posted February 19, 2010 01:13 AM            

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What every woman really longs for is a nice guy who is a bad boy only in the bedroom.

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I can't speak for other women, but yes I agree.

posted February 19, 2010 05:39 AM            

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What every woman really longs for is a nice guy who is a bad boy only in the bedroom.

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True for me.. but Randall you said they don't exist. I agree with some of your post - but not that part.
Lots of men are easy-going and fun socially and a total animal in the bedroom.

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After all, us guys are always taught to be polite to women, and we extend that to the bedroom.

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You haven't had sex with many Sagittarian men, have you Randall? *kiddin*

I guess "niceness" is up to interpretation. I like men I find interesting and intelligent. Men (and women) with a normal level of "niceness".. because I don't believe in false over-done niceness.

Re- Bad Boys - Maybe this is just my own interpretation of particular people.. But whenever I've encountered or met a guy who I would describe as a "bad boy", I almost always found him unintelligent. I'm not saying that as an insult - I actually found him mentally bellow par.. "wheel keeps turning, but the hamster's dead"..

I wonder why this is ^ Maybe they neglect their brain and focus on their penis (so the brain doesn't get nearly as much exercise or blood-supply).. Could that be it?
I always wondered why I find them bellow average IQ.. at best average.

Which is a huge sexual put off btw.. Because I couldn't look at a man as a strong person unless he was intelligent.

:edit: I forgot to add.. VERY very often.. I've seen and heard of people behaving in opposite-contrasting ways in the bedroom and in their daily lives.

For example - the guy (or girl) who you think is a "bad boy" (or a femme fatale) is actually embarrassed about the size or appearance of his …… (or some other physical or mental problem).. and therefore gets extremely shy and odd when it comes to doing the deed.

Or the guy who you think is quiet and meek.. becomes very dominant and hardcore sexually.

I've had this occur with Libra and Pisces men (they appear all mannered and sweet - but they're actually rougher sexually.. It could be the respective Aries and Scorpio Venus)

I've never had sex with someone I see as a bad boy, so I haven't *checked* my theory first hand.. (Although I've heard stories).

posted February 19, 2010 03:08 PM            

I guess for me bad boy = Alpha male

posted February 19, 2010 06:02 PM            

Oh ok that's not what I'd describe as a bad boy at all. That's the male version of me.. which I do like, v much so

I guess in virtue of being referred to as "boys" - I just can't imagine "boys" - as the "alpha male".
I see the "bad boy" as partially having a peter pan complex and never growing up.

They're forever more of a try-hardy little cub..

Then a real - genuine - grown-up - 100% Lion..

posted February 19, 2010 06:04 PM            

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I would be deeply disturbed by someone who wasn't a dirty talker.

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Jane LOL - Actually I would be also. I def. don't equate "dirty talking" to being "bad". Basically everything sexual is "good" in my book..heheh I guess that comes with being a fire sign