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Topic: Hate having Virgo in my chart
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Hope33
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Ireland
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted June 29, 2013 04:31 PM
  
Hi everyone,
this issue has been bothering me for a long time. Pretty much since I realised there is more to astrology than just your Sun sign (there can't be just 12 types of people after all).I have some great planet/asteroid placements and aspects, which supposed to make me a fun-loving and easy-going type, with the hint of kinkiness, but sometimes I feel like I have a bit of a split personality when it comes to bedroom :S Good points:
Sun in Leo
Moon in Sagittarius
Mars in Leo
many more + aspects Bad points:
Venus Virgo
Asc Virgo
Mercury Virgo Seriously??? I must have been a really horrible person in past life. While my bedroom activities fantasies run wild, my partner is hot as hell (libra sun, leo mars, sag venus and aqua asc), there should be no problems, right? Our scenario: we get very passionate, throw each other all over the place, but then... I end up thinking about if the window is closed, is the bed nice, I should have lit candles... all these stupid things. It's not us either, our synastry is outstanding(of course, with some tention due to him badly aspecting to my Virgos) with all the "destined/soulmates/passion" aspects. PS, switching off Virgo works when I have a glass of wine  PS2, I bet I put a smile on your face. You are welcome Is there any way I can switch off my Virgo. Or can it fade a bit with the age? Oh my, feels like I have a split personality. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 2449
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 29, 2013 04:34 PM
You just gotta connect with your inner goddess. IP: Logged |
Hope33
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Ireland
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted June 29, 2013 04:43 PM
Oh my, I even forgot to mention my pickiness...Thank you for a quick reply, StarlightSmileSupreme. Inner Goddess. In my imagination, it was always some sort of a sexy nymphe, who could seduce any man she wanted, using the power of sex to the max... Hmmm... Please, do you know how to find her. I want to be that nymphe for my man. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 2449
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 29, 2013 04:46 PM
You should just have your guy give you a massage. How does that sound?IP: Logged |
Hope33
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Ireland
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted June 29, 2013 05:09 PM
sounds awesome! I love massages.Sorry guys, just had to get it out of my chest Hope no Virgos were offended Seriously, hope it will fade away eventually. IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 856
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 29, 2013 05:24 PM
Welcome to my world..sadly I will forever be tainted by Virgo so I am trying real hard to put my Virgo Mercury to work in hopes that it will manifest itself in some glorious "self-acceptance". IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Moderator Posts: 4609
From:
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 29, 2013 05:28 PM
Virgo can be way too high-strung.Just relax, guys. You're perfect just the way you are and everything's fine!
No need to worry.
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ShineYourLight
Knowflake Posts: 62
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Registered: May 2013
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posted June 29, 2013 05:33 PM
Embrace your inner Virgo, resisting will make it worse!
& remember you can't blame everything on a zodiac sign, you have control over your own life! I'm a Virgo Sun & Mercury & I know how annoying it can be but there are a lot of great qualities too! Like SSS said embrace your inner goddess! 
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Hope33
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Ireland
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted June 29, 2013 05:44 PM
Oh thanks guys, nice to see some support.Well, I can say, that Virgo Asc is good in a way it makes me "mysterious". Guys always say, that they can never know what I am thinking about. My friends call me "sexy secretary" haha Physically, I am good - looking and attractive, so I guess, it's not all that bad. I love being mysterious But personally, I just wish I could relax a bit. IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 856
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 29, 2013 05:54 PM
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Originally posted by Hope33:
Oh thanks guys, nice to see some support.Well, I can say, that Virgo Asc is good in a way it makes me "mysterious". Guys always say, that they can never know what I am thinking about. My friends call me "sexy secretary" haha Physically, I am good - looking and attractive, so I guess, it's not all that bad. I love being mysterious But personally, I just wish I could relax a bit.
Yoga and red wine is good, at the same time if at all possible  IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 2449
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 29, 2013 05:54 PM
Actually you would be better off without drinking anything. Rely on FOREPLAY and skip the booze. Booze only numbs you.IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
Knowflake Posts: 4112
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Registered: May 2012
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posted June 29, 2013 07:08 PM
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Originally posted by ShineYourLight:
Embrace your inner Virgo, resisting will make it worse!
& remember you can't blame everything on a zodiac sign, you have control over your own life! I'm a Virgo Sun & Mercury & I know how annoying it can be but there are a lot of great qualities too! Like SSS said embrace your inner goddess!
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themischievousone
Knowflake Posts: 164
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 30, 2013 06:13 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Hope33:
PS, switching off Virgo works when I have a glass of wine
Glass of wine is always fun. Am I the only Virgo around here that likes being a Virgo? LOL IP: Logged |
Hope33
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Ireland
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted June 30, 2013 06:56 AM
There is absolutely nothing wrong with any sign, we all have good and bad traits.It's just feels like it is restricting me too much, like my thoughts don't match up my actions. At least my Virgo Venus is trine Taurus Juno in 9th house (where it is mostly activated), which make my Venus better. I think I just need to relax, with yoga (always wanted to try), wine, or two together, and embrace my feminine part Virgo gives me IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 2449
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 30, 2013 08:48 AM
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Originally posted by themischievousone:
Glass of wine is always fun.Am I the only Virgo around here that likes being a Virgo? LOL
I tend to like it more when others are against us
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Chiemi
Moderator Posts: 796
From: Michigan
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 30, 2013 09:02 AM
Psshh aren't there some people in the p*rn biz who have virgo placements?I agree with SSS, you just have to connect with your inner goddess IP: Logged |
Chiemi
Moderator Posts: 796
From: Michigan
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted June 30, 2013 09:03 AM
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Originally posted by themischievousone:
Am I the only Virgo around here that likes being a Virgo? LOL
you're not alone   IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart
Knowflake Posts: 916
From:
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 30, 2013 05:44 PM
quote:
Originally posted by themischievousone:
Glass of wine is always fun.Am I the only Virgo around here that likes being a Virgo? LOL
I think some people just like to pin their natural insecurities and failures on their Virgo placements. IP: Logged |
Lysette
Newflake Posts: 4
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted June 30, 2013 06:00 PM
Virgo sun, moon and mercury here and I don't have that problem. But maybe that's because of my venus and mars in leo..
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Hope33
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Ireland
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted June 30, 2013 07:02 PM
SmilingHeart, you are so critical. Must be a bit of a Virgo in you I am a very confident and successful young post-graduate. I am sure there are many other people, who ask for advice in astrology forums are successful and happy people, too. It just happened, that I like perfection a bit too much And I blame my Virgo Venus. IP: Logged |
Swift Freeze
Knowflake Posts: 351
From: One World
Registered: Nov 2009
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posted July 01, 2013 03:40 AM
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Originally posted by Hope33:
Please, do you know how to find her. I want to be that nymphe for my man.
I think you need to discover a bit more about who you are. You say that you are into it, but then your mind drifts to other things. To me that just sounds like you and your man are not on the same wavelength/timescale i.e. one of you is going too slow or too fast for the other. Or you are not really losing yourselves in the moment. That is fine, some people don't. I would suggest that you should take control, just do whatever you need for yourself first and not worry about your man. You know what a Nymphomaniac does? They don't care about how good it is for the other person, they only want to get themselves off. ------------------
Learn lots. Don't judge. Laugh for no reason. Be nice. Seek Happiness. Follow your dreams. IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart
Knowflake Posts: 916
From:
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted July 02, 2013 07:18 AM
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Originally posted by Hope33:
SmilingHeart, you are so critical. Must be a bit of a Virgo in you I am a very confident and successful young post-graduate. I am sure there are many other people, who ask for advice in astrology forums are successful and happy people, too. It just happened, that I like perfection a bit too much And I blame my Virgo Venus.
Hey! I am indeed Virgoan with Venus in Virgo and I don't think that's it. I don't know what causes those problems for you but as a fellow Venus in Virgo I can't allow you to fault that placement alone ;-) Have you looked at Mars aspects in your chart? Because I think that could reveal a bit more. IP: Logged |
Hope33
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Ireland
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 02, 2013 03:57 PM
Hmmm, I don't know. Mars seems fine. It's in Leo (so is my Sun. My Moon is in Sag). Mars (h11) trine Neptune(h4)
Mars trine Uranus(h4)
Mars square Pluto(h3) (Cafe Astrology describes how I feel quite well "Your sexual desire nature is a very strong one. More likely, however, is a very focused and intense sexual nature. This also adds a very magnetic quality to your appeal").
Really, I didn't mean to offend any Virgos, I appreciate a lot of traits it gives me (mysteriousness, willing to please, adaptability), but when it comes to sex, it just doesn't match with my over all mood and thoughts.
Like Swift Freeze said, " just sounds like you and your man are not on the same wavelength/timescale i.e. one of you is going too slow or too fast for the other." - me and my partner have Venus Square Venus in Synastry (his Venus is Sag), so I also can apply this words from Swift Freeze "Or you are not really losing yourselves in the moment."
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