posted June 06, 2009 11:47 AM         

"You've heard the familiar statement and question 'I have good news and I have bad news. Which do you want to hear first?' Well, let's consider the good news first. It will act as a soft pillow to cushion the bad news, which isnt really all that bad, just a smidgeon difficult, not really unbearable.

The 'good news' is that Saturn is inclined to provide Venus with much-needed mental, emotional, and financial stability, while Venus has a capacity for sympathy and affection that can stimulate Saturn's confidence and decrease Saturn's tendency to submit to pessimism and depression. This aspect also strongly encourages mutual loyalty, as Saturn feels a responsibility for Venus's welfare and Venus will be compassionate and solicitous of Saturn's unspoken needs. This aspect also tends to make any kind of relationship or association binding and enduring. So far, fine.

Now for the 'bad news', but remember that nothing is so bad it cant be overcome. There is the possibility that Saturn can become overly possesive of Venus, behaving in a selfish and strict manner, insistently demanding obedience, which can, understandably, considerably chill Venus's normally affectionate nature. Venus will sometimes feel smothered and restricted by Saturn's criticism and attempts to discipline , and yet, if Saturn is stifled from expressing these Saturnine inclinations, it can be frustrating to the point of causing Saturn to suffer inwardly. The solution to the problems presented by this conjunction is a puzzlement. But surely the well-known and recognized wisdom of the Saturn essence, combined with the even deeper wisdom and understanding of love, which is synonymous with the Venus essence, gives you the power to solve any kind of puzzlement."

Moon conjunct Saturn

"One might call this vibration somewhat paradoxical as far as breaking up and making up are concerned. As you're probably already aware, your relationship is not always a garden path of lilacs and sweat peas. There are a few thorns and pebbles along the way, tripping you up now and then, however strong the bond linking you may be, and this aspect, as i said, paradoxically, makes that bond even stronger, although at times it may seem more like double handcuffs than 'the golden tie that binds'!

Remember that Saturn is the planet of karma; therefore, the person whose Saturn conjuncts the Moon (or any planet) of the other is the one who's in charge of the karmic lessons to be learned by both of you. This may upset the Moon, but there's about as much use fighting it as trying to stop the sunrise. Saturn's attempts to discipline the Moon and take charge of the relationship can make the Moon feel stifled and restricted, even suffocated. Also, Saturn, when in a negative mood, may exaggerate trifles and turn cool, injuring the Moon's sensitive feelings. Periodically, Saturn will place some sort of limitation on the relationship and be overly critical, which naturally depresses the Moon. When the Moon responds with resentful , hurt withdrawal, Saturn, instead of sympathizing, is capable of becoming even colder. This aspect sometimes causes one of your relatives to interfere in some way and dampen your spirits, adding to the frustrations.

Admittedly, the planet Saturn is a strict master of karma, but Saturn cant help playing the assigned cosmic role, and the Moon should try to keep this in mind. Now and then each of you feels like saying to the other, 'Lighten up!' although for different reasons. Actually, those two words will go a long way toward lifting the burden of this planetary conflict: Lighten up, lighten up, lighten up, lighten up! Because of the heavy karma of this aspect, the stress of the learning process is not as painful as the loneliness would be if you parted."

posted June 08, 2009 10:53 AM         

He just left thats why it was easy..And how long were you two involved before he left..