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Topic: When A Synastry Shows Challenging Aspects...........
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Nephthys Moderator Posts: 38 From: California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 28, 2009 08:16 PM
If a chart has challenging aspect(s), let's say, for example, Moon Square Pluto:"This is another one of those Pluto (or Saturn) karmic patterns from something one of you did against the other in earlier lifetimes that needs to be worked out and balanced in this one. It will take lots of gentle patience, tolerance, understanding, and forgiveness to ease the stress and strain of this vibration." ~ from Linda Goodman's Relationship Signs Well, I was thinking. If a couple decides to split up because they have "issues" that manifest due to aspect(s) such as this, wouldn't it make sense to work on the issues and resolve them, rather than wait until the next lifetime (which they will probably be born with the same *unresolved* aspects between one another)? So I guess what I am asking is that just because there are challenging aspects in a synastry and the couple seems to have problems sometimes, but other times they get on great, when does the OVERSOUL decide to stay together in this lifetime and deal with all karma and work everything out? If people keep running away from one another, then aren't you just going to have to encounter the person again in the next lifetime and have similar aspects all over again? Just wondering everyone's thoughts on this and I hope I articulated well what I wanted to say???? ( I personally would like to take care of all karma in this lifetime ) IP: Logged |
comica23 Knowflake Posts: 66 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 28, 2009 08:59 PM
Well, karma and astrology aside..Would we give up an important relationship just coz it has problems? Of course, there are some problems that are just too hard to deal, or maybe even impossible, and so the relationship might only bring pain. But if a relationship is really worth it, and if you really love each other, then why not try to give it a chance and to deal with it together? Even the most perfect relationship has its issues, and the most precious loving long relationships are achieved through a lot of effort. And well, if we talk about karma, big chances are, whenever we drop a relationship coz it has problems, we will soon encounter these very same (or similar) problems in our next relationships too, 'till we learn to deal with them. Oh the power of karma. XP It doesn't really matter if it's karmic or not. If people truly love each other, they will try to deal with things together (unless it's either too hard to deal with and there's nothing more but pain in this relationship). IP: Logged |
comica23 Knowflake Posts: 66 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 28, 2009 09:06 PM
By the way, I'm not sure if we really have more than this current life, yet I'd say that if you love each other, and aside of the problems, you are still happy with each other, then don't wait for the next life, try to solve it together in this life. ^_~ Besides, if there's really karma, then you both met in this lifetime for a reason right?IP: Logged |
Nephthys Moderator Posts: 38 From: California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 28, 2009 10:31 PM
Yes, I totally agree with your response. I do very strongly believe in reincarnation and karma. Thank you. IP: Logged |
Virgovenusleo Knowflake Posts: 112 From: unknown Registered: May 2009
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posted May 28, 2009 11:43 PM
I think That yes if you keep running from eachother..like if someone ran from you in this life i think you will run from them in the next. Someone hast to break the pattern sometimeIP: Logged |
amowls* Knowflake Posts: 177 From: richmond va Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 29, 2009 12:05 AM
If people keep running away from one another, then aren't you just going to have to encounter the person again in the next lifetime and have similar aspects all over again?No, you have an entirely new birth chart to work with. IP: Logged |
iQ Knowflake Posts: 90 From: Chennai, India Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 29, 2009 04:30 AM
<< If people keep running away from one another, then aren't you just going to have to encounter the person again in the next lifetime and have similar aspects all over again? >>And because of the new birth chart in the next lifeline, the challenges will become even more intense. ------------------ Soul Mate Love Calculator http://tamsoft.co.in/articles.html IP: Logged |
Virgovenusleo Knowflake Posts: 112 From: unknown Registered: May 2009
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posted May 29, 2009 04:40 AM
Why not just work out the karms in this life and recieve your karmic jewelIP: Logged |