or to change residence at this time, go ahead, but be very careful. The energy of the influence has already worked itself out by disrupting your previous home and forcing you to move.
In general, you are seeking more emotional freedom at this time. If you can, change your existing relationships so that they embody what you are looking for. Otherwise, if you seek out new relationships, your personal life may be more disrupted than you want. Men in particular should be wary of this influence, because their attitudes toward women may be rather unstable now, which can result in upsetting relationships.

The transit is now almost half way thru my 4th house, will soon square my 8th.
So, TR Uranus in my 4th, square my moon...the ruler of my 4th. Sounds harsh.

I'm currently in an unhappy relationship (not married) I feel I can't escape (interestingly cafeastrology.com scores it as 52). I keep saying "Tomorrow will probably be the day. Ok, probably in a couple days. Okay, today it will happen. The next time she says 'X' that's it..." ...since August.
(Sidenote: Saturn in Libra, square Venus isn't ideal relationship material. Just sayin')
Relationships have been a journey of growth for me, mainly because I'm so independent...but I do want a great, lasting, loving relationship (never been treated as poorly as this woman treats me).
I'm finishing a TR Neptune square Mars (in Feb)...explains the relationship. I gave up literally everything for this 'higher purpose' (furniture, friends, work, money). Not afraid to start over. Done it before.

Also, I've never owned my own home and I'm eagerly wanting to change that and build my own. But when I see "this is not a good time to buy a home" it's disappointing.

Regarding family... parents long divorced, hated each other. Mom passed a few years ago. Dad is 75 in excellent health, but he won't live forever. Love him, but our relationship is strained, I see him very occasionally...thinks I'm a 'failure' because I don't work a 'great job' at a huge company, have a nice home with a wife & kids and a big boat (he's a Pisces).

For this transit:
- Will my relationship space be blocked? Should I avoid them?
- Should I give up the home dream? Or might this mean it could finally happen?
- Might my father die? Sounds like this will at least add strain to our relationship.
- Should I expect some ugly tax problems? (8th house)

I'm not concerned about having a poor attitude with women. I feel I'm quite evolved in this space.

posted January 10, 2017 09:30 PM            

I have had T Uranus in the 6th for years now, my health has been unstable unstable work life and it's squaring my natal moon in cap in the 4th house.

Unstable home life, emotions and yes wanting to change the status quo. If everything goes according to plan I'll also be relocating. But we own our home so no frequent movements. Relationships with women have been fun and exciting in it that I attract exciting women friends (I'm a girl) that's about it.

posted January 11, 2017 03:47 PM            

I will say that 6th house transit sounds like an exciting aspect to look forward to

I'll be in my 60's.
Unstable health, unstable income.
Oh, and early on it will oppose my Neptune and Mars.

Though the opposition of Jupiter looks good. Might set me up to help stabilize things for the Mars contact.