posted November 25, 2019 04:27 PM            

I was just trying to be honest with him about dating him and not seeing other people as a way for me to be more honest with him...and it became I'm worried I'm going to hurt you...so I pulled a couple of cards asking about getting back together ad received the 3 of cups and Judgement which I thought was a good sign that he'll have an "aha" moment and likely want to move towards something more than friendship?

Help.

How are things on your end?

posted January 17, 2020 02:34 PM            

For your Q..is this a new guy?
My question is about M...How does he feel about me?

ok so the cards started well...
3 of cups-friends in the past or in group gathering that were nice...the present I got the tower-like a sudden abrupt change and then the future the 7 of wands...and I thought it was strange so i pulled a clarify and got the 9 of swords...is this an old relationship...I had in my mind something new..since I was thinking you were moving on from J.

posted January 18, 2020 08:25 PM            

I think you've mentioned him before and got similar cards, like it wasn't going to work out or something about him not sitting right?

With your j, do me a favor and write down his Sun/asc/moon 4th house/7th house and compare it yours and tell me what they are. I'm wondering if your moons match. Do the same with M and tell me what they are.

With my J, a friend went to a party I was invited to, and I declined and my friend met him there. I texted J and we started talking, nothing romantic, and clear the air...I think he's in an open relationship and is allowed to date girls until it feels serious and then be brakes it off..but anyway I need help with something he's good at and cost lots of money and he did it for free so I think every is in the past and I'm over him romantically, but I wouldn't trust him if we ever got back together anyway.

My new "guy" is a cancer which is in my 4th house and he sa a sag asc and virgo moon which I don't like ..we'll see. I think you're right about him being all over the place..i've gotten that from a few readings.

posted January 18, 2020 09:39 PM            

Me - Scorpio
Ascendant - Sagittarius
Moon - Leo (8th house)
4th House - IC Pisces
7th house - DC Gemini.

posted January 19, 2020 01:04 AM            

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Originally posted by astrogal:
J - Capricorn
Ascendant - Aries
Moon - Leo (5th house)
4th House - IC Cancer
7th house - DC Libra
- Pluto & Part of Fortune - Scorpio

Me - Scorpio
Ascendant - Sagittarius
Moon - Leo (8th house)
4th House - IC Pisces
7th house - DC Gemini.

It is curious that my Leo Moon is at 13 degrees, 53 seconds and his (J's) Leo moon is at 13 degrees, 59 seconds, very close.

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I knew the something with the moon kept you guys connected.The moon is the only signs you have in common and because its so closely tied with our emotional personality we sometime think it true love when its a deep inflation..and people mistake it and get married and then divorce...I'm dojng this theory where if those 5 elements the sun/asc/moon/ 4th and 7th house have the same signs in your partners...its really good..like the Queen adn Duke have all the same signs matching in in those elements and prince charles and Diana I think had the moon in common and that ended in divorce..I think you're scorpio/Pisces energy attracts cancers as mine does..as I love them so much and Geminis..same for the guy in your 20s with the cancer asc and 4th house

posted January 19, 2020 02:01 AM            

That's funny! My first real boyfriend in high school...Cancer with Mercury and Venus in Gemini.

The guy in my early 20's, Cancer...
Oh and late 20's...P...Cancer. Venus in Gemini...

M's got Mercury and Venus in Gemini, (my 7th house), too. M's got a Scorpio Moon, too...my Venus is in Scorpio.

Creepy af, but all that don't include M, who could be 4 if he'd make a move, lol...they all died. Weird, right. Their birthdays are all within a a week of each other. M falls within that week, too, but I hope he lives until he's old and grey!

When I first met J, I sniffed Scorpio and he was like nope, Capricorn. I was really shocked, because of all the Scorpio energy that drips from his pores.
J was different...so different...With me and J, there is alot of 8th house and Scorpio energy. His Mars and Pluto are in Scorpio. His Mars is in the 8th house, so I think his dark side is familiar to me, but it was all shadowy, dark, and awful. Both of our Venuses are in the 12th house and they are square to each other. It's weird. There is a bond like no other I've experienced, but our idea of love and a relationships are different. There's always going to be this strange bond I can't explain, Pluto...12th house, ugh...It was horrible and uncomfortable and beautiful all in the same breath. It's like everything is this deep, dark, awful secret, lol. I laugh, but at the time it was so unfunny. We grate on each other on all levels.

There are many of those parallels. I find that they can differ slightly, though. Most of my major exes are Cancers. Both my ex from my 20's and J have Aries rising and IC Cancer. There are usually node connections with Cancer . There is often a ton of 8th house activity, and often their Mercury and/or Venus are in my 7th house.

I never actually noticed the parallels between J and my 20's ex's charts with the

The first real love of my life was a Leo with Venus in Cancer. His moon was in Libra, though, which is an anomelie. He had a Gemini Mars and Jupiter, though. I have no links to Gemini except for my 7th house being in it. There are no planets there, but it seems to attract Gemini energy like no tomorrow. It took me like 500 years to get over him and vice versa. I don't know how I forgot about him, wow! I had never been more attracted to another human in my entire life until I met him, but when I met J, I'd say I was more attracted to him. I was floored that it could ever happen again on every level, but hat's over.