Posts: 20
From: Venus, Outer Space
Registered: May 2012

posted February 14, 2013 05:33 PM            

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I met a Capricorn man in November of 2011. Im an Aquarius. We hit it off instantly, even the our burgeoning friendship was "slow" and methodical (more so on his end them mind, especially the slow part). We both expressed that we like each other's thought process, and company a lot. Things went awry when I begin to express my feelings for him. I've written about that experience with him previously on here. He began to slowly distance himself, and he disappeared by the end of February... Gone like a flash in the night. I was all BUT devastated, and was perplexed. Agitatted and annoyed by his termination of our friendship, but I have way too much pride to express that hurt to him in an overt emotional way so I just let him be. I called him once, no answer... and so I moved on with business of life. In the back of my mind I knew I would see him, hear form him again... I knew things weren't over. In the midst of moving on I did all that I could to fulfill my own needs and make me happy, so by the time time we saw each others faces again, I had all but forgot the enormous emotional toil he absense had left. I smiled a reassuring smile at him... and I did want him to know through my actions that all was well with the transpirings between us. He looked so mortified until I smiled and poked fun with him in my comical way... Life is good. Since that particular day we have seen more of each other only out in social settings, I had asked him about doing some work at my house which he said he would do, but a little afterwards I figured I didn't want it done really anyway, and completely dismissed it. On instance he saw me talking with another a guy and came over and gave me the most obvious nudge in my side, as to "say I see you.", but I carried on. Not to upset him, but because I'm single and I have no problems mingling. I figured our time in the sun had past. We stayed in friendly conversation mode until I saw him again in December at which he gave me his number. I just took at his being friendly, but I had no authentic intentions in calling him. I saw about a month later in early January again and he approached me about not having called him, about the work he was supposed to do at my house, and how he didn't have my number to call me so he couldn't reach out. I was amused, surprised and left thinking is this man trying to see me again? Afterwards he started texting infrequently. I would retort but I haven't initiated most of our conversations (as I had in the past). Eventhugh, I'm highly attracted to him still, I'm leery of contacting him after my experience last time. As of late the texts have become calls, and the calls have become him finding reasons to come by and help me around my new place... I haven't initiated any of it. Mainly just confirmed with him. Just yesterday he was over putting up a shelf and he called me baby several time... He's NEVER done that. And I kept thinking so when did I become baby... hmmm... He is more attentive, accomodating, and may I dare say open to expressing that he possibly has feelings for me. We've spoken about what happe in the pass, and when I asked him why he disappeared he said that he felt that we had different intentions for each other at the time. Basically, I wanted a relationship, he didn't. And I did, I don't spend countless hours talking, and making out with men I don't want to be with... duhhh... lol... At this point, I don't know what to do though. I'm having a hard time digesting all these new expressions from this Cap. I feel like I've been blindsided and may head is being banged up against the wall. I want to open up to the idea and reciprocate some of what he is giving me, but for one our last situation is still fresh in my head, and then a part of me feels like if I show him any real interest he will just remove himself from the situation... Right now he is coming on strong, super strong... I just wish he would've given me a smidgen of this a year ago... What Your thoughts out there???

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From: Dallas, TX, USA
Registered: Dec 2012

posted February 14, 2013 05:44 PM            

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Luuuuuuuuucccccccccckkkkkkkkkkkyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!

I really have no advice to offer because I'm having problems with my own Cap. If I were you I think I'd feel the same...I'd be really leery about expressing my feelings until I knew for sure he was staying. Him coming over to help with your house is a really good sign...Caps doing things for you like that is how they show they care.

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