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Randall
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posted September 06, 2012 09:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't have a problem with Christianity. It has some great tenets--if people followed them. I follow many of them myself, and I'm not a Christian. Like to not resist evil. I've seen that one work miracles in my life. The problem is that all of the Christians I personally know are the most two-faced hypocritical people ever. They hate other people, plot against them, are quick to anger, and slow to forgive--if they forgive at all. This is not meant to be a condemnation of a whole religion...it's just my experience. For example, a Christian is supposed to love their enemies and bless those that curse them. Anyone ever see that actually happen? I do live by that philosophy, and it works very well. But I have not personally met one Christian in my lifetime who remotely followed that. Christians give Christianity a bad name. They want conversions, but instead of leading by example, they actually do the opposite and push people away. Seeing this kind of behavior really turns me off to Christianity and makes me never want to embrace it. Once again, this has just been my experience, so don't take it as a blanket condemnation--but of all the many Christians I know, none are humble--they are self-righteous and holier-than-thou. Just wanted to get that off my chest.

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posted September 06, 2012 09:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted September 06, 2012 09:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've encountered this myself. One can't preach one thing and do the opposite. You have to practice it.
Then there are others who proclaim to "Christians" to manipulate people or gain their trust.
Religion shouldn't be misused. A truly spiritual person would know that.
They will gently teach and guide.

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posted September 06, 2012 09:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
O, I so agree Randall! Raised in the Christian church I left it early for many reasons this being one.

I think Christians are some of the biggest selfish and egoists ever...Jesus supposedly taught some very valuable lessons, of which I still adhere to today, but it seems like the Christians preach it but dont live it.

Just the other night, my youngest and I got into it out in the driveway...she ended up slapping me just as my holy roller neighbors came our of their house and got into their truck. Clearly a single mom, in trouble being pushed and shoved by an clearly drunk kid and they turned their heads and drove away.....

(shakes head)

disgusted!

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posted September 06, 2012 10:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think that people should keep a few things in mind about Christianity.

The biggest thing to remember not all denominations are alike, and not all Christians approach spirituality or evangelism in the same way, or with the same methods and practices. There is a lot of diversity within Christianity

There are numerous schools of thought within Christianity. It really is not fair or right to just lump us all in together. An Episcopalian is very different than a Baptist. A Pentecostal is different than an Orthodox or a Lutheran. Mainline Protestants are different than Catholics and evangelicals. I would like people to remember and know those things.

It does bug me a lot that people just assume that all Christians are the hateful, judgmental, bigoted types. Yes, SOME are that way--unfortunately, many of them are the most visible and vocal Christians. However, not ALL Christians are like that. Many Christians don't even feel comfortable around those types.

I would encourage people to research differences in denominations to learn about the differences between different groups of Christians and to not just write us off or Christianity off altogether.

Another thing, too: Christians are human. We have our flaws. Some work on them, some do not. We're just as imperfect as any other group. Being Christian means being a sinner working on our shortcomings. It doesn't mean that we are all saints who get it right. That's why we need God.

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posted September 06, 2012 10:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Regards, understood.

My big issue, and I am not clumping them all together is that the ones I have met, and I am speaking from encounters with Methodist, Assembly of God, Baptist, and espeically JW's they say one thing and do another.

Catholics, in my experience are the far worst.

(shoote em up in driveby's on the weekends complete with the Virgin of Guadalupe on the dash and repent to Father on Sunday...xtream example I know....)

Now I have met a few southers Baptist, mostly of the African American ethnicity that do preach and do live their faith.

It just seems to me that alot of people call themselves Christians and dont live true to their faith, it is like Christianity is much more about the falsity than say Buddhism or Hindus for example. Never met a member of those religions that go around stating their faith and clearly dont live by it. Sure I have met lots that dont live by it, but atleast they dont proclaim something they are not.

An age old discussion....

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posted September 06, 2012 11:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Totally agree.

I just feel like anyone who associates themselves with any R(E)(L)(I)GION isn't very aware.

Truth is the only thing that should be combined with faith. Not ignorance.

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posted September 06, 2012 11:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by hippichick:
Regards, understood.

My big issue, and I am not clumping them all together is that the ones I have met, and I am speaking from encounters with Methodist, Assembly of God, Baptist, and espeically JW's they say one thing and do another.

Catholics, in my experience are the far worst.

(shoote em up in driveby's on the weekends complete with the Virgin of Guadalupe on the dash and repent to Father on Sunday...xtream example I know....)

Now I have met a few southers Baptist, mostly of the African American ethnicity that do preach and do live their faith.

It just seems to me that alot of people call themselves Christians and dont live true to their faith, it is like Christianity is much more about the falsity than say Buddhism or Hindus for example. Never met a member of those religions that go around stating their faith and clearly dont live by it. Sure I have met lots that dont live by it, but atleast they dont proclaim something they are not.

An age old discussion....

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I hope that I wasn't being rude or argumentative or anything (I really do want to follow the rules on that, and I'm not sure if politely disagreeing counts as 'arguing' or where the line is drawn on that).

I just honestly get frustrated because I hate being painted the same brush as some of the really in-your-face, hateful, irritating types of Christians, and don't want to be judged before people know me just because of the connotations that come with the word "Christian". I'll be the first to admit to being a very flawed person. I try my best, but yes, I definitely screw up a lot. The prayer, "Have mercy on me, a sinner" immediately comes to my mind when I think of myself.

To be fair, perhaps some Christians have earned those connotations and stereotypes, but not all.

I also feel saddened by it because the way that some Christians act seems to turn people off to all Christianity/all Christians, and to God. I feel that a lot of imperfect-but-good, normal, sane, mentally and emotionally healthy Christians get sort of drowned out by the more negative types, and that people don't always know or remember that there are good Christians out there. So, that's where I was coming from, and I hope that I wasn't out of line or anything.

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Randall
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posted September 06, 2012 11:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Disagreeing or voicing your opinion is fine.

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posted September 06, 2012 11:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mercuranian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i completely agree w your post randall-

also jesus wasn't a christian or particularly religious either

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posted September 06, 2012 11:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree randall, even though I am a christian by belief, I don't go to church, they are just too judgemental. my church kinda turned me away from organized religion.

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posted September 06, 2012 11:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
also jesus wasn't a christian or particularly religious either [/B][/QUOTE]

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posted September 06, 2012 12:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, and if you ask a catholic or christian where Emanuel spent his lost years.. do they know? I'm pretty sure most if not all have not one single clue.

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posted September 06, 2012 12:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for shura     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Fair points, Randall.

By my observation and experience, Christian tenets are by fair the most difficult to uphold. No other spiritual path will ask so much of you. No other spiritual path is so seemingly nonsensical and in direct opposition to what we might consider natural human instinct. Hence the wide gap between intention and performance. As Gandhi once remarked, "I like your Christ. I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."

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posted September 06, 2012 01:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by shura:
Fair points, Randall.

By my observation and experience, Christian tenets are by fair the most difficult to uphold. No other spiritual path will ask so much of you. No other spiritual path is so seemingly nonsensical and in direct opposition to what we might consider natural human instinct. Hence the wide gap between intention and performance. As Gandhi once remarked, "I like your Christ. I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."


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posted September 06, 2012 03:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for oneruledbymars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Interesting post and thread Randall......As you know or maybe not...but I was raised a Jehovah’s Witness, I read the bible 18 times from cover to cover by the time I was 21. I was extremely indoctrinated and literally talked to people 90 hours a week out in "field service" going door to door trying to convert people because that was perceived as a "good", spiritual Witness, those that dedicated the most of their time, to this day I feel like that religion and religions in general are the perfect trap for evolving human consciousness, especially if your goal is to keep it from evolving.

So you can imagine the programing that I had to get rid of to become heart centered. For years every time it stormed I would get nervous because I would think Armageddon was coming and I was not in could standing with the organization which meant I would be destroyed.

I used to be disgruntled for a while but now I'm to the point that if all is as it should be then to each his own, as its been out many times here lately…by there fruits you will recognize them…and is it just me or is the “fruit” that Christianity has produced not a little bitter to the taste and unsettling in the stomach?
As long as there are cultures and religions we will never have social security, which is the theme of the Aquarian Age that we are ushering in right now....and so I feel like we have all been gathered to a great playing field. Not to play this time though, that’s what we've done for thousands of years. Now our egos are no longered required hence no need to play just observe...observation itself alters the course of what we view even if we make no action and speak no word.
We have been gathered to watch the most thrilling movie we have ever seen and we have no clue what will happen from this day out, not sure we even care to know.
So sticking with the theme of the thread…. religion period has no significance for me anymore...it feels like an old structure that is soon to be torn down. Hence Christians fall under that category, but they are more irritating to me because I live in the "bible belt" part of America where the ignorance and judgmental attitudes are just mind-blowing and disheartening at the same time.......but again all is as it should be for our times and the only thing that one can be sure of is change and change is upon us, I think we can all feel it...even if like me you have no clue what, when, where or why....I think the fun is going to be in figuring it all out, and I for one am excited. Ignorance is just not my thing, I have a Uranus, Jupiter and Mercury Grand Water Trine that tells you exactly how I feel about traditions passed down by men supposedly from god.

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posted September 06, 2012 03:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"I like your Christ. I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ."

That sums it up beautifully.

To follow the Christs Teachings as closely as humanly and spiritually
possable is a difficult rewarding Path.

Jesus the Christ did not teach us to brow beat another into reformation or submission.

He taught us if we cast our pearls (wisdom) before swine (unbelievers) and they reject the wisdom, shake the dust off your feet as you walk away instead.

He taught us to turn the other cheek and forgive. To do unto others as you would have done unto you.

He did not teach us to harm our selves or others with gossip, judgement, and condemnation.

Love your neighbor as yourself.

Without the Christs Teachings, there would be no Christians . BUT if you don`t adhere to his teachings, one would not be a Christian, would they?

So, it is for each individual to understand what a Christian is and how to separate those who are from those who claim to be.

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posted September 06, 2012 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for oneruledbymars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Juni, you wrote:
"To follow the Christs Teachings as closely as humanly and spiritually
possable is a difficult rewarding Path."

I know this sounds awful. But I just dont see the reward outweighing sacrifice.
Jehovahs Witnesses follow the Bible very closely and pride themselves in it.
Amongst there ranks they stick together and "shun" the world, all I see is the difficulty in the Path and not the rewards.

How can searching for, dedicating your life too and serving a god outside of yourself have any lasting rewards in these times?

Why can't we just let religion go?

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One man was perfect. That man was/is Jesus. Don't look at His followers or you will be disappointed. Look at Him.

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posted September 06, 2012 04:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ORBM, I don`t see it as religion but spiritual wisdom. To me it is also following the transmitted spiritual wisdom of all the great Masters.

For societies sake, we lable ourselves. So I apply Christian lable and explain myself by a Teaching I ascribe to.

Thats all
edited to say, The Bible isn`t necessarily Jesus teachings in whole.I separate the Bible from The Christs teachings specifically as they are found in other Masters.

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posted September 06, 2012 04:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by oneruledbymars:

Interesting post and thread Randall......As you know or maybe not...but I was raised a Jehovah’s Witness, I read the bible 18 times from cover to cover by the time I was 21. I was extremely indoctrinated and literally talked to people 90 hours a week out in "field service" going door to door trying to convert people because that was perceived as a "good", spiritual Witness, those that dedicated the most of their time, to this day I feel like that religion and religions in general are the perfect trap for evolving human consciousness, especially if your goal is to keep it from evolving.

So you can imagine the programing that I had to get rid of to become heart centered. For years every time it stormed I would get nervous because I would think Armageddon was coming and I was not in could standing with the organization which meant I would be destroyed.

I used to be disgruntled for a while but now I'm to the point that if all is as it should be then to each his own, as its been out many times here lately…by there fruits you will recognize them…and is it just me or is the “fruit” that Christianity has produced not a little bitter to the taste and unsettling in the stomach?
As long as there are cultures and religions we will never have social security, which is the theme of the Aquarian Age that we are ushering in right now....and so I feel like we have all been gathered to a great playing field. Not to play this time though, that’s what we've done for thousands of years. Now our egos are no longered required hence no need to play just observe...observation itself alters the course of what we view even if we make no action and speak no word.
We have been gathered to watch the most thrilling movie we have ever seen and we have no clue what will happen from this day out, not sure we even care to know.
So sticking with the theme of the thread…. religion period has no significance for me anymore...it feels like an old structure that is soon to be torn down. Hence Christians fall under that category, but they are more irritating to me because I live in the "bible belt" part of America where the ignorance and judgmental attitudes are just mind-blowing and disheartening at the same time.......but again all is as it should be for our times and the only thing that one can be sure of is change and change is upon us, I think we can all feel it...even if like me you have no clue what, when, where or why....I think the fun is going to be in figuring it all out, and I for one am excited. Ignorance is just not my thing, I have a Uranus, Jupiter and Mercury Grand Water Trine that tells you exactly how I feel about traditions passed down by men supposedly from god.




Well said. I completely agree with everything you typed.

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posted September 06, 2012 04:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for oneruledbymars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Juni,
Yes spiritual wisdom is what it is.
I guess there is the need to label.

So as a Christian are you following what Christ taught and not what the Bible says?
How do you draw the line?

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Randall, I completely agree. The subject of religion touches me deeply. I grew up in a strictly Christian home, and my parents took every word in the Bible at face value. Claiming empowerment while living in fear as though their actions are grater than their God. It took me a long time to realize that the Bible was written by men to control men. Yes, following its teachings motivates people to be better, but its tool is fear, and I cannot for the life of me understand how the God of Love, who cannot deny himself, uses fear as a means to draw people near. No wonder religion causes so much hate and separation, it takes away peoples voice and responsibility.

To me, spirituality/religion/God, is so personal. I feel God profoundly, and I see him everywhere. I am not motivated to be a better person because I'm afraid of the ultimate punishment, I am motivated to be a better person because its the right way to be. I want my daughter to grow up in love with life, in love with people, and in love and in touch with her deepest self. To be strong, open and accepting, to make mistakes and learn, to be responsible for her choices and her life. To admire individuality and support others, to know that we are all here for a different purpose, all with a unique path to God.

It took me a very, very long time to find a church that I feel represents the true essence of the love of God. Not a church that keeps up appearances, but a church where the people are real, where the pastor admits to being a hypocrite and counts on the Grace of God. A place where you feel safe and accepted just the way you are. I have a somewhat different view, but I love my church, and I love that God speaks to me and I attend every week and just to think I swore off church 5 years ago.

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ORMB, well, I don`t sacrafice goats, make war on disbelievers or smote anyone

The Bible contains much Wisdom as well. Proverbs and the Mystical Songs of Solomon for instance. I don`t throw out the baby with the bathwater.

Like you, I grew up in a fundalmentalist home. I learned at an early age that the teachings of Christ didn`t match most of the rest of the Bible and for me, there had to be a separation from the church. I loved the Christ but was uncomfortable with the Bible as a Nicene conglomeration to be used as truth .

Through other texts and Masters, I found the threads or continuous chains of spiritual wisdom that the whole of the Holy Texts couldn`t contain.

Eliminate the political, cultural and personal agendas that is much of the Bible and find the harmony, joy and love left.

That gives "proof" to those that say I`m not a "true Christian" by their definition.

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posted September 06, 2012 06:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't think the bible was purposely misconstrued by anyone for the most part. I just think that the people who rewrote and rewrote over all these years couldn't comprehend the true spiritual messages and symbolism and that's why we find ourselves scratching our heads at what the bible tries to portray today.

I used to think certain people were trying to keep the masses ignorant.. and it may be true to an extent, but I seriously think now that it's inadeptness that got the human race where it is today.

The B(I)B(L)(E) is an attempt to display the truth, but unfortunately it failed miserably.

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