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Topic: The death of your social life
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Isa Knowflake Posts: 77 From: Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 20, 2015 10:36 AM
Which transits represent the end of one's social life?I had a very active social and love life. I had lots of friends, I used to go out every weekend and I had a blast. This lasted for about 5 years. Three years ago I stopped going out, I selected who were my real friends and I dated a man who hated most of my friends, so I stupidly stopped hanging out with a few friends (I know, that's my own fault). So now I stay home depressed all the time because no one calls me anymore lol At the moment, my tUranus is in my 1st house, opposing my sun and mars in Libra. To make everything worst, my upcoming solar return has saturn is the 5th square venus (I can already feel it), and in the next one i'll have a 12th house stellium on my Natal 7th house. I was wondering if anyone here had been through this. IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 3224 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 20, 2015 10:41 AM
T Saturn over 12th house. When I had this transit, I felt like I was in jail.IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 7268 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 20, 2015 10:43 AM
Saturn in the 12th for me, too - at least in recent years. As well as the 1st. Saturn opposing personal planets, maybe. Pluto in the 3rd hasn't been helping me, I'm sure.IP: Logged |
bananaz Knowflake Posts: 140 From: Orlando, FL USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 20, 2015 12:01 PM
Going through this too...i also have uranus in the 1st. So that means you're Aries rising? Or taurus? Im wondering what happens when Pluto hits the 11th. Maybe this brings in a change? IP: Logged |
Isa Knowflake Posts: 77 From: Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 20, 2015 12:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by bananaz: Going through this too...i also have uranus in the 1st. So that means you're Aries rising? Or taurus? Im wondering what happens when Pluto hits the 11th. Maybe this brings in a change?
I am a pisces rising, late degrees. I hope so. But Pluto moves so sloooowly I get we go though difficult transits, but i'm stuck in this situation and I feel is forever.
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NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 824 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 20, 2015 12:53 PM
AHHHHHHHH while my Saturn returns to my 12th house in a few years Pluto will still be there.Saturn and Pluto conjunct in my 12th house soon to come!!!! ;-D!!! IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 2182 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 20, 2015 12:54 PM
Saturn over 11th or 7thIP: Logged |
Soltze Knowflake Posts: 324 From: Registered: Mar 2015
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posted August 20, 2015 01:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by Isa: I am a pisces rising, late degrees. I hope so. But Pluto moves so sloooowly I get we go though difficult transits, but i'm stuck in this situation and I feel is forever.
I also have a Pisces ASC. Transit Pluto is in the 11th, conjunct Natal Saturn. Started as a bad transit. Now I'm feeling pretty great socially wise...guess you'll be fine IP: Logged |
Isa Knowflake Posts: 77 From: Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 20, 2015 01:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by Soltze: I also have a Pisces ASC. Transit Pluto is in the 11th, conjunct Natal Saturn. Started as a bad transit. Now I'm feeling pretty great socially wise...guess you'll be fine
Thank you, fellow pisces rising. When Pluto enters Aquarius, i'll be older. And I feel like i'm wasting my youth right now. I'm 25. This worries me. IP: Logged |
athenaia Knowflake Posts: 132 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted August 20, 2015 01:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by Isa: Which transits represent the end of one's social life?I had a very active social and love life. I had lots of friends, I used to go out every weekend and I had a blast. This lasted for about 5 years. Three years ago I stopped going out, I selected who were my real friends and I dated a man who hated most of my friends, so I stupidly stopped hanging out with a few friends (I know, that's my own fault). So now I stay home depressed all the time because no one calls me anymore lol At the moment, my tUranus is in my 1st house, opposing my sun and mars in Libra. To make everything worst, my upcoming solar return has saturn is the 5th square venus (I can already feel it), and in the next one i'll have a 12th house stellium on my Natal 7th house. I was wondering if anyone here had been through this.
Oh my GOD, are you me?? I could have written an identical post - right down to the dates (and I'm also 25)! For me, Uranus has been transiting my 7th house since 2010 - social interactions have now become few and far in between, but when they do exist, they are kooky as hell. The 7th house is also the house of "open enemies" and a lot of people I never once suspected in my life turned out to have terrible intentions (this part in particular happened the past 3 years). T.Saturn is also going through my 2nd - money has never been more tight. It was also opposed my n.Sun/Mercury which is never a great time to look at your garden and hope for new growth. If anything the land is pretty darn salted at this point. Hopefully we'll get out of this social drought soon. I'm starting to go insane. I miss having daily, mindless conversations so much (never thought I'd ever say that!) IP: Logged |
astra7 Knowflake Posts: 912 From: I live at 667 Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 20, 2015 04:18 PM
Pluto in 1st H.IP: Logged |
Gemmi Knowflake Posts: 74 From: Registered: Dec 2014
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posted August 20, 2015 04:35 PM
I experienced social isolation when Saturn was transiting my 12th and 3rd house. Uranus in the 7th house made it more difficult to maintain friendships. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 7268 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 20, 2015 07:03 PM
Saturn over the 11th brought me friends.Pluto through the 1st, coincided with the transits I mentioned above - and opposing my Sun and Mercury and Chiron before that (and ceres). IP: Logged |
waxlobster Knowflake Posts: 163 From: Birmingham Registered: Mar 2011
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posted August 20, 2015 07:16 PM
I don't know the sort of areas/towns you all live in but I do know that you lose a lot of transient friends along the path of life. The key is to go out and do what you really love to do~ but apologies if I'm saying that to somebody in a small town where those options and/or new people are less available. Pluto will remove anything which isn't working, part of your path, or useful to your evolution. Saturn is, in a way the opposite, in that it grounds us to the human experience and tests all that regard to be important as part of that. I'm not going to experience Pluto in the 11th in this life, but it will form aspects to the ruler of my 11th house. The orignator of this string has referred to a 7th House chart emphasis. It's so much easier for the 7th House planets to express as a reflection of others. Everything regarding the 7th House and Libra thrives on response, so you do need people around you frequently to live those planets out. If the things you need aren't coming to you, go to them. Venus IS retrograde and we're all going to feel loss, so that we know what to rebuild over the ensuing months.. IP: Logged |
Seimei Knowflake Posts: 750 From: n2thedust Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 20, 2015 07:37 PM
pardon my spelling but> yeranus in ARIES 'can' be a time when things are upset for a good spell, depending of course what aspects to natal planets and what other transits may occur and of course how strong yeranus is natally and then life outside self is completely reformed as yeranus enter TAURUS------------------ -- IP: Logged |
NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 824 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 20, 2015 09:54 PM
Saturn in the 11th house boosts your social circle but it firsts cuts off any unnecessary people. People say that Saturn in the 11th took away their friends but thats because those people didn't bear any significance in your life.10th house deals with our environment so after Saturn passes through there it rewards you with the right people that you need. I can already feel the change in my circle IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 1325 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 20, 2015 11:42 PM
Pluto transit 3rd square Libra asc square Venus, I no longer have time for small chit chatting I find it boring, id rather talk about interesting and meaningful things obviously this has cost me friends.IP: Logged |