posted December 08, 2020 08:21 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
Your composite has as me favorable emotional aspects.
Mars/Venus/sun are com njunct which shows a her strong emotional/physical attraction between you.Pallas is square to these so it seems your are really into him.
The Eros/psyche midpoint is square the most n which also shows a very sensitive and romantic attraction.

The long term is not so good as Uranus is square to Jupiter. This shows sudden breakups .
But it looks like fun if you don't get too serious

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posted December 08, 2020 08:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi Destiny, I am looking at your Composite... we dont have his TOB so I can't see aspects to the axis and the houses... but you seem to have a very special bond, a stellium with Sun/Venus/Mars opposite Moon, there's an outstanding intimacy and deep love feelings between the two, and with the Juno-Neptune/Jupiter-Saturn midpoint square to the stellium it looks you feel like soulmates for life and envision you two together getting married or just spending your whole life together with great expectations but maybe also with a fairy tale vibe. These aspects combined together look very powerful and maybe you also plan building activities together or just share and carry such activities and interests already. I believe you may have very lively creative and intellectual exchanges.
But there could be also a very painful side in this relationship, cause Chiron is conjunct Pluto and Mercury quincunx to Saturn/Jupiter. This could suggest that you mirror unconscious wounds and that your communication can be dfficult as your deep intimacy could force you to acknowledge such wounds you share but also a different approach in dealing with this wounded side, and such difference can put one against the other triggering painful dynamics.
Composite Uranus is square to Jupiter/Saturn, this is a strong potential break-up aspect so your relationship may not last forever as you expect. and since Chiron/Pluto/Mercury is quincuncx to Jupiter/Saturn, the unconscious dynamics and different approach you may have about your individual healing or in solving the relationship issues can potentially become furtherly divisive and draining.

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So, to be clear, it won't be getting serious or end up as long term? Could you explain what you mean when you say ”mirror unconscious wounds”? I didn't understand that part.

posted December 08, 2020 08:24 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
Your composite has as me favorable emotional aspects.
Mars/Venus/sun are com njunct which shows a her strong emotional/physical attraction between you.Pallas is square to these so it seems your are really into him.
The Eros/psyche midpoint is square the most n which also shows a very sensitive and romantic attraction.

The long term is not so good as Uranus is square to Jupiter. This shows sudden breakups .
But it looks like fun if you don't get too serious

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posted December 08, 2020 09:59 PM            

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Originally posted by curiousgirl1111:
So, to be clear, it won't be getting serious or end up as long term? Could you explain what you mean when you say ”mirror unconscious wounds”? I didn't understand that part.

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posted December 08, 2020 10:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
It may get serious and intense, but Uranus square Jupiter/Saturn is a very tough one for long term, so I think it wouldn't be long term.
With mirror I mean that you may be attracted subconsciously by each other's most deep psychological issues, but that you both may not be able to manage such challenging issues while this psychological involvement could become painful instead. Since I don't know the context and the two people personally, it is hard for me to tell what such issue and dynamic could be about...

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posted December 09, 2020 10:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
With his TOB you can see the Composite axis which can give a better idea of the long terms expectation and the chart houses... even though, the Uranus/Saturn-Jupiter square is usually enough to safely say that the relationship coudl be temporary... temporary can mean very short or lasting for a few years, but still temporary and unstable... transiting south node has travelled through the composite stellium just recently, and south node usually brings letting go, closure... You certainly trust him and are at ease with him with Neptune/Juno and that powerful stellium, these aspects likely gave you a lot of expectations... but consider that Chiron/Pluto quincunx to Jupiter/Saturn is a tough aspect that sooner or later could become painful, I mean that it doesn't look all so good as apparently you envison it... Let me tell you that ghosting is not a nice thing to do at all to anyone. you are very young so don't convince yourself that you wont ever have a better chance than this, cause from what I see here you actually deserve much better than this and you are young enough to expect finding it.

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