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Topic: This friend is suffering and cannot let go
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hanakin Knowflake Posts: 32 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 01, 2009 10:09 AM
Ok so here is a synastry of a friend of mine. She broke up with her fiancé last year and since then she is the ghost of her own self.It's quite heartbreaking really she wonders if there is a chance her ex will get back to her since she feels he is the man of her life (the asc are so close plus her moon conjunct his asc too). They broke up when Uranus started playing with them (as most couple who are into the virgo pisces axis).
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Coffee Knowflake Posts: 402 From: Leeds Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 01, 2009 11:09 AM
Just a general scan through, the outside planets (red) are in Leo, Virgo and Sagittarius. All in "bad" aspect with the inside (blue) persons planets placed mainly in Pisces and also Sagittarius.Both 7th rulers are conjunct, which is great. The big trouble is that each persons 7th rulers, neptune, are in square with the other persons 1st rulers, Mercury. You need to look at both 7th to 7th and also 7th to 1st. A Neptune relationship that doesnt work. By Neptune, I mean the good AND the bad sides of Neptune. Selfless love, just having a feeling of belonging compared with deceit and over-inflated expectations. In short, no. In long, a bad relationship to get out of. Just had a skim through, maybe someone else can pick something up. The answer should be NO. Dont go there. IP: Logged |
amowls* Knowflake Posts: 196 From: richmond va Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 01, 2009 12:24 PM
Can you post the composite too? I'm better at reading those IP: Logged |
Coffee Knowflake Posts: 402 From: Leeds Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 01, 2009 12:56 PM
If my maths is accurate, that puts Mercury conjunct (or even opposite) Neptune. Both Virgo risers, 1st and 7th possibly conjunct.Yeah, lets see it. Cant wait for the excitement. IP: Logged |
hanakin Knowflake Posts: 32 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 01, 2009 02:58 PM
Thanks ok i'm going to post their composite too IP: Logged |
amowls* Knowflake Posts: 196 From: richmond va Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 01, 2009 03:41 PM
Probably a deep/intense and close relationship. Moon conjunct Pluto, Sun in the 4th along with the chart ruler (Mercury). Yet the Sun is conjunct Uranus which can bring an air of impersonality. Or feelings about the relationship/each other were off and on. Sometimes they hated each other, other times they were madly in love (also with Venus opposite Uranus/Sun).Why did they break up? Over finances? Or differences in philosophies? IP: Logged |
hanakin Knowflake Posts: 32 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 01, 2009 04:06 PM
They broke up because she wanted him to stop criticizing her friends and let her see other friends of hers and not JUST and ONLY him.IP: Logged |
Glaucus Knowflake Posts: 283 From: Sacramento,California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 01, 2009 04:35 PM
she seems that she's better off without that guy. He seems too possessive. If she goes back to the guy, he will probably do the same stuff again,and she will end up breaking up with him again. That Sun-Uranus oppose Venus in the composite seems like it wasn't meant to last long. It definitely indicates instability in the relationship. It can indicate on again and off again relationship the Moon conjunct Pluto in Scorpio can indicate power,control issues as well as issues of letting go...with the possibility of elimination, getting rid of the junk. In this case, she got rid of him because of his possessiveness. Raymond
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hanakin Knowflake Posts: 32 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 01, 2009 04:52 PM
Oh well they didn't break up before they stayed together for two years previously.They did have a lot of disagreements and postponed the wedding though. IP: Logged |