posted March 16, 2011 06:02 PM            

I am curious about this aspect in synastry. Anyone know what this means? I read a little bit about it, but I am not sure how to figure out more about it (like what the houses are and in what sign). I use astro.com which isn't always the most helpful site...

posted March 19, 2011 11:43 AM            

Okay so I've never really had that aspect, but one thing I can tell is, it's a very dangerous aspect, because it can, and often does, bring a lot of disillusions and hurt feelings.
Usually Venus glorifies Neptune, sees them in rose-coloured glasses, and then reality strikes.

posted March 19, 2011 11:22 PM            

I had this aspect with someone, fairly exact, and I was the Venus person. The poster above described it perfectly - I completely idealized a crappy relationship and ended up with my heart broken (Actually I was continuously heart broken and devastated over and over again for a year) again and again for a year). He would say the most romantic things, promised to marry me, and then literally a day or 2 later he would do a 180. This happened so many times. IQ warned me not to get involved but I did anyway LOL. I also had transiting Neptune opposing my Venus (and Pluto squaring my Sun) so that didn't help either.

We had plenty of really good aspects to, (Sun conjunct Moon, Venus trine Saturn, Sun trine Jupiter, Moon exactly conjunct MC), as well as some other bad ones (Pluto square Mars, Pluto square Moon), but I really think the Neptune aspects were the biggest factor for me.