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Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 2695 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014	posted November 30, 2017 07:28 AM I had two horrible dreams last night. Both of them related to real life. A few months back, my boyfriend kept texting this girl he met on a trip he went to and emotionally cheated on me. Then it got ugly between us. I lost it and he stopped. In my dreams, he started talking to her again. They did the same things they did before. They flirted behind my back and planned to see each other again next year. The girl even messaged me in my dream and told me she wasn't gonna stop and it was all still happening. I am starting to lose hope in this relationship. We've been trying to fix everything, but it has just gotten really sour. No parties want to budge, especially not me. IP: Logged
mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 9247 From: us Registered: May 2012	posted November 30, 2017 04:13 PM Hi Solar_Leo_Queen So ... You realize it was a 'dream' you had? Might be only dealing with the 'fear' of this? Or! You mention butting heads on this issue with him before? Was there any specific new clue your subconscious may have picked up on? After you consider this a bit.... Why not take a new approach, a softer and less defensive posture, and think of a tactful gentle way of Directly bringing this up with him? Who knows? This act could bring your relationship closer, because it expresses that you desire to go to the 'next level' of intimacy with him? There's romantic love, and affections. Sometimes affections begin to grow more serious into the direction of wanting something more? By having this discussion, you can become clearer on what you want... and find out what he wants? It's better to know concretely and for-sure, than skirt around the issues? If you do decide to leave the relationship, you might want to wait until mid-January when Mercury (which is stationing, reading for retrograde) clears its shadow... Otherwise the energy might bring you two back together again? (?At least, that's what I've heard other people describe the effects of having breakups while Mercury is set to go backwards. Time to re-think things... mull them, review 'why' you were attracted? What traits did you like? Decide what's worth keeping or not... and you will have mined the wealth for what you want to attract in the Future?) Good to see you... IP: Logged
Ayelet Moderator Posts: 2669 From: Registered: Sep 2010	posted December 01, 2017 10:15 AM Hello Solar Leo Queen, Perhaps it's only fear, like Mirage suggested. But perhaps you sense you cannot trust your boyfriend completely, that the problem was not solved, that whatever made him text to that girl is still there, regardless of the "silence" that was achieved between you two. IP: Logged
SecretGeek Knowflake Posts: 192 From: Registered: Nov 2013	posted February 19, 2018 06:45 PM Could be you were emotionally cheating but the dream was about your partner emotionally cheating. To show how it feels and then decide to continue the relationship or terminate it. IP: Logged
Randall Webmaster Posts: 92154 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009	posted February 20, 2018 10:43 AM quote: Originally posted by SecretGeek: Could be you were emotionally cheating but the dream was about your partner emotionally cheating. To show how it feels and then decide to continue the relationship or terminate it. IP: Logged

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