posted October 15, 2018 05:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Caprika:
I can pull a few advice cards for you from my Enchanted Map oracle deck.

Can you see for me how things will go for me and M.H.

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the sun
4 of pentacles
death
king of swords
2 of cups
10 of swords

OK, I'm not sure how long you've guys been together but it looks like there's a desire of wanting to stay together and attachment even if there's disagreements or retaliation between the two of you... even if things aren't going perfectly theres still the feeling of bouncing back. I think there's going to be positive changes coming soon, but they're not going to be long lasting unless boundaries or certain sentiments aren't made completely clear. I think right now he's thinking about how to keep the relationship happy and functional. I wanna add too that in most spreads that I've pulled for couples I usually see 1 person who's leading and wanting to improve things but here I think both of you want to push forward.
I hope this helps you!

posted October 15, 2018 05:50 PM            

you need to release the wounds that caused you to attract a partner who would treat you badly and heal them. you need to gain conscious awareness of where these wounds stem from. when was the first time in your life that you were treated this way? when these painful feelings arise, allow yourself to feel them- to process them. even better, delve into them. ask yourself when you first felt this feeling?

processing and healing will take a while. I would avoid entering a new relationship until you feel that you've really processed through them. otherwise, you may attract a similar partner with similar issues.

I would also really think about and meditate what qualities you want in a future partner. this is your time to co-create your IDEAL partner in this life. what does he look like? how does he treat you? what do you do together? etc...

I know this time may be very hard, but you will end up looking back on it as an invaluable time that will help shape you and bring you to a higher level of living and being (that is if you allow yourself to HEAL and don't just act out of the pain you are feeling!)

page of wands
10 of cups
ace of swords

posted October 15, 2018 06:03 PM            

King of Pentacles clarified 3 of pentacles, 6 of Wands, Tower clarified 9 of swords, Judgement

So to me this speaks clearly. You have to focus on your determination on changing aspects of your life. You have such a strong will when you are looking after something you want, that it can make wonders. You just have to be able to destroy any negative thinking, any self-deprecating way of thinking, anything that overwhelms you to the point of not thinking straight or just gives you anxiety (Tower on 9oS).

You have a strong will to change things as I already said, and you have the capability to do so too. Focus on being realistic, on being prosperous, get some help too from your support base (friends, family, etc), or just focus on creating that one. And know that you are the one that has all the power and control in your life (King of Pentacles, 6oW).

Also, realize all of these traits in yourself, and know that you can do all of this while still having fun and not expecting too much out of life. Living in the moment, and not taking things way too seriously, as well as enjoying every moment and, of course, trying a lot of new things.

Hope this helped somehow!

posted October 15, 2018 07:06 PM            

it's a lot easier said than done, and some people prefer to balance first

it's recommended but you can skip it or substitute something you'd prefer prayer, protection whatever makes you feel at peace and at one with everything around you

i first learned it from a greco roman witch so you might not be comfortable with her way of balancing

which was to imagine a 5 pointed star above you and connect yourself to the elements with each point connected to one of your limbs

right leg earth
left arm air
right arm fire
left leg water
3rd eye spirit

you go through each point, each limb and immerse yourself in that element in whatever way you'd need to imagination or physical representations it wouldnt mstter

you dont even need to do it that way

i prefer to imagine myself going down a stair case descending from the sky onto a field

and i feel the field around me and walk then notice the breeze across the grass, as i walk it turns to smoke and i come across a fire, and as i take it all in

feel the warmth

the sky opens up and it rains putting out the flames and i look up and the rain hits the spot where my third eye is thudding against it to wake it up

same principle as the first but just a different sensation

you could do anything really, but i figured i'd give you options

what really matters is the next part

when you get to your third eye youre going to focus on it until you feel pressure (it helps to "look" at it feels weird though) as the pressure builds focus on it and imagine your eye opening the way your eyes would if you werent keeping them closed

when you do it right you'll know

posted October 15, 2018 08:19 PM            

For your question, I pulled a card for you which I think is a great advice in your situation:

INTO THE UNKNOWN:
Trust…and all will be revealed. Life is an adventure, and often, new opportunities will arise that you won’t know how to deal with. This is one of those times. You’re required to trust that this new phase will reveal wonders and miracles as you step into unknown territory. Imagine that you are not only a path finder but a path maker. Whatever your inquiry, trust that you’ll be safe. Stay aware as you discover new and marvellous territories and valuable treasures.

and the other one is:

Dragon’s Lair

You have a remarkable internal warn- ing system that lets you know when things are out of alignment. You’re about to enter dangerous territory, so tread carefully and be aware of your surroundings.
The path you’re on now is one that will challenge you to the core. That said, peril is also exciting and exhilarating, like the danger you feel before you enter a new relationship, knowing that you’ll be changed forever. A life lived fully isn’t lived only in safety. A new experience is calling to you, one that will test your courage. The choice is yours, but there is greater value in risk taking than remaining unchallenged. New territories are waiting to be discovered.

posted November 05, 2018 10:41 AM            

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Originally posted by missblyss:
you need to focus on re-aligning with what you TRULY want in a partner.

you need to release the wounds that caused you to attract a partner who would treat you badly and heal them. you need to gain conscious awareness of where these wounds stem from. when was the first time in your life that you were treated this way? when these painful feelings arise, allow yourself to feel them- to process them. even better, delve into them. ask yourself when you first felt this feeling?

processing and healing will take a while. I would avoid entering a new relationship until you feel that you've really processed through them. otherwise, you may attract a similar partner with similar issues.

I would also really think about and meditate what qualities you want in a future partner. this is your time to co-create your IDEAL partner in this life. what does he look like? how does he treat you? what do you do together? etc...

I know this time may be very hard, but you will end up looking back on it as an invaluable time that will help shape you and bring you to a higher level of living and being (that is if you allow yourself to HEAL and don't just act out of the pain you are feeling!)

page of wands
10 of cups
ace of swords

THIS IS YOUR NEW BEGINNING! This is the beginning of the life you have DREAMT of!

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Thank you for this reading I appreciate it and it stuck with me! I apologize for not responding sooner. I've just been out of it lately and I feel like it's because of this situation I feel better and have let go a little bit, but there's still work for me to do. And I just didn't feel comfortable doing readings while feeling that emotional. Hope you understand.

So here's my reading for you:

2 of swords
page of swords
5 of cups
the sun
10 of swords
the emperor

I think you come off as a person who is brave, outgoing, and sharp. I read that the energy surrounding your trip is along the lines of, "if anyone can get up and go to hawaii without knowing many people there it's ________" I feel like you may miss where you're at right now, but you will enjoy Hawaii if you do stay there. I see you meeting 2 women, 1 younger or about the same age and blonde not sure if this is in Hawaii or has to do with plans about Hawaii. Another slightly older, more established, and darker skinned. I also feel that you may imagine scenarios down the line if you haven't already of things going wrong, but don't obsess over that--it could attract jealousy from people you don't even know that well. I don't think you will attract problems before you move there. There may be quarrels with some people, but they're manageable don't exaggerate those issues in your head or let stubbornness/pride keep you from communicating and soothing them over. It feels like you want to plan for every shortcoming which is understandable since this is a big move, but focus more on joy at that moment because it feels like there's a bit of anxiety around this. If you have to give yourself more time to settle down there, do so.

posted November 05, 2018 11:16 AM            

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Originally posted by lilypad18:
hi!

King of Pentacles clarified 3 of pentacles, 6 of Wands, Tower clarified 9 of swords, Judgement

So to me this speaks clearly. You have to focus on your determination on changing aspects of your life. You have such a strong will when you are looking after something you want, that it can make wonders. You just have to be able to destroy any negative thinking, any self-deprecating way of thinking, anything that overwhelms you to the point of not thinking straight or just gives you anxiety (Tower on 9oS).

You have a strong will to change things as I already said, and you have the capability to do so too. Focus on being realistic, on being prosperous, get some help too from your support base (friends, family, etc), or just focus on creating that one. And know that you are the one that has all the power and control in your life (King of Pentacles, 6oW).

Also, realize all of these traits in yourself, and know that you can do all of this while still having fun and not expecting too much out of life. Living in the moment, and not taking things way too seriously, as well as enjoying every moment and, of course, trying a lot of new things.

Hope this helped somehow!

my question would be, how do you see my love life going from the present time until the year ends?

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Hi, sorry for not replying sooner!

8 of cups, 5 of swords, ace of pentacles, 9 of wands, 4 of wands, and king of pentacles