posted June 07, 2010 01:06 PM         

The full picture of this situation from all angles might help in getting an idea on what the outcome may be. Can't help this Libra moon.

posted June 07, 2010 01:41 PM         

Now why couldn't someone give me that kind of answer when i ask a question?

posted June 07, 2010 01:52 PM         

I also started tread there noone answer me, that's it.

posted June 08, 2010 06:52 PM         

How to do it....
Very much a battle between you and him. Despite the mother winning in most cases (fathers for justice please - get Batman)
and despite all the trouble I keep hearing that he does, just look at the astrology.

I cannot look at both, as I didn't keep your natal, so feel free to post. Sure you will be fine, with whats gone on. Ain't making false promises

No experience in court matters, so, hope for the best eh?
House 1 for person involved and house 9 for court/legal matters. He has Scorpio ASC, so PLUTO as house 1 ruler. Cancer on 9th house, so MOON as 9th ruler.

Pluto is on a seperating square from Moon, and has past. Long term, that means he has had his fill from legal matters and it will get less favourable as the years pass. Short term, and with the eclipse, it's ok for him.
With Sun on the opposite side, having just squared natal Moon, you can see a square from his Pluto and upcoming new Moon (Gemini)
to his natal Moon, which rules house 9. Lots of 9th house pressure for him right now.

At the date of the court hearing, the eclipse aspect repeats the seperating square from Pluto to Moon, showing the best has gone.

Tip....when looking at the Moon in transit/full/new Moons, always look at the Sun as if the Sun is tied with the Moon, with some freedom allowed.

In conclusion, not the best time for him regards court matters. Know nothing of yours.

posted June 09, 2010 08:06 AM         

Ok What I've noticed upon looking on the charts of your ex, eldest son and second is that significant houses are activated by transiting planets.

Ok, i hate doing interpretations because I'm nowhere near as skilled as other people and I'd dead scared of getting it wrong..but this is what I see..

Your ex:

Funnily enough, this whole Jupiter/Uranus thing is happening in his 5th house where your children together would be situated...to me it looks like there is going to be a huge change there, maybe after the court case his r/ship with his sons will change??

Looking at the other houses that are activated for clues, venus in the 10th(house of daddies)..i think this court case will make him realise the profoundness of his love for his children, I think he'll be questioning his role as a father and whether he's done the right thing by not just his sons, but by you also. Maybe this realisation will make him understand that you are both parents of these kids and that you both need to cooperate and co-parent to raise these kids together, even though your apart.

The sun in the 8th house are lighting up the issues this house represents, sex/sexuality (the physical union that produced your offspring), taxes/joint finances (the backpay that it is owed to you) and partners resources (he's been relying on you be the main financial provider of your children together) and typical 8th house secrets (you wanting to keep your address private)for protection and safety..

It's interesting because with Mars in the 9th, which rules law and legal matters, shows there's a court case coming up where the outcome will have impact (BOOM like mars) whereas the 8th house shows what the legal matter is about.

Pluto in the 2nd..to me that says that you will possibly get what you are asking for because Pluto shows transformation, destruction..you're probably gonna ruin him financially a little bit cos he's gotta pay back what he's been holding out on.
I think losing so much financially will make him question his relationship with money and how its tied closely to his relationships and I do believe that Pluto will make him change his previous perspective and perhaps elevate to a new level of understanding..make him realise whats more important and place value on the people that he loves rather than a price tag..

Another thing tho..Pluto Lord of the Underworld in the house of how you make your money..hopefully this doesn't signify him finding underworld/criminal avenues to make the cash he'll be losing if he does have to backpay

Ok..so i'm taking a break and I shall be back in an hour or so to give the rest about your 2 boys let me know if that resonates somewhat

posted June 11, 2010 03:13 PM         

I haven't been able to post a reply! It keeps showing an error message

I promise tonight i will post my chart and also my response to your comments.

posted June 14, 2010 12:29 PM         

PS. My ex #1 is still harassing me from time to time even though it has been over 20 years!
Some guys just cannot stop being controlling creeps.
And the idiot court system still granted him visitation even though he gave booze to minors, used heroin, and well, the list of bad father crap just goes on and on...
things like not giving my son his meds for his heart , resulting in him having a heart attack at age 16.
In fact the heart problem was my exes fault
to begin with when he refused to give my son his meds during an illness which then caused heart damage.

I do hope you have better luck in court than I did.

posted June 14, 2010 12:43 PM         

Thank you.

posted June 14, 2010 01:10 PM         

To me emotional or mental abuse is just as, if not more abusive as its long-term abuse.

posted June 14, 2010 01:13 PM         

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He could charm flies off dog sh1t.

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Yes, keep me updated.
I am thinking positive thoughts for you and your sons!