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posted May 28, 2017 02:54 AM            

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So She wants to know what she's meant to do

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posted May 28, 2017 11:46 AM            

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In life as in a job?

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posted May 28, 2017 12:14 PM            

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Hey fish ! She meant job

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posted May 28, 2017 12:24 PM            

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So I get that she needs to do something that will be of help to others, that will give satisfaction through the service she gives, so it will be of a job where she will be around more people, I would even say that it may be younger people. I wouldnt say social worker but I would get her being some sort of mentor is what I get on job she is meant to do. I do feel she may need some extra knowledge like seminars maybe or some form of education but I do feel her also being creative in what she does so it could be she starts up some form of education herself, like maybe arts or theater or whatever she would be interested in, I can see her leading a group of some sort.

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posted May 28, 2017 02:09 PM            

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Thanks! She does want her own company but she's sort of confused what to do.

I won't be free until Tuesday but f u have a q leave t here

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posted May 28, 2017 03:32 PM            

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thanks I do.

I did actually have another thing on my mind about A,
I am curious, does he even think or can he even imagine I would accept him with another woman's child, I mean can he even think I would want something with him and the baggage he comes with?
Not sure how to ask it more simple but thats what I have on my mind now.
Thank you

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posted May 29, 2017 09:59 PM            

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hey! ive been out of town but will be home tomorrow. so 15 hours later. lmk if u change ur q

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posted May 30, 2017 06:24 PM            

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does. a think fish would accept him and his kid as part of their relationship

It seems he doesnt want you to experience that in your life. he def feels its unfair to you but to be honest, hes keeping it separate from you because he didnt want to burden you with it. he didnt give it much thought for it to be set in stone.but i get the feeling he thinks you would be umfortable with it.

lmk if this resonates.

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posted May 30, 2017 07:02 PM            

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Thank you.

Only thing I dont know is what is umfortable?

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posted May 30, 2017 07:38 PM            

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the family dynamic. Like its not your child and he doesnt expect you to take care of his kid.

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posted May 31, 2017 02:41 AM            

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Thanks

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