posted June 14, 2011 10:29 PM            

My astro click love on astro.com says this about my Sun/Saturn square. It definitely resonates with me:

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You may have a problem with your self-image, not giving yourself enough credit where it is due.

You should meticulously list your strong points and accomplishments for yourself so that you will understand your abilities and achievements and not needlessly downgrade yourself. This will allow you to enter an affair in a more positive frame of mind about yourself as well as your partner.

If there is any question of quality in an issue between you and your lover, always take a bright and optimistic attitude, even if it is forced.

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Despite Jupiter conjunct my ascendant, I can be a Pessimistic Patty. Despite the fact that I am gorgeous, extremely talented and versatile, intelligent and kind (they said to force it! I'm trying...) I ALWAYS assume the worse.

Joy to me would be for me to say that someone thinks the world of me, loves me and would do anything to be with me...to be able to say those things confidently. And there are cases where this is the truth...at least this is what others observe...Otherwise the pessimism becomes a self fulfilling prophecy due to self-sabotage.

I'm working on it.

I got myself into a tizzy the other day...it is so obvious that the guy is into me, adores me and tries to impress me. But I take any slight as a sign that its over...drastic I know. My Saturn is in Scorpio, so you can see how I can be paranoid.

How does your Natal Saturn placement affect your relationships?

posted June 14, 2011 11:31 PM            

I want a girl who in one respect, is independent, does her own thing sometimes, but also, is steady and dependable in regards to be their for her man. I can not stand that..."cop out" kind of attitude "I don't know what the future will bring so I can not make any promises. Yah, well, sometimes we commit ourselves to something like school and kind of have an idea of what will happen in the future.

posted June 15, 2011 04:02 PM            

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Originally posted by carl:
Saturn is in scorp in H10.

I want a girl who in one respect, is independent, does her own thing sometimes, but also, is steady and dependable in regards to be their for her man. I can not stand that..."cop out" kind of attitude "I don't know what the future will bring so I can not make any promises. Yah, well, sometimes we commit ourselves to something like school and kind of have an idea of what will happen in the future.

I think the saturn within my natal makes me seem intense and serious and hides my funny side sometimes.

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our charts are similar...capricorn rising, aries moon...saturn in scorp in 10...

i relate to everything you said. cop outs are for weaklings. indecisiveness and wishy-washy-ness makes me want to puke!

I am very loyal and have difficulty tolerating anything less than that.