Phoenix
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posted April 28, 2012 05:09 PM
  
Hi,
I need some help here. My ex-hubbie left me 8 months ago, he's having a tr pluto in 12th house square his moon on 8th house.. i can't move on 
In another astrology site, from 1 to 10 he’s having a 10.. I've read that with that square a person gets rid of people or situations.. he's been destructive with me.. we were together for 9 years, and when he left he told me he doesn't love me for 3 years, then 6 years (we have a 4 years daughter), then 3 years agains, he blocked me from his life, facebook, messenger, email, everything, start danding, lost a lot of weight, got rid of me, treated me like garbage.. only speaks to me about things he wants, never answers things I ask (he only speaks to me by email, even about our daughter).. I can write him love emails.. its like he has no heart I thought it was something temporary, since I’m aware we both needed to grow, and he doesn’t do things in a very transparent way.. i'm totally shocked, taking pills, a severe depression (its the only thing I’ve noticed he cared about me in the last months).. a faith crisis, I know we had problems, but the only thing I was sure is that he loved me.. and I dont believe he doesnt love me for 6 years now, since last year he cryed in front of his mother saying he loved me..I could forgive all this.. I love him so much.. I was totally shocked.. he’s someone who didn’t like to speak about things, it was like a game (manipulation) even tough I’ve tried so hard to talk to him so many times.. he would only speak if I didn’t ask.. but I knew I could count on him.. With this transit I tought me or his mama could die, I tought he could get rid of people.. never tough he would get rid of me I’m sorry about my English but.. with all this.. I’m having a faith crisis..
He’s a libra guy wih asc cappie, so I know Pluto has all to do with this..
I dont now what to do.. in the grupovenus site I saw that we're starting a tr uranus trine to our composite mc, plus we're approaching a retrograde venus in gemini, he's libra and my venus is in gemini.. In the last months, when I realised that, I always had hope that this could mean a reconciliation, even tough all the things i read about that pluto transit.. yes, I dont recognize him anymore.. even wuth our daughter.. its like he doesnt care.. he's lying just to be with her less time.. he passed one month without calling to speak to her.. and says he'll pass 2 months if he wants to.. i'm totally shocked.. I love him deeply.. can someone help me understand or advice me of someone who can help me? I’ll pay if its needed.. but I need to release my mind from this.. you cant imagine the things I’m thinking now (maybe you do  .. I’d like to believe that we had to be apart so that we could change things about ourselves, but then we could have a better relationship with eachother.. I’m having one of the best phases in my life.. I cant share it with him Its like we were meant to be together only in difficult times, and now that things are better (we have a house, car, baby, dog, 2 jobs, etc.).. we’re apart?
My uranus is in my 1st house but I’d never leave him, I noticed this transit by doing things that I would not dare to do before (tattooing myself, doing a Crusoe even tough i’m scared of water and a lot of other things I’ve done.. its been one of the best phases of my life.. I’m really enjoying it.. but please.. when is he coming back to me? Do you you understand what I’m saying?). Its like I’ve been in denial for the last 8 mpnths but then, suddenly, 2 weeks ago I woke up. I have the saturn in my 7th house also and I’ve read that it means breaking up but it can also mean “Positively, you may now feel ready to make personal commitments and take on more responsibility in your relationships, based on an assessment of your true needs and capacity to give.”.. and that’s how I felt this.. we’ve never been married but I was going to ask him that.. but he left..
I've read that tr uranus trine composite mc in the grupovenus site "Your relationship takes a surprising, unexpected turn now, but this probably will not be upsetting. Rather, it is likely to be exhilarating. The two of you may be attracted to something you would always considered too wild, something outside of your previous experience, or something you used to do in your more daring moments.".. I really tought that both of us would change and gain freedom in ours minds but then we would come back together.. something I’m noticing about me is that I’m doing things in our home that I never did before and thinking that he would enjoy seeing it.. but he’s not here to see it does this transit mean that I’m going to sell this house (it’s from both of us and its got to be sold) and I’m moving to a house of mine? Sincerely.. I don’t think that is “exhilarating”.. maybe to my soul growth..
He’s having his Solar Return Ascendant in Scorpio mine is Piscis. He has PROGRESSED PISCES RISING WITH NATAL ASCENDANT IN CAPRICORN.
He’s having also a tr Neptune opposite his venus (don’t know if he’s got somebody else).. and in July he’s having a tr JUPITER SQUARE VENUS and a tr JUPITER TRINE MOON.
In that same month I’m having tr URANUS SEXTILE VENUS and URANUS SEXTILE VENUS (maybe somebody new)..
Our composite have/or is about to have other transits:
Neptune opposition Jupiter
Saturn trine Mars
Jupiter trine Saturn
Jupiter opposition Uranus
Jupiter square Sun
Jupiter sextile Venus
Mars square Medium Coeli
Uranus trine Medium Coeli
Jupiter square Mars
Jupiter square Ascendent
5/30/2012 5/31/2012 Mars conjunct Mercury
5/31/2012 5/31/2012 Mars sextile Moon
Our synstry http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?cid=on6fileHVMR6Z-u990286469&lang=e&gm=a1&nhor=861101&nho2=7342804&btyp=61&mth=gw&sday=28&smon=4&syr=2012&hsy=-1&zod=&orbp=&rs=0&add=18&add=19&ad d=20&add=22&add=12&add=13&add=14&add=15&add=136199&ast=4543%2C+763%2C+447%2C+16%2C+3811%2C+42%2C+1923%2C+4386
Our composite http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?cid=on6fileHVMR6Z-u990286469&lang=e&gm=a1&nhor=861101&nho2=7342804&btyp=621&mth=gw&sday=28&smon=4&syr=2012&hsy=-1&zod=&orbp=&rs=0&add=18&add=19&a dd=20&add=22&add=12&add=13&add=14&add=15&add=136199&ast=4543%2C+763%2C+447%2C+16%2C+3811%2C+42%2C+1923%2C+4386
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