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Topic: Bad intentioned people
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BlueRoamer
Knowflake Posts: 4676
From: Calm Blue Ocean, Calm Blue Ocean
Registered: Jun 2003
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posted October 14, 2008 11:07 PM
 
What do you do when you feel a person has bad or malintentions towards you, but they are not openly expressed?There is a person that seems so hollow around me....like they have no soul or something, and I feel very bad vibes coming off them towards me....I may be completely and utterly paranoid, but I think I have a sense for these things. This person never says anything rude, is polite, but I see nothing but evil and a depravity behind his eyes. Like emptiness, as if they were just a body that spoke, with no real humanity inside. Are there people walking around like this. Shadow people?
Souless ones?
Reptilitans??? Any advice? IP: Logged |
bunnies
Knowflake Posts: 437
From: U.K
Registered: Mar 2007
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posted October 15, 2008 03:22 AM
I had a "friend" like this.
Many years ago a group of us would hang out and did so for about 6 years.
I always felt this feeling coming from one of the girls (we'll call her Pat...because that's her name!)
But she was sweetness and light to me. On the phone every 5 mins, popping round and there was nothing in her demeanour that would suggest she didn't like me.I had a spate of anonymous phone calls that lasted for a year sometimes up to 30 times a day. I asked the phone co. what to do and they said 9 times out of ten it will be someone you know well.
Didn't connect. Until she went on holiday and they stopped. I just thought the person had eventually got fed up.
She came back off holiday and bird brain that she was, they started up again. I took a chance one day and said to the silence on the end of the line
"I know it's you Pat, so why don't you just tell me what it is that you hate so much about me and let's get it out in the open. Oh and she did!!!
I let her rant continuously for upwards of an hour and just said the occasional "Mmm"
I have never known such venom. It was almost an achievement that I could generate unwittingly so much hostility!
When she had exhausted herself I said "Do you feel better now? I think we can safely say that we won't be chatting again! So don't underestimate those vibes! IP: Logged |
CrimsonChyld
Knowflake Posts: 254
From: Murray, UT
Registered: May 2008
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posted October 17, 2008 02:13 AM
Oh yeah I agree.. I had a co worker who I got these awful vibes from. I wasn't the only one either. She seemed to get along with everyone...maybe a tad controlling. But nothing to make me hate her or even dislike her.
But once I quit I came back to visit and was told how much she wanted my job and the next day she was moved into my desk and in everyone's face.. my boss (whom I got along with famously) told me that if she took over my job he was going to quit lol..
He's still there, but so is she...ugg!So yeah, trust your instincts.. if he's giving off such bad vibes, maybe it's a sign that you should distance yourself from him.
Just my opinion... ------------------
"Secrets and lies can sleep from the walls of Rome if we sit hard enough on them. They are undeniably destined to come out. Tomorrow, the next day or a hundred years from now!" IP: Logged |
ListensToTrees
Knowflake Posts: 5418
From: Infinity
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted October 17, 2008 11:55 AM
Hmm. It takes all sorts in this world and unfortunately these people do crop up now and again, apart from that is, where I use to live- my homeland- Utopia.  I think most of us find that we meet people now and again who irritate us, even if it is for an irrational/ unfair reason. Perhaps they remind us of someone we use to know, maybe even ourself..... 
Watch out to see if their eyes turn (completely) black though. 
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Heart--Shaped Cross
Knowflake Posts: 8871
From: 11/6/78 11:38am Boston, MA
Registered: Aug 2004
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posted October 17, 2008 02:29 PM
People are F---ed. IP: Logged |
Obe
Knowflake Posts: 208
From: Washington state
Registered: Feb 2006
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posted October 17, 2008 03:18 PM
advice is so dubious, but I think that if someone makes you uncomfortable, there is no reason to torture yourself by putting up with their prescenceIP: Logged |
ListensToTrees
Knowflake Posts: 5418
From: Infinity
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted October 17, 2008 04:19 PM
Well said, Obe. It isn't always possible to get on with everybody, we just need to chose our company carefully and avoid bad vibes as much as we can.Mind you, sometimes I feel sort of "high" after a few drinks, and this wave of love for all humankind washes over me.   IP: Logged |
ListensToTrees
Knowflake Posts: 5418
From: Infinity
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted October 17, 2008 04:36 PM
However, beware of the "black-eyed kids".   (Which, imo, is when a person's eye can change to black temporarily, perhaps reflecting another dimension or an impostor spirit in the body of that person.). IP: Logged |
CrimsonChyld
Knowflake Posts: 254
From: Murray, UT
Registered: May 2008
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posted October 18, 2008 04:25 PM
Okay that's just creepy <shudders>HSC - That's putting it right where the bear sh1ts lol... And Obe.. yeah it's logical to just avoid them, but if you have to work with the one who makes you that way... well I would be judged as not being a "team player" lol.. ------------------
"Secrets and lies can sleep from the walls of Rome if we sit hard enough on them. They are undeniably destined to come out. Tomorrow, the next day or a hundred years from now!" IP: Logged |
starr33
Moderator Posts: 582
From: My Mother
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted October 18, 2008 05:30 PM
You don't live with this person do you? That would suck. IP: Logged |
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