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posted October 31, 2020 05:16 PM            

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Hi Saggy, I saw your reply, and I thought I'd start a separate topic for you.

I'm doing the reading based on this one: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/026126.html

Given the 3 messages:

1. I have lied to you and betrayed you. I was in a very dark space at that time. I'm doing so much better now. I'm not the same person that you remember.

2. Choose love not fear - 666 - 3D

3. I was thinking about reaching out to you, but then I panicked and stopped myself. I feel very insecure.

I asked who does this refer to, who is this person that has these 3 messages for you. 3 cards flew out.

The Sword and Rose: Clarity - Truth - Revelation - Solidarity - Force - Honor - Protection - Power

Hand of Cards: Take a chance - Risk - Being strategic - Options - Not showing hand - Gambling

Separation: Sadness - Missing you - Thinking about you - Yearning - Unsure of future

I'm not sure if this is gonna be helpful, or the keywords will point towards someone in particular, take what resonates. c: Sometimes it happens that cards have a completely different message to shift the attention elsewhere which needs work, etc. Or, what the sitter is meant to know at certain times. Let me know if this resonates. c:

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posted October 31, 2020 05:34 PM            

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Thank you Emsie! I wonder if there is any other question that could be asked to clarify this? Maybe if he is fire or earth sign? All of them were fire except last one was earth.. I am sure you know this better than me what the right question would be..and thank you so much for this and for starting a new thread❣

Or maybe if my ex D (fire Sun) is the one I am suppose to end up with? Is he my TF?(if that makes it more specific)...after meeting the last guy (also D-Earth Sun) I actually felt so strongly about him especially when he wasn't around anymore, that I started to think that he was maybe my soulmate....and that someday we might get a second chance again...

Im sorry if all this sounds confusing..2 of them are the ones I have in mind the most for this..the first one I saw recently after a long time and it was nice to see him after so long..

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posted October 31, 2020 05:47 PM            

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As I don't have any regular tarot decks by my side right now I can't take a look at the element side of things.

But I asked for a signature this certain person has that will perhaps help you distinguish and will point at the one which has these 3 messages for you.

Camera: Reminiscing - Keepsake - Perception - Learn from the past - Make memories

As I asked for a signature of him, I wonder if this person has some type of camera and likes taking photographs? Or, photographer as per profession? Something about cameras and photos definitely. Even if it's just a hobby for him. Nature and wedding photography comes to my mind. c:

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posted October 31, 2020 06:04 PM            

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This could be a different ex then. There was 1 who loved taking pictures (almost as much as me lol), and he would send me a ton of pictures of the sky (stars and planets in particular), and nature also..he even sent me pictures from a wedding..wow I wonder if it is him...the story here is that we were on and off for a while, but never official.. and I got frustrated with that and ended things..he contacted me again and we tried being friends..but his little remarks annoyed me and I "ended" things again..
Would you recommend me contacting him?(as a friend)

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posted October 31, 2020 06:13 PM            

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Omg, I think then this 3. I was thinking about reaching out to you, but then I panicked and stopped myself. I feel very insecure. (clarified by Hand of cards - take a chance, risk) can certainly refer to him wanting to contact you again, but he feels insecure that you're gonna reject him after he screwed up quite a few times before.

I wonder if he basically betrayed himself (1st message) about him being okay with the 2 of you being just friends... Can be a possibility o.o

ETA: Maybe you can try contacting him. I think he seems to be open to it as he wanted to, but didn't do it eventually.
Plus, the Separation card would also make sense here as I think you haven't recently met this person, you are currently in no contact separation. Someone definitely misses you (as per one of the keywords of the card.)

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posted October 31, 2020 06:27 PM            

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For sure, I will do it just to check on him. He is the kind of person that I feel extremely comfortable with and never had to wonder if he will respond or anything like that. He has always been super sweet to me and responsive

Emsie, but this doesn't mean that he is my TF does it ?

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posted October 31, 2020 06:39 PM            

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2 other cards popped out after a lengthy shuffle. Well, they don't really tell whether he is your twin, or Soulmate, etc. I feel maybe they want to shift your focus from above at this point to concentrate on the quality of connection rather than the label it has.

Kisses: Unconditionally loving - Giving and receiving affection - Falling in love

Heart with a key: Welcoming love - Meeting the One - Open your heart - Getting together - Perfect

As for the type of connection you have with this person, according to these 2 cards I feel this definitely has the potential of becoming something more, a healthy relationship. I always say there is also free will if you perhaps don't entirely feel the same for him.

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posted October 31, 2020 06:55 PM            

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posted October 31, 2020 06:55 PM            

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Yeah, when we were together I was very focused on the "label", and it just started to feel like a waste of time..even though we get along really well in general..
And he indeed would always say how much he loves to kiss me etc..there was a lot of chemistry between us..
I am literally going back and forth with him right now, just catching up..

Edit: I would potentially be interested if indeed this could become a healthy rs..just not in the mood of feeling insecure about someone's level of investment...just not for me. That part was frustrating

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posted November 01, 2020 09:59 AM            

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Hey Emsie, just wanted to say thank you again...I think it was good for me to reconnect with this person because he does make me feel loved and appreciated..and we don't live close anymore, but I will stay open to this connection without expecting much..and rather put my focus on these sweet lovely feelings between us.. ❣

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posted November 01, 2020 09:59 AM            

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Hey Emsie, just wanted to say thank you again...I think it was good for me to reconnect with this person because he does make me feel loved and appreciated..and we don't live close anymore, but I will stay open to this connection without expecting much..and rather put my focus on these sweet lovely feelings between us.. ❣

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