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dustib Knowflake Posts: 2818 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 27, 2017 04:06 PM
I've been MIA for awhile. How have you been? I was wondering if you'd like to exchange. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 79143 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 28, 2017 08:54 AM
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intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8281 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted April 28, 2017 12:13 PM
home now so let me know your questionsIP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2818 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 28, 2017 01:48 PM
I am curious about E since he has popped back up. What is it he wants from me? What are your questions? IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8281 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted April 28, 2017 02:18 PM
How does A feel about me telling him how much he hurt me?Brb IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8281 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted April 28, 2017 02:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by dustib: I am curious about E since he has popped back up. What is it he wants from me? What are your questions?
there is a need to not let you go, he wants to have a sort of reconciliation but I dont feel a full on reconciliation here just him feeling out what you feel and how you feel for him and if he still has any hold over you still. There is an ego driven pop up I get but there is still some caring for you still but I get him still being flakey and disappearing again, he may try to pull you in but I feel it to be temporary and short term. IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2818 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 28, 2017 05:53 PM
How A feelsspider, baby, dragon, rabbit, comet and clarifying card heart. He knows it took courage for you to tell him. He is troubled by it all but because of the distance, he felt it wasn't unexpected. He would like to change it: the dragon card is about change/trouble and then we have baby mirroring rabbit which is showing a positive new + dragon change. He knows you spoke the truth he he wants to let go of the badness and move on. He feels troubled and wants to move past it all. Thank you! That is exactly what I thought about E. Can I ask another? J turned into a complete a** last night which was totally unexpected. Why? Is he wanting me to be out of his life? IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8281 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted April 29, 2017 05:42 AM
Thank you!No he is not wanting you out of his life, he is being this way to try and take some space, he is feeling like he does not know what to do next and if he is ready for something more with you. So I get a sense of wanting to in a little way push you away but not totally I get it being more in the sesnse of first finding out what he wants with you and then pull you back in, so its not wanting you out of his life but trying to find a sense of which way to go with you. MY Q - will A do anything about the way he feels in regards to hurting me? IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2818 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 29, 2017 12:22 PM
lock, sun and flies. He wants to but right now the guilt is keeping him from doing anything. I pulled 2 more cards for more clarification and got giraffe and heart. Once he does some more thinking about this then yes he will but he has to really look at the big picture and get over his guilt first. But it will happen IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8281 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted April 29, 2017 01:24 PM
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dustib Knowflake Posts: 2818 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 02, 2017 06:30 AM
Would you care to exchange again?IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8281 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 02, 2017 07:53 AM
Let me know your Q Mine is - how come A stopped liking any of L's posts. I even think he deleted her off fb again
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dustib Knowflake Posts: 2818 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 02, 2017 10:11 AM
clouds, curtain, bread, cherries, clown and clarifying card cage. well our clarifying card is about restrictions. Looks like L got angry about something and the curtain is about secrets so something came out. Looks like in order to rise above things, he's placed restrictions on her. I am wondering, J texted me a couple of times yesterday and I never responded after everything that happened last week. Will he try again and what is he thinking because I've never ignored him like this but he hurt me! IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8281 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 02, 2017 10:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by dustib: clouds, curtain, bread, cherries, clown and clarifying card cage. well our clarifying card is about restrictions. Looks like L got angry about something and the curtain is about secrets so something came out. Looks like in order to rise above things, he's placed restrictions on her. I am wondering, J texted me a couple of times yesterday and I never responded after everything that happened last week. Will he try again and what is he thinking because I've never ignored him like this but he hurt me!
Thank you, that woman disgusts me more and more each time. J will for the moment give you short space to reply to him, he wants to see if you are only taking your time, so he will give you some time to see what your response and reaction will be, although after that, the space, I get him trying again, but not many times, it feels like he may try 1 more time. He does have a lot of pride and ego. He feels to me like he saw that he made a mistake and that he will try to make it up to you. I get a sense of him feeling guilty atm and this is why he is contacting you. I will have to go to a meeting now, and will reply more to you later but, I would love to ask another thing, What is the secret or what does it have to do with that came out about L? yours? IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2818 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 02, 2017 11:38 AM
snake, tree, hammer, wave, train and clarifying card houseSo it looks like L was trying to control things based on her fears but also trying to lie about family matters to try to renew things. Whatever lie she has told has allowed things to develop and a "journey" between the 2 to happen. Now it looks like there is some indecision regarding that and her security may be changing there and she's not on solid ground right now. J is still on the dating site a lot and has lied. He basically told me Thursday, he will do what he wants and when he wants to. So what does he want from me then?
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intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8281 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 02, 2017 11:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by dustib: snake, tree, hammer, wave, train and clarifying card houseSo it looks like L was trying to control things based on her fears but also trying to lie about family matters to try to renew things. Whatever lie she has told has allowed things to develop and a "journey" between the 2 to happen. Now it looks like there is some indecision regarding that and her security may be changing there and she's not on solid ground right now. J is still on the dating site a lot and has lied. He basically told me Thursday, he will do what he wants and when he wants to. So what does he want from me then?
this makes all the sense, she kept posting and reposting old pics with him and he did not react to them, thank you. He wants both, the single world with you in it, he kind of hopes you would wait on side lines until he sorts his feelings out, but he isnt so sure in himself any more and even though he tries to push you away which come from insecurities, but he also wants you in his life even though his actions dont go with that. I get him being quite selfish in his actions. IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2818 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 02, 2017 11:58 AM
That makes PERFECT sense. He is being very selfish and wants the benefits of a relationship without giving up anything. You aren't the first person to tell me this. I keep hoping it changes but I'm not so sure anymore....IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8281 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 02, 2017 12:03 PM
If you need more let me know. Will be around for a bit.IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2818 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 02, 2017 08:40 PM
Thank you so much! I am wondering what in the world is going on! I had someone else from my past pop up claiming to want a relationship. Like E, I don't believe R is sincere and we haven't really spoken in almost a year. Is it all because of mercury retrograde? And is he sincere? IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8281 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 03, 2017 11:32 AM
It feels like nostalgia and a mix of retrograde. Sorry I really dont feel too much happening here or it growing into anything more. Feels like he will go back into hiding, not right away but soon. Not all the way sincere. Feels more like he is grasping for straws in their life and looking into the past to try and find happyness through contacting you. -are L and A on good terms?
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dustib Knowflake Posts: 2818 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 03, 2017 02:17 PM
Yes that sounds 100% like him! This isn't the 1st time he's done this so I do feel it is the exact same thing. Thank you!! So for your question I got, eggs, mirror and road. I don't think they are on any terms right now based on these cards. There are changes happening and choices being made. I pulled 2 more for clarification and got fountain and feet. It looks like direction changed and one is finding pleasure in it. There is newness happening but I don't feel it's between them because of all these changes we see in the cards. Can I ask another? When will J try to contact me again? I still haven't replied back from Monday IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8281 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 03, 2017 02:33 PM
I dont feel it too strong this week, it feels he is still making up his mind on what to do with you. I feel a little confusion in him on what should be done so this is why I feel some hesitance, not jumping to do anything. So it feels a little later, I would say not this week but within 7-10 days. There is a chance it could happen Sunday, but it does not feel that strong. - What is the newness happening, between who could it be, well what is the change in direction? IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2818 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 03, 2017 02:45 PM
Thank you!what newness is happening? snake, hammer, clover, arrow, fire and clarifying card elephant. looks like there were too many problems there that caused things to destruct. It shows over reacting more than anything and so after a lot of patience, someone got tired of it....there were too many wounds and so the newness is overcoming all of that and moving towards new goals in life. There is a lot of determination to make that happen as well with the hammer mirroring the arrow. Drive to reach goals! The fire is also about transformation and this person has the wisdom to know when enough is enough. That's the change we saw in my last spread....changing the direction of what they wanted or where they were previously headed. IP: Logged |
intuitivefish Knowflake Posts: 8281 From: Europe Registered: Aug 2014
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posted May 03, 2017 02:51 PM
thank you.would you want another one? IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 2818 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 03, 2017 03:56 PM
Yes please. You mentioned confusion with J, what is it in regards to? He was the one who was super rude to me and I'm the one who chose not to respond to him after that. IP: Logged |