posted May 12, 2009 07:11 AM         

i think my synastry w him is stronger THOUGH her birth time is unknown.
im posting the three charts here if any of you experts could have a look and express an opinion would be very welcome!

i add that my sun moon midpoint is conj to his sun moon midpoint even if w a large orb,6 deg.

thanks!

HIM :

ME :

posted May 12, 2009 08:24 AM         

and my sun is antiscion his moon

mostly karma with his mars and sat in my 12th conj jupiter..

Amowls, i know her time unkown makes it hard to read but when i look at her saturn in leo -even if its in his 7th- triple squares his sun venus and jupiter and then squares his uranus in scorpio makes me think that way... and his pluto libra squaring all her cappy stuff...and, her cappy stuff also opposing his saturn and mars in cancer.
to me looks a difficult syn but of course there s alot of wishful thinking involved on my end!..

posted May 12, 2009 09:10 AM         

The ASC-DSC conjunction is too wide for my taste, even though of course it would be some kind of underlying influence.

And I don`t see that Moon-Sun-antiscion, I see a Moon-Moon antiscion though, which could be emotionally attractive.
It involves the ruler of 6th and 12th house, so to me this seems like a very karmic connection. Like you almost have a "contract" to take care of each other in some sense.

The Nodal axis on the MC/IC-axis is a very strong one, I would say, and emphasises that there is a spiritual or at least karmic connection between you two, but in some cases connections with the Moon or IC can be more of a family kind than romantic.

Your rulers of 7th house are trine each other, which looks nice and harmonious.

What I wonder is, how much harmony can he deal with or does he want at all?
He has a Mars-Saturn-conjunction, and a Venus-Uranus-opposition added to his Aquarius ASC.
He seems to have this huge inner tension between holding on to the old and not being able of letting go and on the other hand this urge for freedom and not wanting to really settle down and commit, evne though of course it is possible that he projects this side onto the woman in his life.

From a completely unastrological side.
You say he has been with that woman for the last 2 years?
Well, I`m sorry to say that, but didn`t he already made his decision?
And if he sais he just wants to be friends with you, why do you doubt that?

EDIT:
I think you really do have some strong synastric aspect, which definitely point to some sort of bond between you, but the natals are just potentials.

posted May 12, 2009 09:19 AM         

If he's with another woman for the last 2 years, you should just move on and be with another guy.

Holding onto him emotionally could be blocking you from meeting men that are right for you.

Transiting Pluto is squaring your Saturn in 8th which seems like a time where you could be forced to let go of rigid patterns in intimacy.

Even if he has better synastry with you, it doesn't mean that he's going to be with you. He might be meant to be with that woman for a long time because they could be learning major karmic lessons from each other.

posted May 12, 2009 09:21 AM         

It looks like a very intense connection, and he with so much Uranian energy might have gotten scared.

posted May 12, 2009 04:20 PM         

DD i totally agree there s alot about nurturing in our synastry ..he used to tell me he feels familiar with me and feels like we know eachother from a long time. he talked past lives etc.we were very spiritual. our venuses conj in my 9th house.and for some reason he was the only man i ever thought about having a family with,,back then,,of course now is all shattered.
his venus uranus opposition is what kills me
,,his uranus there on my SN is also very felt on my part, like he did this over and over again in past incarnations.
he used to say 'u wanna cage me in a relationship..im not ready' then he caged himself w a woman he barely knew.he moved in w her,but w me he wasnt ready.i accepted that in time cos in the end i just wanted him to follow his path and be happy but its been so hard and caused so much pain.

his decisions are unstable as his uranian energy,, thats why i dont think his relationship w her will last.and too many malefic planets in hard aspect btw them.

i dont know how to check the progressions im a newbie!! sigh!!!

he keeps asking me for pictures of me like he s obsessed and tells me he wants to see me and 'catch up'. he says 'i never stopped thinkin of u' and chats w me online when his woman is sleeping. so he chose her but in fact his mind is not really w her. he says ur still in my energy and i m grateful for the way u made me feel and that our meeting and bond is already been linked-whatever that means he speaks crazy that way sometimes. anyways not in friends terms.

i thought my sun 6 aries and his moon 2 virgo were antiscion,,lol i must be confused im new to these calculations.
also we have ceres ceres at the same degree and my valentine is one degree conj his jupiter if thats worth anything,,
i remember long time ago IQhunk said that wasnt a really strong connection cos there was no asc aspects no sun moon aspects and no much asteroid synastry going on.

i d really like to see those progression tho,,can anyone help me?

thank you knowflakes!!

posted May 12, 2009 07:06 PM         

But DD really struck a chord when she said "He seems to have this huge inner tension between holding on to the old and not being able of letting go and on the other hand this urge for freedom and not wanting to really settle down and commit."

That was very true for him. As soon as I would let him go, he'd come running right back and if he felt a whisper of my attraction to him, he was gone again. He just wanted to know that I still wanted him. I think he was scared in general too but you cannot un-scare someone - they have to get there on their own.

posted May 13, 2009 05:37 PM         

yes sometimes looks like he just wants to make sure im still there for him, that i still like him..
then again we know how SLOW tauruses are.

DD s post struck a cord w me too what he - or is a she?- said is totally fitting.with saturn and mars in cancer he s deeply rooted in the past no matter how much his aqua asc drives him away towards new adventures.
but how come he DID commit to this stranger and moved in w her and run from me like i was the devil..? the non committment was only good for me then but not for her.
thats why i wondered since their synastry is kind of screechy-bumpy

posted May 13, 2009 06:39 PM         

he may even leave her if he doesn't get back with you. uranus relationships tend to break up. especially when they start feeling too constricting/predictable. that doesn't mean you can rely on him.

posted May 13, 2009 07:38 PM         

of course after what he did i dont think he expects me to drop at his knees but he ll sure try.

i totally agree on the uranus venus opposition.
but he always had long relationships..
except with me!!!!!
he keeps saying we re connected without the boyfriend/gf mumbo jumbo.

but w the one before me he was with for 7 years.
this one is been 2 years, i only got the uranian 9 months! unfair!!