posted August 31, 2010 12:13 PM         

This is more of a question I have. I met this Cap male about three months ago and we have the strangest relationship ever...and I don't know what I could attribute this to.

He was initially my calculus tutor, but pretty much along the lines he started becoming more open with me. Like for instance he randomly started telling me about some ex girlfriends of his, and even showing me them on facebook. Then he would tell me that random girls are cute, or that some girl put a note on his car giving him her phone number.

I just thought we were becoming friends as we exchanged phone numbers, and then he would say things like when am I and my friend going to the bars downtown. I had tried to get him to talk to some of my friends, however he said it would be awkward. Even one example was I was getting help and I had said something in passing about not hearing him, and he said that he had been hanging around a girl he was talking to too much (keep in mind I didn't even know the girl).

Even if I talk about ex boyfriends he doesn't really add anything, an example is I told him I was still in love with my ex, or if I mentioned anything he would stay silent. I'm not sure if this means anything or if I'm reading too much into things. But I'm just not sure why we talk relationships so much.

Am I reading too much into this...he doesn't text me, but he does text me back when I text him. I'm a little older than him, so I have to admit my subtle attraction to him is kinda strange, and I'll admit for some reason I think about him alot.

Him: Dob Jan 13, 1989...born in Charlotte, NC at 2:27 am

Me: DOB July 3, 1985...born in Bellflower, CA at 5:34 am

posted August 31, 2010 12:45 PM         

Maybe he doesn’t have a pal to talk about the women he’s interested in, and so you’ve become his gal pal for this. Based on his mention of going to the bars with you, he might see you as a source for meeting women, or see you as a wingman of sorts.

Sometimes Cappys can feel a bit awkward in romantic areas, there’s the outside possibility he’s interested in you. Having your girlfriends around may serve as a chaperone of sorts.

posted August 31, 2010 01:14 PM         

Romantically, there is potential. You have Sun conjunct Moon, & Venus conjunct Jupiter. Excellent flowing aspects, and great for obtaining your financial objectives.

His pVenus @ 0 Aquarius indicates he's entering a new Venus period, in search of romance with an Aquarian theme.

posted August 31, 2010 04:57 PM         

This is VERY true. For instance when I was in one of the bars he was at we talked (as he was playing pool) and then I said I would be right back. And he was like you aren't coming back. And I said I was. I did, but when I did I brought a male friend of mine (who I'm not into AT ALL), and he barely spoke two words to me. And I told him I had to go, and he was nice and said bye. And when we I have gone to bars he won't talk to me unless I'm alone. I meet his friends, but that's about it. He actually doesn't talk to girls when I'm around (well at least for both the times I was there around him)

posted August 31, 2010 08:07 PM         

My Venus is in Leo and the majority of women I've been attracted to have had Aquarius Suns. Go figure. But while my Leoine Venus loves flattery and affirmation, it's more of the type that likes strutting around like a peacock and just assuming that others are secretly flattering and affirming me.

posted September 07, 2010 02:46 PM         

Anyway I thought things were fine. So I went and added him as a friend on facebook, because we both know each others name, and I assumed we were friends now. So I wrote him and said a funny little note like, "its official we're friends now." He added me, and again I didn't think we were on bad terms. I messaged him that same night and just lightly said thanks for the add. He said lol and of course I'd add you. Anyway I wasn't chatting other than that and doing some school work, but the chat was still open. I then clicked back and noticed that he kept logging on and off. So I asked him (keep in mind the chat was still open, I just hadn't responded back in a few mins) was his internet going off and on. He said it was fine, but why do I ask. So I was like ok, well your internet keeps going off and on here. He said Ok. And then there was a silence, not that I was fretting I was taklking to someone else, but with silence for a while I said then that we weren't having a convo, so I'd go (I wasn't mad, but online you sound neutral). He didn't say anything back so I logged off. Again not angry.

So the next day I see him at the libary and I didn't say anything because I had to go. But I ended up seeing him later the same day, and he didn't talk to me (not even saying hi). Then I came back to the library later and he was leaving and I could have sworn he walked down the stairs (as I was going up on the other side) faster on purpose lol. And when I was sitting with my back to him earlier (when I was studying) he passed by a few times and then went to the other staircase on the other side to avoid me.