posted November 04, 2010 02:59 PM            

I don't think it's a good idea to let you believe something that will hurt you, so I am blunt when I answer your question. u asked if he like you. I suppose you meant in a romantic style, and what made me think this was comments from your post.

in your intial post I read his girlfriend was there, so he's in a relationship; and if he's hitting on you while his girlfriend is next to him, he's either a bastar*d or you are misreading his perception of you. (first clue you got the wrong impression)

you said several times things like "I felt that we had chemistry". that is how you saw it but was it how he did or how you would have wanted him to perceive it?

I believe he had a good time and I would even consider saying that he really appreciates you but I think you "translate" it in the wrong way when u say "He was obviously flirting", here you seem to try to convince someone.

"he hugged me really tightly to the point where I felt a pain in my chest. He didn't hug anyone else, and I felt like I was given a special hug"
I'm sure he did hug you specially but can he like you specially but not sexually? or romantically?

but are you asking did he like you in a way that you could have been lovers or simply you are not sure he really laughed at your jokes and had a good night? cause for the first I don't think so, for the second, I think he truly did. or maybe you are asking if you are attractive enough to seduce him but in this case I can't answer since I kow neither of you. so he liked the evening with you, and from that, anything can be born. we are our co-creators, so if from there you both decide to create something new, it's possible but from seeing that he's in a relationship that he seem to put efforts in, then I think it's safer to consider him not attracted. besides, I think he should be admired by you for sticking to his relationship, it means you like men who value their relationships. good news about your future lover

posted November 04, 2010 06:15 PM            

You could have also mistaken the chemistry. It's really easy to do because for some people flirting is just a natural habit and they can't help it. He could have just been having a good time with you and you took it another way.

That's my take on it, hope it helps!

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posted November 05, 2010 06:32 AM            

I think Aries knows what it likes. To a point. Probably it knows more what it doesn't like and is open to finding the exceptions along the way - the hard way.

Aries likes the newness of things. Not really because of their interest in that thing, but mostly becuase of the way that makes them feel or the self-expression that it allows them, ie, how good they can feel about themselves. Sure that infatuation can last more than one night - or not. They're impulsive creatures too. It only takes the next thing to take their fancy for them to move along or until they find out something about you that makes their heart sink. That can span minutes (watch them work a room) or years. Like I said before, his interest in you is no reflection of his interst in doing anything about it. Of course, his whole chart has to be factored and his only Aries (that we know of without a birth time) is Sun.