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Koniucha
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posted December 17, 2016 09:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koniucha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So after living in my home for about 3 years, finally called the police yesterday on my neighbor across the street. As soon as I first moved there and I saw him, I felt this bad vibe about him and just ignored him. Eventually he started trying to talk to me and coming over.

You would just come on knock on my door but I always ignored it and never opened my door. There was one situation that happened where my daughter's father came over to visit her. He went outside to smoke a cigarette and my neighbor saw him. He came up to him and started talking to him asking him who he was and why would I talk to him. He was also dressed in these very short shores that looks like very tight underwear. My ex went off on him told him to go inside and get dressed and leave us alone.

I went out of town for a couple days and my mom and daughter were at my house. My neighbor right next to me, who is aware of him, called me on Friday and told me she saw him coming out of my property Thursday, when my mom and daughter were at gymnastics. She called the police.

So I called the police when I came home. They came and issued a trespassing order against him. He told the police the reason he came on to my property was my dog was outside in my yard. She was whining and he fed her :/

I got his birthday from the order and checked it out.


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soren
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posted December 17, 2016 10:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for soren     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun Sq. Moon - inclined to be more easily in stressful/tension situations than the average person, what might seem strange to an average person is normal for the sun sq moon. Of course the orb might be stronger or weaker depending on ToB. I have sun square moon so i know i can do strange things

I know right away most will say "venus opp. pluto" but to me pluto would have been 16 degrees in lattitude (checked) thus a weak opposition.

Sun Tr. Jupiter causing him to think his beliefs are "rightious" and he will see things he think need correction, or need his divine intervention

(just guessed for that, no idea what that aspect is actually supposed to be)

Moon Opp. Mars - keen awareness from his emotions to his desires, like a conflict of his deep inner self is aware of his desires, his desires are aware of his inner self, the aspect is probably related to being upset a lot. or taking pride in yourself and your inner wants.

Venus is 1d from the sun-moon MP, suggesting a lot of focus there, might even be one of his primary planets. Probably enjoys talking just for the point of it, showing off his amiability, the scene of talking is probably a nice imagery in his head just from the beauty of it so he probably enjoys it, probably enjoys the whole scene of many beautiful things

Mercury at Apex of T-square, well i guess we might know what that could mean, feeling an inclination and drive to erratically talk

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posted December 17, 2016 10:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've had issues with Taurus & Moon in Taurus who can't seem to move on and let go. While a Scorpio will hang on to extract revenge. Taurus will hang on to impose friendship, but it's every bit as annoying and stressful as having a Scorpio on your tail.

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Koniucha
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posted December 17, 2016 10:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koniucha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wanted to add that I do not know the time of birth.

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posted December 17, 2016 11:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was going to add something about personal boundaries:How some people are really not clear about where these are etc. So I was thinking of Pisces energy mostly.

I see that he has his Venus in Pisces but what also stood out for me was Chiron in Pisces.

Now Chiron in Pisces conjuncts his Venus in Pisces. So I would think that it is a major player in his life.

"When Chiron is in Pisces, expect the issue of setting healthy boundaries to be up big time. Boundary issues light up the part of the Chiron myth where the wild centaurs think anything and everybody is theirs for the taking—" ]http://www.radicalvirgo.com/2010/04/chiron-in-pisces-integration-and.html[/b]

Often he may express affection(Venus)and have it being suspected (Chiron conjunct)due to him getting too familiar or too forward for other people's comfort levels.

So I think that in his mind,he thinks that he is being nice and doesn't understand the fuss.

And by getting closer to you and encroaching your boundaries "shorts and all", he may be thinking "I just want to make you understand that I am not a bad guy" etc. which can freak you out that much more.

Add to that Uranus forms a trine aspect to the Sun- so he doesn't really see himself as being unusual or weird.

Often the trine aspect of Uranus to Sun reminds me of that weird guy from "The Hangover".

The character is often times very out of sync with the rest throughout the movie, but is not at all bothered by how others mock his eccentric nature or are a little disturbed by him.


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Koniucha
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posted December 17, 2016 11:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koniucha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He also has Chiron opposite Pluto, which sounded like it could be part of it.

I want to add that we found a criminal record for him from 2005. He was arrested for burglary 2nd degree, attempted sexual assault, and public indecency. Pled guilty to the indecency, the others were dropped due to him pleading guilty to that 😕

My friend also talked to my other neighbor about him and she told him years ago he was caught looking in the window of a lady that used to live here

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posted December 17, 2016 11:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for soren     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
doesnt really sound like he's your chosen stalker but just an overall always does terrible things, not just to you, like how it sounds

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posted December 17, 2016 11:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koniucha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by soren:
doesnt really sound like he's your chosen stalker but just an overall always does terrible things, not just to you, like how it sounds

I agree it's not just me. Seems like it's any woman that lives alone in this neighborhood

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posted December 17, 2016 11:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for soren     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i know someone older and had a guy climb up the outside of their house /ladders/rail and came into her window, and beat her with an aluminum bat repeatedly. i think she fended him off some how.

another time he was stalking her at night (in the 70s) and she pepper sprayed him and then he ran to the river to cleanse his eyes, she called the cops

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posted December 17, 2016 11:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What jumped out at me is the Pluto opposite Venus.

I have this in natal, and it can really be a nasty, obsessive placement. I've never actually literally stalked anyone, but I am very obsessive with men I'm interested in.

The Venus in Pisces, combined with that opposition, could even indicate that the person is delusional regarding how you feel about him or why.
He may think that there's some secret (mutual) attraction that you're denying for some reason.

Trust me, as a Pisces Sun square Neptune, and the Pluto/Venus opposition, this has happened with me personally. I've gone on like an idiot assuming that there's a mutual attraction the other person is just refusing to acknowledge. It's ridiculous (although I've never snuck into anyone's yard, I'll say that much).

I'm not particularly unattractive (I'm not saying I'm a beauty queen either), but think Lumpy Space Princess from Adventure Time.


He almost has that Uranus/Pluto conjunction, if you count it with a wide orb (or if one were his chart ruler).
I've noticed a theme with that generation, if there are hard aspects. Very obsessive, in my experience.
*Emphasis on the words "In my experience".

I'm so sorry that you've had to experience this, though. I hope he will leave you alone, or move.

Oh.
And Mars in Scorpio, opposite Moon with all of that!
Jeez...
Yeah, stay away from this dude. He may not be dangerous, but definitely isn't acting out the higher energies of his chart.

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Koniucha
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posted December 17, 2016 12:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koniucha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Today I'm installing cameras at my home and will tell my other neighbors about the police order.

I told myself I'm not living in fear. He does one thing, I'm calling the police

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posted December 17, 2016 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Koniucha:
Today I'm installing cameras at my home and will tell my other neighbors about the police order.

I told myself I'm not living in fear. He does one thing, I'm calling the police


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soren
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posted December 17, 2016 12:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for soren     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i think the new energies on the planet have us at quite a peaceful time, with crime at it's lowest as well with wars.

but it couldn't hurt, he probably has a keen sense more of retaining peacefulness then say 60 years ago, but you never know.

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posted December 17, 2016 12:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koniucha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by soren:
i think the new energies on the planet have us at quite a peaceful time, with crime at it's lowest as well with wars.

but it couldn't hurt, he probably has a keen sense more of retaining peacefulness then say 60 years ago, but you never know.


Sorry, i'm not understanding what you're saying about him retaining peacefulness

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posted December 17, 2016 12:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what an annoying and creepy situation!

the description of his outfit almost made me gagging...i really diskike older men in very short shorts that look like underwear and their parts almost on the brink of exposing from the side. grrr

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posted December 17, 2016 12:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for soren     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i said everyone is more peaceful now

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posted December 17, 2016 12:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koniucha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by soren:
i said everyone is more peaceful now

Ok. Well I certainly am a very peaceful person, but there are plenty out there that are not.

i'm just hoping that this trespassing order is enough

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posted December 17, 2016 01:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MahaKali     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Weird for an Aquarius, some would say.

But, Moon in Taurus can be jealous, possessive, add then square to Sun and opposition to Mars, hard to let it go..

His Venus is in Pisces, sometimes when bad aspected can mean, one seeking for impossible love, something that can not happen. That opposition to Pluto can make this Venus to create an ideal picture of someone's personality and idealize it, turn it to an obsession. Conjunction to Chiron can make him great healer but also can bring him pain in love, depends how he uses it, Chiron also has opposition to Pluto, so..

Mars is in Scorpio, and we all know what it means and mostly hard aspects, especially with Sun and Moon again.

Unaspected Saturn in Aries, house when Saturn finds itself is more important, but as you don't know time, in this sign he can be very insecure, it's when Aries energy (I, myself) is low when you mix it with Saturn, lack of confidence.. and his insecurity, along with other tricky aspects and placements can make him problematic if go wrong way, especially in love..

Would not talk much about Pluto in wide conjunction to Uranus, it's wide conjunction and both are slow planets, so a lot depends on other aspects, but there they are.

Those were my thoughts.

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posted December 17, 2016 01:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
some of the things that call my attention

1.- unaspected saturn. not sure about this interpretation, but the fact that it is the dispositor of the sun-mercury and it is in aries. like there is a rebellium against structure but find no outlet. it may reveal conflicts with authorities because he cannot cannalize this energie that comes from the sun and mental esphere

2. he is strong in plutonian energy, ruler of AC mars in scorpio. venus oppose pluto. so he has an intensive and obsessive way.

3. venus in piscis trine neptune in 12. co-nothing wrong with piscis, but in the context of the chart, it gives a romantic quality to a person who possess an intense drive and go for it quality. The fact that venus is in the 12 suggest that he is a sponge & carrier for energies in the collective and co-rulers of pisces jupiter trine sun EXACT and conjunct uranus. He may think he is totally right and may no see why people get upset. He think he is right and probably behave arrogantly feels very confident about the way he perceive the world. if you add the saturn in aries unaspected to counterbalance that EGO_MANIAC, then you see a person who can traspass legal boundaries and structure because he perception of reality is not neear the earth. Soren mentioned the rulership of saturn to the knees. well, that is what this man need. a little of humility and sense of reality. He cannot find anything wrong with what he does and my think of a messenger of god.

4. the square mars-moon & mars-mercury gives him an impulsive quality. his has quick mental and emotional reactions and can get angered easily.

5.pluto oppose mid-point chiron-venus

6. NN conjunct Chiron. I do not know about the interpretation, but I believe Ami mentioned this in one of her post. waiting for anybody to comment on it.

7. moon in taurus.. positive in general, but in his case, give a hedonist quality. again with that jupiter without the break of saturn, he may want to give himself the pleasures he think entitled by the divine.

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posted December 17, 2016 01:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I was going to add something about personal boundaries:How some people are really not clear about where these are etc. So I was thinking of Pisces energy mostly.

I see that he has his Venus in Pisces but what also stood out for me was Chiron in Pisces.

Now Chiron in Pisces conjuncts his Venus in Pisces. So I would think that it is a major player in his life.

[b]"When Chiron is in Pisces, expect the issue of setting healthy boundaries to be up big time. Boundary issues light up the part of the Chiron myth where the wild centaurs think anything and everybody is theirs for the taking—" ]http://www.radicalvirgo.com/2010/04/chiron-in-pisces-integration-and.html[/b]

Often he may express affection(Venus)and have it being suspected (Chiron conjunct)due to him getting too familiar or too forward for other people's comfort levels.

So I think that in his mind,he thinks that he is being nice and doesn't understand the fuss.

And by getting closer to you and encroaching your boundaries "shorts and all", he may be thinking "I just want to make you understand that I am not a bad guy" etc. which can freak you out that much more.

Add to that Uranus forms a trine aspect to the Sun- so he doesn't really see himself as being unusual or weird.

Often the trine aspect of Uranus to Sun reminds me of that weird guy from "The Hangover".

The character is often times very out of sync with the rest throughout the movie, but is not at all bothered by how others mock his eccentric nature or are a little disturbed by him.

[/B]


totally agree

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posted December 17, 2016 01:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by soren:

Sun Tr. Jupiter causing him to think his beliefs are "rightious" and he will see things he think need correction, or need his divine intervention


Mercury at Apex of T-square, well i guess we might know what that could mean, feeling an inclination and drive to erratically talk


interesting the mercury apex thing

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posted December 17, 2016 01:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Violets:
What jumped out at me is the Pluto opposite Venus.


The Venus in Pisces, combined with that opposition, could even indicate that the person is delusional regarding how you feel about him or why.
He may think that there's some secret (mutual) attraction that you're denying for some reason.

Trust me, as a Pisces Sun square Neptune, and the Pluto/Venus opposition, this has happened with me personally. I've gone on like an idiot assuming that there's a mutual attraction the other person is just refusing to acknowledge. It's ridiculous (although I've never snuck into anyone's yard, I'll say that much).

*Emphasis on the words "In my experience".


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posted December 17, 2016 02:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Koniucha,

I am sending you positive vibes for protection!!!! Glad you are reacting with a strong determination. Good!

before you go to bed, meditate a little and visualize yourself all pure and clean in your energetic field.


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posted December 17, 2016 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koniucha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
Koniucha,

I am sending you positive vibes for protection!!!! Glad you are reacting with a strong determination. Good!

before you go to bed, meditate a little and visualize yourself all pure and clean in your energetic field.


Thanks you!

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posted December 17, 2016 06:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koniucha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So I also checked our synastry also. I do know that it is just not a me thing here.

But one thing I noticed is we have Pluto conjunct Venus in Virgo. I am Venus. I have this same aspect with my ex, he was also Pluto. After years of not being not together, he is still obsessed with me.

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