posted August 29, 2017 02:25 PM            

the more you want it to happen , the less likely it will happen. its the nervous/ desperate energy that pushes him away . I went through that in high school.

posted August 29, 2017 03:43 PM            

From the search bar I found the thread, you've already been asking since 2015. It's already 2017, almost two years have passed and it's probably a good time to ask yourself if a wake up call is in order.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/017933-2.html

posted August 29, 2017 08:14 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
There have been many ups and downs with myself and J. Sorry for asking questions about him since 2015 you say. I could mention a few on this site that are on every single day asking about the same guy but just changing the context of their questions. Same meaning. I never said to them it's time for a reality check even though I might have thought that. Granted there ARE those on here that are desperate and looking for answers and this site is an impersonal outlet for them. Perhaps they do need therapy but I would never say this. It is insensitive and rude. This is SUPPOSED to be a forum for learning and exchanging is it not? At times I feel like the women on this site just want to get into a cat fight with their huge egos and rudeness instead of showing compassion and trying to let a reader down gently if it isn't positive. Enough said.

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Readers can tell me I will be a millionaire but if I sit on my ass all day it def won't happen. You want a real healthy relationship with J but what are you doing on your part? this has been going on for 3 years and still do not have the courage to ask him what his intentions are or what does he see happening between you two? What do you expect to happen???! you want him all of a sudden express his dying love for you?

I've been through this and its even more upsetting to watch my friends go through it. Readings aren't 100% accurate. you have every will power to manifest what you want if its for your own good. ACTION is what will set things in motion not readings.

I do notice people who keep asking the same questions over and over again for some reason never get the outcome they want. Maybe its energy of multiple readers/ querent lingering on this event . maybe the person asking the question intuitively picked up on the truth of the situation and this repetitiveness is a form of denial.... def my personal exp but prob not true for others

posted August 29, 2017 08:31 PM            

I hope you understand my situation. I think you do. J and I did have a very close relationship but circumstances have changed things considerably. We are still very close although it is not a romantic relationship. I don't feel it will go that way and it's ok. I would be very happy just to have him for a friend.

posted September 03, 2017 04:12 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
Hi
Thanks for sharing this with me. I remember your situation. Well I finally took the bull by the horns and e mailed him. He agreed for Thursday night. Hope it goes well and you take care too.

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