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Topic: My life is depressing..I attract nutjobs
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KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 1839 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted March 27, 2013 06:01 AM
All the people I attract, well most, are nutjobs....there are many examples, rl and internet, actually one "man" i met a year ago turned out to be a woman -- its also the fact that s/he made up so many lies and was playing me like a fiddle. why everyone who is attracted to me are always nuts? maybe except my bf, but how do i know? IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 1839 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted March 27, 2013 06:03 AM
is it my neptune conjunct asc o_Odoes anyone else attract crazy Neptunian like people? the crazies in my life are always Neptunian or plutonian types IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 40362 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 27, 2013 07:28 AM
Aww you are so young. You will figure it out by screwing up like I always do ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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k e p h x i Knowflake Posts: 107 From: St. Paul, MN, USA Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 27, 2013 08:05 AM
What Risings attract certain people?What aspects with the ASC attract certain people? Moon conjuncts my ASC. Pluto squares my ASC. My ASC is in Virgo. ------------------ Rising: Virgo Sun: _____ Moon: _____ IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 1839 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted March 27, 2013 08:18 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Aww you are so young. You will figure it out by screwing up like I always do
LMAO! to answer your question the dude above me, Neptune is the worst when it comes to crazies! Pluto is there and obvious but Neptune is hidden and deceitful You know who I am talking about right? The one you did the composite for? Actually turned to be a woman -- yup. I'm not surprised..okay I am... Are you? LOL IP: Logged |
Astro_Curious Knowflake Posts: 42 From: Washington, DC, USA Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 27, 2013 08:47 AM
It’s funny that you mention Neptune. I tend to attract a lot of Neptune-Sun and Neptune-Asc guys. It always ends up … Weird, to say the least. I’ve been told I’m easy to talk to and very understanding. I have lots of prominent water placements and a Gemini moon/Ascendant, so I feel as if I can see two sides (or more) to just about everything. I’m not very judgmental that way and I guess that makes me a magnet for types who feel ostracized or misunderstood by others. It’s gotten better as I’ve gotten older just because I’ve become more discriminating about who I lend an ear/hand to. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 4279 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 27, 2013 09:18 AM
Are you calling all of us here nutjobs?!*stops and thinks* Ok, maybe you have a point about me... IP: Logged |
GemNymph Knowflake Posts: 36 From: TX, USA Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 27, 2013 11:23 AM
I attract Teh Crazies too. Could be number of things in my own chart as to why:--My Gem Sun conjuncts Ceres: I attract needy people who want to take and take and take, or unstable people looking for a mother figure --My Gem Sun conjuncts Eros: I attract perverts. And I'm saying that as someon with Aquarius Mars. When someone with Aquarius Mars says you're a pervert, you're a pervert. --My Pisces moon in 7th house: Parasites and vampies flock to me. --My Psyche in Cancer: pretty much everything I've ever read about this placement says I am prone to attract the wrong kind of people much like my Ceres and Moon do. At least until I learn to discriminate better. --1st house Libra Uranus singleton trine (wide-ish orb) my Gem Venus: my quirks bring all the freaks to the yard --1st house Pluto, same sign as ASC (Virgo): Oh lordy. I have issues with certain varieties of nutjobs, and it's hard to tell what exactly attracts them, or if it's a combo of 2 or more of the above things: --I have a history of stalkers. I think it is in part related to my Pluto becuase when I'm feeling my Pluto energies in a strong way, I attract a stalker. When I'm feeling low and powerless, like I have in recent years, it's like I'm inivisible, hidden in the underworld of sorts --I have a history of attracting narcissistic, abusive types. I forgot to mention above Nessus is conjunct my Mercury by 1 degree, between my Mercury and Sun conunct (6 degree orb). I also come from a family of very, very narcissistic people. I'm the "rejected" child, the one everyone blames for everything rather than be accountable for themselves. I've only begun to confornt these patterns in my family but it's clear I learned from a young age patterns of behavior that "fit" naracissists, so I'm prone to attract them. --Controlling, selfish people with crap social skills and other more troubling problems who pass themselves off as tragically misunderstood, i.e. psychic vampires who just want to feed off you. They love me. I tend to be too willing to overlook things other people wouldn't. I tend to be too giving in my sympathies, energy and time. And they just drain me, suck me dry. IP: Logged |
ScorpioMoon Knowflake Posts: 101 From: Atlanta. Georgia, United States Registered: Jan 2013
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posted March 27, 2013 12:54 PM
How about Uranus for attracting nut jobs? Isn't your ASC close to Aqua rising? I think Neptune is more likely to attract "unfortunate soul" types, looking for attention. Just my opinion. I tend to attract attention seekers, wishy-washy people, and people who want to for seemingly no reason at all, tell me their secrets and fantasies. My chart ruler is Neptune, w/ Neptune in the 10th house plus neptune is opposite my Sun.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 40362 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 27, 2013 01:01 PM
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 40362 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 27, 2013 01:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: LMAO! to answer your question the dude above me, Neptune is the worst when it comes to crazies!Pluto is there and obvious but Neptune is hidden and deceitful You know who I am talking about right? The one you did the composite for? Actually turned to be a woman -- yup. I'm not surprised..okay I am... Are you? LOL
I knew it was him but was he born a woman? ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 40362 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted March 27, 2013 01:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by k e p h x i: What Risings attract certain people?What aspects with the ASC attract certain people? Moon conjuncts my ASC. Pluto squares my ASC. My ASC is in Virgo.
I think we are attracted to the TRAITS of our DSC, not the sign, usually. ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 4241 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 27, 2013 01:36 PM
I have Moon trine Neptune, Neptune in the 7th house, AND Sun, Mercury, and Venus square Neptune. Plus Uranus conj. Neptune. I do attract weird people, or people with issues quite easily and I'm growing tired of it as well. They always smoke, and if it's not cigarettes it's weed, they drink excessively, emotional problems, problems with control (I also have Saturn in the 7th, squaring Sun, Mercury, Venus.) I really wouldn't mind someone normal with a creative streak or some other positive Neptunian factor, since it INSISTS on influencing my love life.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 4241 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 27, 2013 01:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by GemNymph:
--Controlling, selfish people with crap social skills and other more troubling problems who pass themselves off as tragically misunderstood, i.e. psychic vampires who just want to feed off you. They love me. I tend to be too willing to overlook things other people wouldn't. I tend to be too giving in my sympathies, energy and time. And they just drain me, suck me dry.
ME TOO. I'll have to check out what asteroids influence my chart. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 490 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 27, 2013 02:05 PM
Does anyone else notice when there's a badly aspected malefic ruling the descendant, it's much more difficult forming meaningful relationships then say if a planet like Venus or Jupiter ruled the sign on the cusp? IP: Logged |
Astro_Curious Knowflake Posts: 42 From: Washington, DC, USA Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 27, 2013 02:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: I think we are attracted to the TRAITS of our DSC, not the sign, usually.
Totally agree with this! IP: Logged |
Little Doe Knowflake Posts: 158 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 27, 2013 02:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: is it my neptune conjunct asc o_Odoes anyone else attract crazy Neptunian like people? the crazies in my life are always Neptunian or plutonian types
Lol at the title of the thread. I´m so sorry to hear that you feel bad. Actually, I can relate. Although, I wouldn´t say that I attract nutjobs, cuz it sounds a bit rude, but I def attract emotionally unstable men. I am very plutonian and neptunian myself. and I have asc sextile neptune, so they all see me as very empathetic, wich I am. Maybe try to work on building stronger boundries between yourself and others, and let people know that they can´t take your energy. Just say no to the nutjobs. Take care! IP: Logged |
GemNymph Knowflake Posts: 36 From: TX, USA Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 27, 2013 02:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by ScorpioMoon: How about Uranus for attracting nut jobs? Isn't your ASC close to Aqua rising? I think Neptune is more likely to attract "unfortunate soul" types, looking for attention. Just my opinion. I tend to attract attention seekers, wishy-washy people, and people who want to for seemingly no reason at all, tell me their secrets and fantasies. My chart ruler is Neptune, w/ Neptune in the 10th house plus neptune is opposite my Sun.
I have 1st house Uranus and I do attract offbeat people. I've had lots of interesting and unusual people pass through my life over the years. Some of them were just coloful, quirky people. Others were serious trouble, i.e. nutjobs.
My 7th house Pisces moon definitely gives me a Neptunian aura that attracts needy people. Strangers will walk up to me and tell me their life problems if I sit too long on a park bench. I've been a compassionate ear to it all--problems with booze, divorce, abusive partners, erectile dysfunction, eating disorders, you name it. It's funny because my harshly aspected 1st house Pluto makes me seem unapproachable to a lot of other people, but I'm like a magnet for wounded souls.
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GemNymph Knowflake Posts: 36 From: TX, USA Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 27, 2013 02:26 PM
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StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 490 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 27, 2013 02:29 PM
I just attract the pushy people. I like funky/offbeat/crazy but I never attract these. I seem to attract people who are angry and pushy. The bullies.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 4241 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 27, 2013 03:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: I just attract the pushy people. I like funky/offbeat/crazy but I never attract these. I seem to attract people who are angry and pushy. The bullies.
Where's Uranus in your chart again? Sounds Uranian...they always describe Uranus as funky and offbeat like it's lighthearted or something, but in reality it translates into rebels and people who like to argue. Not that Uranus can NEVER be offbeat, funky, but I'm just stating. IP: Logged |
Vradec Knowflake Posts: 38 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 27, 2013 03:14 PM
I attract nutters too, and not the good kind. It is actually sometimes scary, for example I have almost without exception attracted abusive men who are a bit pervy too.IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 1839 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted March 27, 2013 03:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: I knew it was him but was he born a woman?
Yes he was born a woman.. LOL ohmygod IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 490 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 27, 2013 03:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: Where's Uranus in your chart again? Sounds Uranian...they always describe Uranus as funky and offbeat like it's lighthearted or something, but in reality it translates into rebels and people who like to argue. Not that Uranus can NEVER be offbeat, funky, but I'm just stating.
It's on the ascendant in house twelve, part of the four planet pile up in Virgo/Libra which brings a lot of energy to the ascendant but it's in the twelfth house shadow. Uranus is prominent but not as much as Jupiter which is approaching the ascending degree. I am not sure if it's Uranus or just having Aries descending and a square from third house Mars to twelfth house Pluto. Mars and Pluto are both in cadent (weaker) houses. It does seem more psychological than physical. I notice the pushiness and domineering attitudes in the environment and that sounds more like Aries. I don't notice the eccentric Uranian element as much. Maybe, the Uranian element is me rebelling against all their aggression? I tend to be stubborn and try not to fit in. Maybe, the ascending degree is to blame for that and since those planets are in house twelve, it creates a bit of "self undoing," a twelfth house theme? I do tend to sabotage my efforts from time to time.
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 4241 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 27, 2013 03:33 PM
OH as soon as I read that Mars square Pluto BS (I have it inconjunct, but it's still nasty.) I thought "That's it." I mean that's much, much more dominant than Uranus on the ASC I would think. Uranus is provocative but not aggressive... maybe?IP: Logged |