posted June 24, 2010 08:12 AM            

My grandmother was faithful for 50 years.
Venus and Mars and Moon - all in Scorpio.

My mum is faithful for a *while*. She does not cheat.. but she does get sick of men after a few years.

A very close person to me - has Scorpio Mars also. He was married for 15 years and stayed faithful. After his marriage he did not have sex at all for over 2 years. Scorpio can be so self-controlled. He buried his desires because he was still hurt.

posted June 24, 2010 08:17 AM            

Scorpio Mars does love secrecy.. But what I admire most about them is their strength of will and their ability to *stick* things through - in good times and bad times.

I could only imagine a Scorpio mars forgetting their deeply ingrained Plutonian morals & values -- if their current relationship was already dead.. or if they were out to get revenge.

posted June 24, 2010 08:35 AM            

Yes, he was incredibly secretive. He added me on facebook but blocked me from seeing his friend's list. I thought it was weird but then a few weeks later we went to a music festival/event with another 2 friends of ours, getting a hotel room nearby and being in such close proximity, i saw this guy's true colours.

Where do I start?? He's 26 and hangs out with 20 yr old kids because he needs to be the King of the Juveniles in order to be popular..when we got to the music festival he left us for the entire night to hang out with his 20yr old mate and lied till he was blue in the face that he was alone the entire night.

He blocked me off from seeing his fb list of friends because he has underage/VERY young girls on there, as well as his posse of young followers.

He's an ice addict who's been smoking it for 9yrs. I was personally disgusted as he made himself out to the be the most wholesome, healthiest guy ever.

He goes for 18yr old girls

He LOVES rub&tug parlours and I'm guessing the services of prostitutes on top of that.

The funniest was when I was sleeping on the couch, dead and exhausted and he kept trying to get it on with me..realising he wasn't getting anywhere, he jumped up to have a shower for 5mins...randomly I thought, "oh jeez, i hope he's not going to relieve himself" but hours later, after he had left and my friend went to have a shower, he called me in and said, "hey, you know what were guessing hours ago? I think it came true"..I looked down and yes, it wasn't snot. I was even more disgusted.

All morning and afternoon he wouldn't shut up about going to a club that was open for recovery..his 20yr old friends kept calling him to go and when he finally did, our friend goes,
"i've known him for yrs..i bet you any money he's going home to crash in his bed and pass out, he just can't admit it and has to make it sound like he's going somewhere cool to impress us"

posted June 24, 2010 08:56 AM            

I met him Anzac day (april 25th), then a couple of wks ago at the hotel room when my friend was grilling him about not keeping in contact, he said how he broke up with his 18yr old girlfriend 2 months ago, which would have been around April but when I met him there was absolutely NO indication or mention that he was going through a break up.

I'm guessing, yes. He is a cheater. I mean, he bought my ticket for this music festival and won't stop going on about how he needs to settle down and meet a nice girl (ie. me), get to know her and bring her home to mum.
But when he was alone in the car with my mate, he said, "oh, i bought her ticket..i hope I get my d*ck sucked tonight" and when he was on the phone to one of his mates, who asked who he was going to the music festival with, he was like, "oh, blah blah, his girlfriend and blah blah (me), this chick I wanna grab"

If he can be such a pathological liar, then there's no doubt in my mind this guy is a cheater. I mean, he kept looking for someone better to hang out with or something better to do and wasn't content just chilling with us. Trust me, astrology has NOTHING to do with it, lol.

posted June 24, 2010 09:02 AM            

Hey - do you know what I thought of reading your post?

Maybe Scorpio is just a sign of *extremes*.. So either they are VERY faithful and expect the same in return.. or they turn into a man-wh0re !

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he was like, "oh, blah blah, his girlfriend and blah blah (me), this chick I wanna grab"

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posted June 24, 2010 09:11 AM            

Like, the Aquarian, he was an extreme ice addict, toking on a crack pipe for 9yrs. As for my ex, he was hard on drugs too and would always go to extremes with them. Our relationship was a relationship of extreme extremes hahaha

posted June 24, 2010 09:24 AM            

I think in my parting text message, I wrote something along the lines of,
"I would rather kill myself than be with someone who abandons me, rubs himself up against me while i'm half asleep asking for affection every 5 seconds in a kids voice and calls himself the CEO of TFU (the club he wouldn't SHUT UP about going to. Once your over the age of 22, NOBODY goes there, he's 26 that's why its sad)...whatta a fkn joke for a 26yr old, really.

posted June 25, 2010 02:49 AM            

My assessment is that ALL Mars signs can and will cheat...it depends on who they're attached to

But, I always hear that fixed Mars signs are not prone to cheat, but I think BM is right in the sense that it can really go either way with these cats.
One thing I can't stand about Mars Scorpio placement is its sneakiness...this is a Mars placement that I almost always associate with an agenda. Maybe their agenda is to see how faithful you are since they are faithful, or maybe it's about being faithful themselves, but this is a Mars sign which is calculating above all else, and they won't be all open. Of course with my own Mars in Taurus and my sun in the 5th, I prefer openness. I loathe deviousness, and that's exactly how I see Mars in Scorpio. It's not even about cheating so much as it is about deviousness. I don't like devious men. And I can smell it a mile away. Don't pretend you're just innocently trying to get to know me over false premises. I can see through you, and I will let you know once, but will not say anything after that, and just give you enough rope to hang yourself with (something any Scorpio anything should appreciate).

I've never HAD a long term relationship with one of them though and so I might be completely off. But because I tend not to trust them and hold a Mars sign as important for men, maybe there's a reason why I don't. My experience with them has been less than stellar. So I am not going there. My Venus in Scorpio doesn't find it attractive either and I have had an exact conjunction with this Mars and it did nothing for me.
Their intention might be authentic, but their execution puts me off.

posted June 25, 2010 03:05 AM            

Then they have that irritating tendency to project. My ex (who was actually the sun placement, but whatever...same difference) would play alot of games and then make it look like it was all me who was messing with his head, while he was completely innocent. Poor him....

Mars in Taurus is alot different. The stubborness and longevity still exists, but without alot of the psychological BS that comes with the Scorpio placement.

posted June 25, 2010 03:15 AM            

Wow, at the girl masturbating thing tho... OMG! Control freaky stuff LOL!
I have less problems with Scorpio sun than I do with the moon because I feel like the moon is reaction and a Scorpio moon reaction is just going to hurt a lot more than a sun one, at least it's been my experience so far...

posted June 25, 2010 03:23 AM            

The other one I knew was very manipulative in how he went about things. But he had a lot of Scorpio, not just Mars. He was good natured (lots of Jupiter). Usually the "deviousness" was omitting important details of a situation that completely changed the meaning... so he'd always be truthful but at the same time you wouldn't actually know what was going on unless you investigated further. It was irritating but usually he'd do this because he messed up somewhere and was trying to cover his ... buttocks.

He struck me as a very faithful person... but who knows what skeletons people have in their closets.

BUT: No, Scorpio Mars I wouldn't see as unfaithful. Maybe Prick. Not unfaithful.

posted June 25, 2010 03:24 AM            

I had the pleasure of dealing with a Taurean Mars guy (opposite his Pluto in Scorpio), for a few years - and that was the worst of the worst for me.

Otherwise I like Taurus Mars.. but sometimes I find them "lazy". When they are friends, I don't mind.

But as a sexual partner, I need someone who is more energetic.

What I like about Scorpio Mars is the sense of feeling appreciated and useful - when I'm with them. There's a mutual trust and appreciation for who we are.. and also an understanding that life is sometimes ugly - but that's OK. Our sometimes dark humor can be similar.
But when I attract this Mars it is often conjunct my Pluto in Scorpio. I think the synastry matters in how we perceive people.
I find this synastry aspect great for *research*, with one particular guy - in the area where we work/study.

:edit: For some reason I also feel "safe" with Scorpio Mars. I am not generally the sort of person who needs or desires, a "safety" net. I'm always trying to take care of everything myself. But it's a nice change to have someone else around who you know gives a damn.. and who you can count on.

posted June 25, 2010 03:29 AM            

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Wow, at the girl masturbating thing tho... OMG! Control freaky stuff LOL!
I have less problems with Scorpio sun than I do with the moon because I feel like the moon is reaction and a Scorpio moon reaction is just going to hurt a lot more than a sun one, at least it's been my experience so far...

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I'll always naturally empathize with the Moon placement since I have the 8th house Virgo Moon, but I know what you mean. I've never experienced it directly, but I've seen the ugliness in the 'reaction' of a Full Moon Scorpio before (Sun in Taurus). He was a hot mess though, in terms of...alot of things. I blame that opposition. It's a very nice placement when its trine a Pisces or a Cancer Sun though. Gives them the much needed backbone that people usually complain that they lack.

And I ended up in the line of fire of my ex's reactiveness...twice. It was stupid too because even then he would rant about how it affected him, but not WHAT was bothering him. *SMH* I often forget he had a pisces moon, so I wonder how much that played into it.

posted June 25, 2010 03:46 AM            

I have a whole stellium of planets in Cancer so it is strange that I can't tolerate this brand of martian energy. The only fixed planets I have is Jupiter in Taurus and Pluto in Scorpio. But it might be for almost the same reason I can't tolerate mars in gemini (in a man) even though I'm a gemini venus. I know though that every placement has its good and bad, and its all perspective in most cases....mine with the males just isn't good. I forgot to mention that I don't really have problems with Scorpio Mars women. In fact, one of my good friends has this and while she's tiny, she's not to be trifled with.

And like MVM, I want to be clear that I don't think they're any more or less prone to cheating than other Mars', its just personality traits that I clash with.

posted June 25, 2010 01:26 PM            

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Then they have that irritating tendency to project. My ex (who was actually the sun placement, but whatever...same difference) would play alot of games and then make it look like it was all me who was messing with his head, while he was completely innocent.

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This sounds like my mother