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Topic: He's scaring me!!
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glamgem25
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From: Texas
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posted June 30, 2010 12:09 PM
 
I just met this guy a couple of weeks ago as friends. He is very aggressive and already emailing things like, do you miss me? I know I can get intense in relationships but this guy scary!! :/
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glamgem25
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posted June 30, 2010 12:09 PM
I just had his bday and place of birth..do not know time of birth!! IP: Logged |
scrappydog
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posted June 30, 2010 01:22 PM
Mars in scorpio square the sun and venus in leo I could see as being a jealous, obsessive person and yes agressive too. I dated two dif guys with mars in scorpio UNafflicted who were violent towards me, but this guys chart is worse, my instincts say stay away.IP: Logged |
scrappydog
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posted June 30, 2010 01:29 PM
Your uranus seems to be squaring his venus which can be a very magnetic, exciting, or ONE sided attraction. Also that before mention afflicted mars in scorpio of his is conj your uranus closely so your uranus is exciting and electrifying his mars of his, that can be explosive and violent. Maybe you should be polite, but try and cut off contact with this man. Can you explain more about what is going on here?IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted June 30, 2010 01:47 PM
I am just learning about Neptune. His Neptune is on your moon.
He may see you in a way that is not real.
x o Ami
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teasel
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posted June 30, 2010 01:57 PM
Can you try telling him that you feel overwhelmed?In the past I would have been too shy/afraid of hurting his feelings, to do that, but it will give him a chance to ease up and see where things go. Of course, if you're that uncomfortable, then I don't know what to suggest.  IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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posted June 30, 2010 02:39 PM
The situation is he works for a local radio and we met at an event. I figured he meets alot of people in that business but he started contacting me thru a site we are both on and direct messaging me.
I just told him that he is a little too forward for me and he said he just has a joking personality but it's a little over the top sometimes. I told him not to be sorry but I'm just not interested in someone that aggressive. We'll seeAmi-what do u mean by he sees me as not real? forgot the wording you said..... IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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posted June 30, 2010 02:41 PM
He still didn't get the hint....direct messaged me again saying what would u like to know about me....like getting to know him better will make me comfortable about him being soo forward!!! lolIP: Logged |
glamgem25
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posted June 30, 2010 02:43 PM
and he keeps calling me BABE!!! PUKE!!!! If you barely know me, I'm not your babe!! IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted June 30, 2010 04:25 PM
This is what I meant, Glam Gem. I have a friend whose Neptune is right on my ASC.
He sees me through rose colored glasses.
He says I am his ideal for a woman.
I am NOT but he sees it that way.
In a relationship, rose colored glasses could be good OR bad.
It has to be taken in context.
This one aspect could show he could idealize you--is my long winded point LOL
x o Ami
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glamgem25
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posted June 30, 2010 04:32 PM
Gotcha Ami!! Thanks for that....I definitely don't have the rose colored glasses on for him....he's creeping me out! IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted June 30, 2010 04:35 PM
Glam--HE -as the Neptune would have them for YOU . *I* don't have them for my friend like he does for me . I think the Neptune is the one with the rose colored glasses.
Ami
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glamgem25
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posted June 30, 2010 04:37 PM
Right I knew what you meant...I was just reassuring that it didn't go both ways!! LOL IP: Logged |
Ami Ann
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posted June 30, 2010 04:47 PM
 I figured that .
Ami
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Benedict Moon*
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posted June 30, 2010 04:50 PM
That's not always true, either neptune or the planet person can be blind to what they don't want to see. It just depends on the person,their grasp on reality, or their relationship with neptune in their chart. My neptune squared my ex's Venus and 9/10 he had the unrealistic views and expectations, while all I asked for was some integrity. He and I both have strong neptune in our chart, but he has that pisces moon involved in a T-square with Neptune and mars, and a Libra Venus.
I was gonna say he has Pluto conjunct the Descendant but I just read you have no time of birth. I do agree with Scrappy though, his Leo Sun, and Leo Venus square Mars in Scorpio gives him obsessive tendencies with a narcisistic edge. He's not taking no for an answer for a reason. He doesn't care about your feelings, its just an ego thing for him.
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cpn_edgar_winner
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posted June 30, 2010 05:02 PM
i suggest letting him know its creepy and keeping your distance. lotta wierdos in this world. send the back off vibe. yousepide sam style. we have intuition for a reason. if someone feels creepy, they probobly ARE creepy.IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner
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posted June 30, 2010 05:05 PM
i really dislike guys who press through boundries and personal space like it does not exist. f that. how many women do that to guys? not many. seriously, scary is scary. tell him to f off. i would pull out some mace instead of a chart, my dear.good jobs don't make creeps any less of a creep. nor does a suit. a creep is a creep.
you used the words:
creep
scary
puke
and he won't stop.
that is reason enough to delete him forever. and tell your best friend if anything happens to you find this guy. seriously. i feel like flipping off this dude every single day that stares in my window at work. creep vibe. i just give him dirty looks. WTF. why stand at the window and stare at me. wierdo. why would you say you could get into an intense relationship with someone who makes you feel those things? intense as in stalker, freaziod, he's in prison now kind of relationship?
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scrappydog
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posted June 30, 2010 05:58 PM
I agree with cpn and b moon!IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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posted June 30, 2010 06:22 PM
CPN-I was just comparing myself to him saying that I normally am intense in relationships but he makes me look mild. I never said or thought I wanted into a relationship with him. He doesn't even give me time to breathe as a friend!! Yes, you're right even being in the business he is a creep is a creep. I thought the same thing!! IP: Logged |
Dy-na-mi-tee
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posted June 30, 2010 06:35 PM
Glam - I think it's his lack of air..
I mean maybe he attracted you for that reason. You're there to teach him detachment.. (air)On the other hand - you lack earth (he has a little!).. and you have a fire singleton (he has more fire to share lol) Sometimes complementary relationships like this ^^ can be rocky to begin with, until you get adjusted to your different elements and different styles.. but it's possible that it would be beneficial to both of you ultimately. You definitely have things to learn from each other. That being said - If he is *really* too much and seriously bothering you, just tell him you are not romantically interested - period.
Don't tip toe around it with too much politeness - because he won't understand it unless it is clear. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon*
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posted June 30, 2010 06:55 PM
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i would pull out some mace instead of a chart, my dear.
This made me LOL so much...but its true.
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Ami Ann
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posted June 30, 2010 07:44 PM
quote:
That's not always true, either neptune or the planet person can be blind to what they don't want to see. It just depends on the person,their grasp on reality, or their relationship with neptune in their chart. My neptune squared my ex's Venus and 9/10 he had the unrealistic views and expectations, while all I asked for was some integrity. He and I both have strong neptune in our chart, but he has that pisces moon involved in a T-square with Neptune and mars, and a Libra Venus.
When I wrote it, Benedict, I was wondering if it were a hard fast rule that the Neptune wears the rose colored glasses more.
There is another thread on this that says that BOTH planets wear them.
In my case, *I* did not. I always saw the person clearly but he does not see me clearly.
I wonder if I were in a long term relationship with him--would he see me more realistically?
I read one blog that said her husband saw her as the most beautiful girl in the world and it stayed.
Thank God for Neptune Ami ------------------
I am two with nature.
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glamgem25
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posted July 01, 2010 12:38 AM
Dy-na-mi-tee: I do believe everyone that comes into our lives is supposed to teach us something so maybe you are correct!! I think he finally got my drift...and backed off a little. We will see tomorrow!! 
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cpn_edgar_winner
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posted July 01, 2010 10:59 AM
i am glad glam gem. i truly think more women need to stand up and not let men bully them about. I truly can't stand to see it. and I worry for situations they might find themselves in. Glad you are a smart one chicky!IP: Logged |
glamgem25
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posted July 01, 2010 11:18 AM
Oh definitely!! I think that's one of the reasons its a big turn off for me cause I'm used to being the boss!!! lolIP: Logged |
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