posted June 19, 2009 05:14 PM         

OR, depending on the situation, you could be obsessing about him and wishing so much that he wanted to contact you that you imagine he is.

Either way, get very clear and quiet and really listen to your own intuition. Ask yourself: Is there something you want to say to him? What is it you want to have happen? Do you want peace from his contacting you, or do you want to connect? Decide what you are really sensing intuitively and what your real motivations are and then gently close the door to this contact inside yourself, or you can get in touch.

Here are some external clues:

-If this guy is your brother, husband, ex-husband, father, long-term partner who lives with you, or best friend for decades who is now in the hospital--you are probably getting an intuitive message that this person needs you, whether or not he is sending the message consciously. In that case, call, don't text, say, "For some reason I've been thinking about you a lot lately--is everything okay?" (It sounds silly, but this happened to me when my baby sister's cat died--for hours, I had the intense sense that my sis needed me to contact her--we usually don't talk too often--and when I called she was in pretty bad shape and needed someone to reach out.)