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Topic: I'm sensitive yet non-sympathetic at the same time
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KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 49 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted May 30, 2011 09:15 PM
When someone insults me I get easily offended. But I don't sympathize with people, unless they are alike to me. I mock those who do feel that way, however. What aspects in one's chart could make a person feel this way?IP: Logged |
amowls** Knowflake Posts: 393 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 30, 2011 11:13 PM
Sun conjunct Moon, Mercury or Chiron or in hard aspect. Leo planets too perhaps.Sounds like an ego problem. IP: Logged |
Dinobleue9 Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 30, 2011 11:59 PM
I have Aquarius Sun and Cancer Moon/Cancer Rising. I feel the same way. For the most part my motto is "If you can't figure out your own problems, then too bad", but I'm very sensitive and defensive with myself, and probably more babying of people I'm close too. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 49 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted May 31, 2011 02:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by amowls**: Sun conjunct Moon, Mercury or Chiron or in hard aspect. Leo planets too perhaps.Sounds like an ego problem.
Nope. I don't have any of those. Maybe try to find selfish aspects? IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3483 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted May 31, 2011 02:55 AM
Maybe you've got a fire moon, like me, because I have times when I couldn't care less either, because I am tired of feeling things. My 12th house moon results me in feeling cornered and bombarded. But it can really be anything in the chart, though I choose the moon because the moon is first response/feeling.Maybe you're burned out on your empathy BTW, that's not selfish, it's called self-preservation and recognition of personal boundaries. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3483 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted May 31, 2011 02:57 AM
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MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3483 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted May 31, 2011 02:59 AM
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bethcarliseh Knowflake Posts: 187 From: Ontario Canada Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 31, 2011 03:04 AM
karkaqueen where does your username come from what does it meanIP: Logged |
love being Aries Knowflake Posts: 179 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted May 31, 2011 06:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: When someone insults me I get easily offended. But I don't sympathize with people, unless they are alike to me. I mock those who do feel that way, however. What aspects in one's chart could make a person feel this way?
i have a similar thing in me, m known for being hard-hearted, i don't like sympathising with people i rather believe they are themselves responsible for what happened to them, so why sympathise with them? but on the other hand i get offended so so so easily, but i don't say anything when someone does that to me. i just go to my room, pace around, try to fuss over it, may be a cry a little, complain alot [to myself] and after like 2-3 hours m fine sun conjunct mercury, in 8th house Aries have an ego, but suppressed, in 8th house sun sex-tiling chiron, in 10th house Gemini IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 10379 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 31, 2011 07:00 AM
Yes,I was gonna say Sun combust Mercury(less than 5 degree orb)------------------ Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality Jung You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it . Jesus He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 10379 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 31, 2011 07:00 AM
Hello My Virgo Mask Nice to see you ------------------ Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality Jung You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it . Jesus He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
Lehia2 Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted May 31, 2011 10:06 AM
I'm the same way, that's why I'm not sure I'm sensitive. Like someone said before, I think it's more of an ego issue...a sensitive ego, which is not the same thing as being sensitive. In my case I think it's my chart ruler in Leo
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staborgi Knowflake Posts: 464 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted May 31, 2011 01:43 PM
Sounds like a Capricorn placement. Scorps can somehow be like that too. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 49 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted May 31, 2011 07:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by MyVirgoMask: Maybe you've got a fire moon, like me, because I have times when I couldn't care less either, because I am tired of feeling things. My 12th house moon results me in feeling cornered and bombarded. But it can really be anything in the chart, though I choose the moon because the moon is first response/feeling. Maybe you're burned out on your empathy
BTW, that's not selfish, it's called self-preservation and recognition of personal boundaries.
I got Taurus Moon. BTW, the dominate ruler in my chart is Aquarius.
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KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 49 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted May 31, 2011 08:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by love being Aries: i have a similar thing in me, m known for being hard-hearted, i don't like sympathising with people i rather believe they are themselves responsible for what happened to them, so why sympathise with them? but on the other hand i get offended so so so easily, but i don't say anything when someone does that to me. i just go to my room, pace around, try to fuss over it, may be a cry a little, complain alot [to myself] and after like 2-3 hours m finesun conjunct mercury, in 8th house Aries have an ego, but suppressed, in 8th house sun sex-tiling chiron, in 10th house Gemini
Moon (Tau)3rd house Opp (Sco) Chiron 9th house This is the closest. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 550 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 01, 2011 01:35 PM
My Moon is not in a fire sign but it's in the 5th, and sometimes I'm as sympathetic as a wall. Maybe it's that Scorpio stellium.
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KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 49 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted June 02, 2011 12:11 PM
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love being Aries Knowflake Posts: 179 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted June 02, 2011 12:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: Moon (Tau)3rd house Opp (Sco) Chiron 9th houseThis is the closest.
i also have moon in Taurus opposite Pluto in scorpio, in third house. may be its something related to moon opposing planets in scorpio IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 2177 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009
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posted June 02, 2011 01:31 PM
Is your sun a water singleton or unaspected? IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 49 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted June 02, 2011 01:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by Benedict Moon*: Is your sun a water singleton or unaspected?
Nooo...I'm Cancer all the way. Lol. IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 2177 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009
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posted June 02, 2011 01:54 PM
What other planets do you have in Cancer? Is your Cancer Sun aspected at all? Im asking because this sounds to me like a water sun that IS poorly integrated since its an ego issue AND a water issue. But then again, there is a difference between empathy and sympathy. Sometimes I can't sympathize either...because I'm just drained.
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Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 550 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 02, 2011 02:02 PM
She has Cancer Mars and her Sun trines Jupiter and opposes Neptune.. There's a topic with her chart, you may want to take a look: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/208687.html IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 2177 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009
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posted June 02, 2011 02:11 PM
Hey, we have the same birthday (about 10 years apart), AND the same Ascendant. Bonkers. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 49 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted June 02, 2011 02:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: She has Cancer Mars and her Sun trines Jupiter and opposes Neptune.. There's a topic with her chart, you may want to take a look: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/208687.html
Wait, why does it oppose Neptune? Sun is in the 6th house and Neptune is in the 1st house. Is it because my descendant is in Cancer? IP: Logged |
Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 2177 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009
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posted June 02, 2011 02:23 PM
The opposition is out of sign and house, but its within orb (5 degrees is acceptable for hard aspects). IP: Logged |