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Topic: Chiron in the 7th natal and love
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AquariusMoon Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Uranus Registered: Oct 2009
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posted November 05, 2009 07:51 PM
nevermind. ill go to astro;-)IP: Logged |
cooljen Knowflake Posts: 42 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 07, 2009 07:02 PM
You deleted your post I was going to say I have Chiron in the 7th (in Gemini). Though, I dont know if I have much to add about my own personal experience with it. I havent exactly had any relationships, but I also have Saturn in Libra (conjunct Pluto in the 12th), and I think Saturn in Libra has a hand in the 'no relationship/late blooming' thing too, or whatever you want to call it. Nevertheless I'm also interested in hearing if anyone else has that placement or has any thoughts on it!------------------ Leo with Scorpio Rising & Moon in Taurus. IP: Logged |
AquariusMoon Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Uranus Registered: Oct 2009
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posted November 07, 2009 07:48 PM
Sorry my post was long and I deleted because no one was responding and I thought it was silly my thread just all alone lol. I was just going to say what is people experiences with chiron in the 7th. i heard its hard for them to find 'true love' or they find it late in life not sure if its true. i wrote about my brothers experience because he has this. i dont have this but i just wanted to hear experiences. are you young?IP: Logged |
cooljen Knowflake Posts: 42 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 07, 2009 09:26 PM
I turned 26 in August. IP: Logged |
popcorn Knowflake Posts: 515 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted November 08, 2009 02:44 AM
I have chiron in transit in my 7 house in 2-3 year. My last year I have only on off relationship...Next year when it go in to pisces it's move in to the 8 house. I hope it will be better and my on and off be away.. IP: Logged |
AquariusMoon Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Uranus Registered: Oct 2009
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posted November 08, 2009 12:31 PM
so cooljen you never had any real relationships at your age? i am begining to think maybe its typical. because know two people (my brother and my coworker), ages 24 and 25, that never had a relationship, but i also know people that got in relationship VERY young, like in high school who have chiron in the 7th. what kind of partner do you think you would be?
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enchantress299 Knowflake Posts: 74 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted November 08, 2009 02:35 PM
Hey Cooljen... I also turned 26 in August, and I also have Chiron in the 7th. I don't have Saturn in Libra (mine is BARELY in Scorpio), but I do have Saturn sextile Venus (to the degree) and I'm kind of a late bloomer. Chiron in my chart is also involved in a t-square with Jupiter/Uranus opp square to Sun/Venus. I have dated people off and on since I was 24, but I've never really had any 'serious' relationships. The guys I've dated have often been players or emotionally unstable or about to leave to fight a war in another country, so I usually end up skipping off fairly quickly to avoid the drama. I think I've said this before, but quite frankly, I think that having Chrion in the 7th is like walking around with an open sore. You just feel constantly like there's something wrong with you and that everyone else sees it (even when they don't)and that somehow you have to fix it in order to be "normal" like everyone else and have "normal" relationships. Until said time that it's been fixed, relationships will never come easily like they seem to do to everyone else. That's what it feels like to me anyway. Aquariusmoon- I don't know if it's true that all of us with 7th house Chirons have trouble finding 'true love' but I do think that until we've reconciled our own sensitivity within ourselves (whatever that open sore is that I mentioned before) it is very very hard for us to see our own value and what it is that we can bring to a relationship. Even when I'm just dating people I have to constantly remind myself that other people can understand what I've been through in my life and that I can relate to others on a deeper level. That's just my experience with Chiron in the 7th though. I don't know how it plays out for other people. IP: Logged |
cooljen Knowflake Posts: 42 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 08, 2009 05:35 PM
Hey AquariusMoon, hey Enchantress Yep I havent really had a 'relationship'. I mean I've had 'relations' with guys but I didnt consider that a 'relationship' even though they might have, so nothing like 'boyfriend/girlfriend' - at least not in my mind. My Saturn doesnt make any aspects to Venus, but I do also have that T-square between Jupiter/Uranus opp. Chiron and Square Venus. My Venus actually makes quite a few square aspects (semi square Mars, semi square Pluto, and the ones involved in that Chiron T-square). The other thing that I read about that might also contribute is Lilith (which is in my 3rd and in Aquarius). I read that that position can make the person see relationships more like friendships...which seems to be the case with me. I can't even imagine right now having someone that I call 'my boyfriend' probably because I havent had that before. Its weird too because lately I've really been feeling like I want a relationship (not a desperate/lonely feeling) but this year in my Solar Return I have the Sun conjunct my Descendant, Mercury in the 7th, and Venus in the 5th. My Solar Return Vertex is in the 7th too, and I have Mars conjunct Part of Fortune conjunct the 5th house cusp and the Vertex conjunct my natal Venus. Anyway - to me it seems like a whole lotta 'love' aspects. Enchantress - what you've said strikes a chord with me a lot. Even though I havent had a boyfriend before, its not like I'm hideous or something. Not trying to sound conceited or anything like that but I dont have any problem attracting guys (all kinds of guys infact), and I know I'm a pretty cool person to be around. But I definitely have that 'open sore'. I definitely have that one thing that I think is like the dealbreaker that if I didnt have that then I'd be ready to have a real 'relationship'. And then there's other times that I feel like maybe I'm just not ready for it yet (but again thats probably because I havent had it before). ------------------ Leo with Scorpio Rising & Moon in Taurus. IP: Logged |
jenfullmoon Knowflake Posts: 19 From: California Registered: Jun 2009
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posted November 09, 2009 07:24 PM
"I think I've said this before, but quite frankly, I think that having Chrion in the 7th is like walking around with an open sore. You just feel constantly like there's something wrong with you and that everyone else sees it (even when they don't)and that somehow you have to fix it in order to be "normal" like everyone else and have "normal" relationships. Until said time that it's been fixed, relationships will never come easily like they seem to do to everyone else. That's what it feels like to me anyway. "I would agree with this. Except since it's Chiron, you're unfixable. IP: Logged |
aka Kat Knowflake Posts: 224 From: Cleveland, Ohio Registered: Jun 2009
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posted December 04, 2009 10:30 PM
Chiron in 7th - heal through relationshipsIP: Logged |
vertiver Knowflake Posts: 402 From: Formerly Missneptune Registered: May 2009
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posted December 05, 2009 12:38 AM
Oh wow, I can relate to you ladies! I'm 21, but like yourself cooljen, I haven't really ever been in a relationship. I think its interesting because I'm also a Leo Sun with Sag. Asc. and chiron is also in my 7th and widely conjunct my Venus in Gemini. The biggest problem is that my Pisces moon wants a relationship but the rest of me is perfectly fine with being independent and goal driven. I'm also not unattractive and I get plenty of attention from older men but barely any guys my own age. I think they are to afraid to approach a tall and independent person like myself, so they go for someone predictable and easy. I actually had my first experience with almost feeling like I was dating a guy about two months ago, but he flaked out on me and it really hurt my feelings to the point that I probably won't ever try to reconnect with him again. But like Chiron there is a reason to that wound and eventually it heals. The best thing about being single or not being in a relationship is that you really get to know yourself. I mean 30 years ago women would of dreamed to have the independence that we have, so don't feel that there is something wrong with you. But, like everyone else in the world we get lonely and want someone, but then the loneliness subsides and we realize that being ourselves is better than being in a toxic relationship. IP: Logged |
jenfullmoon Knowflake Posts: 19 From: California Registered: Jun 2009
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posted December 12, 2009 11:27 PM
I disagree, I'd say Chiron in 7th is broken IN relationships. Because when you're alone, things are fine, but when you're in a relationship it somehow ends up being all about how you are unsuited for a relationship and what's wrong with you? All these problems in my personality show up when there's a man in my life, or at least they sure as hell have objections to me being who I am.IP: Logged |
AquariusMoon Knowflake Posts: 36 From: Uranus Registered: Oct 2009
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posted December 13, 2009 12:22 PM
INteresting statement to the above poster. I believe once you become much older perhaps relationships tend to get better wiht Chiron in the 7th? do you agree jenfullmoon? my best friend has this placement plus has NN in the 1st, he has never been alone but I am sure his real personality and happiness will come through when he detaches himself so he can find reallyy what he wants to do, its a cruel lesson in life but thats how we learn, through pain. IP: Logged |
jenfullmoon Knowflake Posts: 19 From: California Registered: Jun 2009
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posted December 13, 2009 01:35 PM
I have no idea on relationships becoming better with age: I haven't had one for over five years now and probably won't for at least another ten. IP: Logged |