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RunAroundScreaming
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posted October 31, 2011 12:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've been running into libra after libra these past two years. I usually form some kind of bond with them. Yet, I failto understand them completely. Help me out, gather round, and answer some questions, oh lovely librans! Btw I'm a cancer sun.


1. Are you passive? If not do you have a fire rising?

2. Are you shy? If not, would you say other libras you know are shy?

3. Do you love your fellow air signs, especially other librans?

4. If there was someone you found annoying, but who was a really sweet person whose feelings you didn't want to hurt by rejecting them, would you pretend to be their friend and lead them on because you felt bad?

5. Would you go out with someone you didn't have feelings for just to give them a chance? and would you necessarily let them know straightforwardly that you didn't like them back in order to avoid leading them on?

6. Do you often have trouble picking and defending a side in group debates where you have to make a decision quickly?

7. Is it very important for you to be liked by everyone?

8. Do you usually take the initiative in inviting people to you want to be better friends with to hang out, taking the initiative to contact them, etc. Or do you usually take a more passive role?

9. Are you extremely shy around someone you have strong feelings for?

10. If someone did something to make you really mad, would you tell them or would you ignore them and hope that they will get the picture that you're mad at them and then they will come to you asking you what's wrong.

11. Do you usually try to keep the same friends, or can you let go of most people quite easily.

12. Do you often feel that you get walked all over a lot, or do you maybe even sometimes imagine that you do?
13. When someone has hurt your feelings to the point that you were about to cry in front of them, would you admit how hurt you were afterwards or would you try to play it cool?

14. Do you enjoy talking about emotions with someone you want to be close to or is that too suffocating a subject?

15. Do you like close emotional bonds with people? At what point would you begin to feel suffocated with someone? How close is too much closeness?

16. Do you see everything in a more romantic light than it really is? For example when someone says "Don't worry, you'll do great, you can do it!" Do you blush and think "Awww!" Also, if a person of the opposite sex smiles at you from across the room, would you see it as romantic automatically?

17. Would you say that you are more of a dreamer or a realist?

18. Are you prone to being forgiving, or do you hold grudges?

19. Are you very selective with your friends? Or are very accepting and nonjudgmental. Do you feel a need to protect the underdog and those who are socially awkward and feel left out?

20. How dedicated are you towards your friends?

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BeholdAstarte
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posted October 31, 2011 01:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BeholdAstarte     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I've been running into libra after libra these past two years. I usually form some kind of bond with them. Yet, I failto understand them completely. Help me out, gather round, and answer some questions, oh lovely librans! Btw I'm a cancer sun.


1. Are you passive? If not do you have a fire rising?
im pretty darn passive, i have absolutely no fire in my chart.

2. Are you shy? If not, would you say other libras you know are shy?
i am VERY shy, that could be becuase of my virgo moon, taurus rising and my sun/mars/merc in libra are in the 6th house

i know a lot of libras who are rather shy

3. Do you love your fellow air signs, especially other librans?
i get along well with gemini's i have more gemini friends than i do aquarius, i like the quirks of aquarius

4. If there was someone you found annoying, but who was a really sweet person whose feelings you didn't want to hurt by rejecting them, would you pretend to be their friend and lead them on because you felt bad?

if they were really sweet i would accept them for who they were and i wouldnt lead them, im very sincere in my kindness, if i didnt care for someone becuase they were rude, etc. they wouldnt exist to me and i would sorta ignore them.

5. Would you go out with someone you didn't have feelings for just to give them a chance? and would you necessarily let them know straightforwardly that you didn't like them back in order to avoid leading them on?

ive gone out with guys i wasnt crazy for to give em a chance, but i thought that maybe there was something, they obviously didnt last long. i usually run away from guys that try too hard and i dont want to be with them

6. Do you often have trouble picking and defending a side in group debates where you have to make a decision quickly?
all the time, but it really depends on what the debate is because on certain topics and easier to pick a side but i might change my mind in the process and think the other haha

7. Is it very important for you to be liked by everyone?

i generally want to be friends or on friendly terms with most people i meet, but if someone doesnt like me it will hurt my feelings and make me feel insecure at first then i get over it fast and i dont care anymore

8. Do you usually take the initiative in inviting people to you want to be better friends with to hang out, taking the initiative to contact them, etc. Or do you usually take a more passive role?

i usually take the passive role, i only take the initiative when i really like someone and we know each other long enough but im usually the one whos asked to be hung out with not the other way around. i dont really think about it because im usually doing my own thing

9. Are you extremely shy around someone you have strong feelings for?

very much so, but im also very.. intense i guess? when it comes to someone i like. its all eyes on them and i think its intimidating for some people. thats probably because my venus is in scorpio conjunct pluto right on the desc in the 7th house.

10. If someone did something to make you really mad, would you tell them or would you ignore them and hope that they will get the picture that you're mad at them and then they will come to you asking you what's wrong.

if someone made me mad i would really tell them and i wouldnt want them to ask me either but i dunno if i would ignore them either. it depends but i usually get over things fairly quick and id be nice again and gotten over it (sorta) and just started on a clean slate. but if they really upset me.. i would just hold it in until they took something too far,

11. Do you usually try to keep the same friends, or can you let go of most people quite easily.

i cant let go of people easily at all, that might be my taurus rising and venus/pluto conj. im definitely super loyal to my friends, i still have friends from when i was 3

12. Do you often feel that you get walked all over a lot, or do you maybe even sometimes imagine that you do?

yep, all the time. but if i notice that i get really resentful and i try to make it stop.. in a non confrontational way haha

13. When someone has hurt your feelings to the point that you were about to cry in front of them, would you admit how hurt you were afterwards or would you try to play it cool?

i would probably say something if the subject was brought up, but if it got to that point if i was going to cry then i might not want to talk to that person for a bit

14. Do you enjoy talking about emotions with someone you want to be close to or is that too suffocating a subject?

nope, im all about talking about feelings. i like going to the depths of things. i dont really feel suffocated by things. im a psych major, i do not mind hearing about feelings haha

15. Do you like close emotional bonds with people? At what point would you begin to feel suffocated with someone? How close is too much closeness?

i do like close emotional bonds very much. its actually the point i feel most secure. unless someone is literally following me like a shadow and watching my every move and trying to control me or something then thats my suffocation point.

16. Do you see everything in a more romantic light than it really is? For example when someone says "Don't worry, you'll do great, you can do it!" Do you blush and think "Awww!" Also, if a person of the opposite sex smiles at you from across the room, would you see it as romantic automatically?

if the guy was really cute and he smiled at me from the other side of the room than i might think he was attracted to me haha. im pretty romantic, more so idealistic, i see the best in everyone but it takes a lot to make me blush.

17. Would you say that you are more of a dreamer or a realist?

big time dreamer, its sooo easy for me to drift up to cloud nine

18. Are you prone to being forgiving, or do you hold grudges?

depends. if i can resolve it with the person, its forgiven, if its not or the person wont cooperate thhaaaan i might hod grudge which can last a long long time.

19. Are you very selective with your friends? Or are very accepting and nonjudgmental. Do you feel a need to protect the underdog and those who are socially awkward and feel left out?

pretty much everything said above except for being selective with friends. i get along with everyone and i see the good in everyone. i dont like people make fun of other people becuase their different or goofy or something, everyones here for the same reason, to experience life, so i figure we can help each other make this life happier and easier to get by.

20. How dedicated are you towards your friends?

very much.. i love my friends and id doo a lot for them, family too. im very giving


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posted October 31, 2011 04:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
. Are you passive? If not do you have a fire rising?
not very passive, no fire at all..

2. Are you shy? If not, would you say other libras you know are shy?

not really, but some people mistake my politness for being shy.. i do blush on occaison

3. Do you love your fellow air signs, especially other librans?

umm tricky quest. i love them but they do get on my nerves.. all of them

4. If there was someone you found annoying, but who was a really sweet person whose feelings you didn't want to hurt by rejecting them, would you pretend to be their friend and lead them on because you felt bad?

i wouldnt "pretend" to be their friend, i would focus on the person's good side and dwell on that.. i dont consider that leading on, im giving them a chance..

5. Would you go out with someone you didn't have feelings for just to give them a chance? and would you necessarily let them know straightforwardly that you didn't like them back in order to avoid leading them on?

no i dont pity date, but i let them know ever so gently, and some times i stumble with words and make a complete fool of myself!!

6. Do you often have trouble picking and defending a side in group debates where you have to make a decision quickly?

i dont pick a side during an argument unless i started it i always know what im saying, so if i chose a side i stay with it!

7. Is it very important for you to be liked by everyone?

in short. YES!

8. Do you usually take the initiative in inviting people to you want to be better friends with to hang out, taking the initiative to contact them, etc. Or do you usually take a more passive role?

a little more passive cause i have alot of scorpio...

9. Are you extremely shy around someone you have strong feelings for?

out of all the people i had a thing for, only one guy, i completly lose the gift of speach

10. If someone did something to make you really mad, would you tell them or would you ignore them and hope that they will get the picture that you're mad at them and then they will come to you asking you what's wrong.

depends, im an open book so if im upset everybody can read that. at some pont if theres direct injustace or just blunt rudness i would blurt out with anger but i never ofend anyone and usualy cool down imediatly..

11. Do you usually try to keep the same friends, or can you let go of most people quite easily.

im very loyal thanks to all my scorpio librans can make casual friends like crazy but very few real friends

12. Do you often feel that you get walked all over a lot, or do you maybe even sometimes imagine that you do?

i probably imagine that i do more than actualy happens..

13. When someone has hurt your feelings to the point that you were about to cry in front of them, would you admit how hurt you were afterwards or would you try to play it cool?

it wouldve been to obvious to hide, again im an open book..

14. Do you enjoy talking about emotions with someone you want to be close to or is that too suffocating a subject?

i would enjoy im sure..

15. Do you like close emotional bonds with people? At what point would you begin to feel suffocated with someone? How close is too much closeness?

as long as i have some time alone then im ok, im not the type to suffocate so i expct some space in return..

16. Do you see everything in a more romantic light than it really is? For example when someone says "Don't worry, you'll do great, you can do it!" Do you blush and think "Awww!" Also, if a person of the opposite sex smiles at you from across the room, would you see it as romantic automatically?

YES!yeas!

17. Would you say that you are more of a dreamer or a realist?
dreamer of realistic proportions

18. Are you prone to being forgiving, or do you hold grudges?
if the issue was resolved than yes. if not i would always bring it up..

19. Are you very selective with your friends? Or are very accepting and nonjudgmental. Do you feel a need to protect the underdog and those who are socially awkward and feel left out?

im very unjudmental in that i can befriend anyone, and yes i do feel protective of underdogs..

20. How dedicated are you towards your friends?
not as much as i like to be ..

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posted October 31, 2011 03:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, the answers have been great so far! So far it looks like I do understand libras better than I thought, but then again I've only gotten two people's answers lol.

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posted October 31, 2011 04:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for malicefey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
1. Are you passive? If not do you have a fire rising?

I wouldn't say I'm passive. Actually I'm quite the opposite when it comes to getting something I want. I tend to be a bit demanding at work and bossy. I am a scorpio rising with pluto conjunct ascendant.

2. Are you shy? If not, would you say other libras you know are shy?

I am not at all shy. I am proud to be who I am and if people don't like it then well...too bad!! Sometimes I try to be alittle more tactful towards others as I know people have different sensitivities and not everybody can tolerate my sarcasm and dark humor. I know ALOT of libra friends and they are not at all shy. They tend to be outgoing, when all the libra friends (ha, that's what I call us) get together, we're always loud, laughing and we always bring a big group of people everywhere we go.

3. Do you love your fellow air signs, especially other librans?

I've never been in a relationship with a libra..but it'll be a nice idea to try to see how it's like to date someone with the same sign! haha

4. If there was someone you found annoying, but who was a really sweet person whose feelings you didn't want to hurt by rejecting them, would you pretend to be their friend and lead them on because you felt bad?

This really depends. I wouldn't become their friend just because I felt bad for them. If they were extra sensitive, I would try to still convey what I think of them but in a more tactful manner. But most of the time, when I find someone annoying, I just ignore them. People who annoy me usually aren't my friends. At most they are just acquaintances.

5. Would you go out with someone you didn't have feelings for just to give them a chance? and would you necessarily let them know straightforwardly that you didn't like them back in order to avoid leading them on?

Sorry, I wouldn't go out with anyone I don't have an attraction for. I would tell them straightforwardly that I am not interested in them and I hate leading people on. I rather say it like it is to sever any lingering emotions.

6. Do you often have trouble picking and defending a side in group debates where you have to make a decision quickly?

Sometimes I do feel I have trouble deciding between sides, but I always ultimately pick a side after contemplating for a bit. Quickly (depends how you define quick) would be rather hard for me. I wouldn't say I take a long time to weigh out the pros and cons but I do ultimately decide my own position.

7. Is it very important for you to be liked by everyone?

It is important for the people whom I find useful to like me. For example, those who can help me, those who are smarter than me and can provide me knowledge and insight, and especially those who have power/authority.

8. Do you usually take the initiative in inviting people to you want to be better friends with to hang out, taking the initiative to contact them, etc. Or do you usually take a more passive role?

I take initiative if it is someone I want to hang out with. I'm not really a phone person but for certain friends I tolerate spending 3 hours with them on the phone. (lol)

9. Are you extremely shy around someone you have strong feelings for?

Not really. Around people I have feelings for I am normally my crazy, goofy self. Perhaps a little shy but I would say only 30% shy and 70% not-shy.

10. If someone did something to make you really mad, would you tell them or would you ignore them and hope that they will get the picture that you're mad at them and then they will come to you asking you what's wrong.

Depends. If I feel the person is really worthy to be my friend or lover then I will tell them because I care about the relationship between me and that person. However, if I do find faults that I dislike about the person and they aren't truly worthy, then I wouldn't even bother telling them what's wrong (just to give them a chance to understand and reconcile).

11. Do you usually try to keep the same friends, or can you let go of most people quite easily.

I let go of most people easily. Only the close friends whom I fully trust will be able to have a long lasting friendship with me. The rest just come and go. If it wasn't a close friend, I wouldn't bother keeping in touch. They'd have to usually come to me.

12. Do you often feel that you get walked all over a lot, or do you maybe even sometimes imagine that you do?

Sometimes I do feel I get walked all over. When I do feel like that, I get angry. And I hate it when I'm angry and make rash decisions, so I tend to get angry, let myself cool off before I decide to do something about it. By then, I wouldn't let my emotions control my decision (which can lead to a bad one). Once my emotions are done crashing around like waves, I'll have more reasoning to make decisions.

13. When someone has hurt your feelings to the point that you were about to cry in front of them, would you admit how hurt you were afterwards or would you try to play it cool?

If someone were to hurt my feelings so much to the point where I start crying in front of them then I would probably cry infront of them, tell them why I did (because I was hurt) and hopefully they can see from my point of view too. Of course it depends on how close the person is to me. If this person isn't close to me then I will just play it cool.

14. Do you enjoy talking about emotions with someone you want to be close to or is that too suffocating a subject?

Even with close friends I rarely talk about emotions. At most, they often open up to me and talk about it, to which I will provide them some sort of guidance and my advice. It's not a suffocating or too close of a subject, it's just not me to be talking about emotions openly.

15. Do you like close emotional bonds with people? At what point would you begin to feel suffocated with someone? How close is too much closeness?

Being close to someone is good, it creates a good bonding relationship, but at the same time theres also a need to keep atleast some what of a distance (respectfully). Too much closeness to me would be when the man wants to pry into my EVERY DAY LIFE every hour, minute. That is literally too much. One who constantly calls is too much for me also. One who is always whining about how I don't spend time with them REALLY turns me off. I had a friend once who literally constantly complained that we don't hang out enough, even though I hung out with that person every month. I guess that's just the way I am.

16. Do you see everything in a more romantic light than it really is? For example when someone says "Don't worry, you'll do great, you can do it!" Do you blush and think "Awww!" Also, if a person of the opposite sex smiles at you from across the room, would you see it as romantic automatically?

For the smiling - no I wouldn't view it as romantic. As for the praise I don't necessarily see that as romantic. More like appreciation and that the person genuinely wants me to do well.

17. Would you say that you are more of a dreamer or a realist?

I do dream about things sometimes, but I tend to want to be more down to earth about things. After day-dreaming, I always wake up and realize that reality is not what I "dream" of. It hurts but..hey, I much rather have it that way.

18. Are you prone to being forgiving, or do you hold grudges?

If it was someone close that betrayed me, I will hold onto the grudge for a lifetime. If it is not a big deal that doesn't conflict with my trust/loyalty/values for someone then I would normally forgive.

19. Are you very selective with your friends? Or are very accepting and nonjudgmental. Do you feel a need to protect the underdog and those who are socially awkward and feel left out?

With close friends I am highly selective. For regular friends I am accepting and nonjudgemental. I usually want to protect the underdog so they don't feel they are left out because I definitely know how it's like to feel awkward!!

20. How dedicated are you towards your friends?

For close friends I am willing to do anything (like drop everything at the moment and go comfort them after they broke up with their bf/gfs) I always will make them for them. For casual friends I would just give them a few brief words of advice. I wouldn't drop everything for them. I would need them to show me that they are worthy of being someone close to me.


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posted October 31, 2011 04:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted October 31, 2011 05:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aww..I guess it got erased. Sorry, hate when that happens, too.

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posted November 01, 2011 09:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Swift Freeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:

1. Are you passive? If not do you have a fire rising?

I am not particularly pushy but I don't believe in forcing others to do something they don't want to do. I wouldn't say i'm that passive. I have a Leo Rising.

2. Are you shy? If not, would you say other libras you know are shy?

I tend to be somewhat shy when i'm first meeting people but i'm very sociable, friendly and talkative as soon as I can get around that initial shyness.

Most of the Libras I know tend to be sociable but not necessarily in the spotlight sociable, you get me?


3. Do you love your fellow air signs, especially other librans?

Air signs are cool, they tend to be relatively talkative and I find them quite funny, it is a comfortable fit most of the time.

4. If there was someone you found annoying, but who was a really sweet person whose feelings you didn't want to hurt by rejecting them, would you pretend to be their friend and lead them on because you felt bad?

If I found someone annoying I wouldn't make any pretense to be their friend if I didn't think a friendship would work between us.

5. Would you go out with someone you didn't have feelings for just to give them a chance? and would you necessarily let them know straightforwardly that you didn't like them back in order to avoid leading them on?

Nope, I would never go out with someone I didn't have feelings for. I'm also very straightforward if I don't like someone, I know how much unrequited love can make someone feel so I will talk to those people who have feelings for me if I don't have feelings for them so that they can know where we stand. Its just so they don't have to constantly wonder.

6. Do you often have trouble picking and defending a side in group debates where you have to make a decision quickly?

Not particularly, I like to polemic and to argue the opposite side just to play devil's advocate. I generally know which side I prefer and why. I'm pretty good at debating as well I feel.

7. Is it very important for you to be liked by everyone?

I like to be liked, doesn't everyone? I probably am slightly more paranoid if I think people don't like me. I think it is because I want to know what it is about me that people don't like. Generally I am well liked by everyone I know. I have noticed that women sometimes don't know how to treat me, or are unsure about me.

8. Do you usually take the initiative in inviting people to you want to be better friends with to hang out, taking the initiative to contact them, etc. Or do you usually take a more passive role?

I am passive, I almost always let newer friends/acquaintances suggest things to do and take the initiative in building the friendship.

Sometimes I might suggest things during conversation on the sly and get them to take the idea and develop it, the ol' manipulative side of Libra "I heard there was a great... in.... on..." "Oh i actually live pretty near there, i'm going to be going want to meet us there?" "Sure thats a great idea!"

9. Are you extremely shy around someone you have strong feelings for?

Yup. Whether its because i'm captivated or don't want to say or do anything to make them think less of me. It is a pretty awful response.

10. If someone did something to make you really mad, would you tell them or would you ignore them and hope that they will get the picture that you're mad at them and then they will come to you asking you what's wrong.

I speak up, i'm not shy about voicing if someone has upset me or made me mad etc. I think it is good to talk about it straight away clear misunderstandings up. At least i've dealt with it by speaking my part then I can put it behind without letting it fester and brewing resent.

11. Do you usually try to keep the same friends, or can you let go of most people quite easily.

I'm pretty good at keeping friends, if they've done something I think is unforgivable then I have no problem in letting them go, they screwed up and if they were my friend they wouldn't do something so awful, would they?

12. Do you often feel that you get walked all over a lot, or do you maybe even sometimes imagine that you do?

I don't feel I get walked over at all, I don't let myself either.

13. When someone has hurt your feelings to the point that you were about to cry in front of them, would you admit how hurt you were afterwards or would you try to play it cool?

As I said before i'm pretty straightforward, I don't feel i get walked over a lot.

14. Do you enjoy talking about emotions with someone you want to be close to or is that too suffocating a subject?

I find it pretty difficult to talk about my emotions with someone I want to be close with or their emotions if they want to be close with me, at least if we're not in a relationship. Ironically I love talking about other people's emotions.

15. Do you like close emotional bonds with people? At what point would you begin to feel suffocated with someone? How close is too much closeness?

I do like close emotional bonds, as long as I mostly have my freedom to go and do things as I please I don't mind. I would find someone trying to control my life suffocating otherwise I think I would be okay.

16. Do you see everything in a more romantic light than it really is? For example when someone says "Don't worry, you'll do great, you can do it!" Do you blush and think "Awww!" Also, if a person of the opposite sex smiles at you from across the room, would you see it as romantic automatically?

I suppose I do, i've never really thought about it that much. Although i'm quite shy, if i'm doing something I know i'm good at then someone telling me i'll do great doesn't make me blush etc. It steels me on and i think, "of course i'll do great, i'm fricking amazing at this!"

If someone of the opposite sex smiles at me from across the room I do tend to jump to conclusions about them liking me. Again i'm quite shy initially and if they were to come and talk to me i'm not too sure how to act or what to say. The more comfortable they are the better i'd feel. For that reason more dominating types fair better with me than shyer types, I don't mind them taking the lead and setting the tone. Being quite honest and open myself sometimes I upset people with the things I say even though I am light hearted about most things and don't intend to upset people. I find women who are confident more attractive.

17. Would you say that you are more of a dreamer or a realist?

I don't know, 50/50 shall we say for now.

18. Are you prone to being forgiving, or do you hold grudges?

Depends on what was done, i am mostly forgiving unless it was something I found horrendous.

19. Are you very selective with your friends? Or are very accepting and nonjudgmental. Do you feel a need to protect the underdog and those who are socially awkward and feel left out?

I am somewhat selective with those who I want to spend most of my time with. I don't necessarily stand up for those who are socially awkward. I do stand up for people who aren't given a chance because I know how that feels.

20. How dedicated are you towards your friends?

If ever they really needed me, I would be there for them 100%.


Sun - Virgo - 29
Moon - Gemini - 29
Mercury - Libra - 4 & Retrograde
Venus - Scorpio - 11
Mars - Libra - 1
Jupiter - Cancer - 8
Saturn - Capricorn - 7
Uranus - Capricorn - 1
Neptune - Capricorn - 9
Pluto - Scorpio - 13

I'm not far from being a Libra sun, right on the crossover point. I have a ton of Squares in my chart and some oppositions.

Asteroids

Scorpio Eros
Scorpio Sappho
Scorpio Cupido
Taurus Amor
Cancer Diana
Cancer Lust
Leo Aprhodite


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posted November 01, 2011 01:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Shankara     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
1. Are you passive? If not do you have a fire rising?

I'm probably kind of passive - I don't like conflict. But I'm better at standing up for myself when I need to than I used to be. I'm Aqua rising.

2. Are you shy? If not, would you say other libras you know are shy?

No, but I was when I was a kid. My mom is a Libra and she's not shy.

3. Do you love your fellow air signs, especially other librans?

Yes

4. If there was someone you found annoying, but who was a really sweet person whose feelings you didn't want to hurt by rejecting them, would you pretend to be their friend and lead them on because you felt bad?

Yes probably. I would feel guilty that I found them annoying and try to appreciate their sweetness.

5. Would you go out with someone you didn't have feelings for just to give them a chance? and would you necessarily let them know straightforwardly that you didn't like them back in order to avoid leading them on?

If I knew that there was NO way I could be interested in them I wouldn't go out with them.

6. Do you often have trouble picking and defending a side in group debates where you have to make a decision quickly?

I find that I'll listen to one side and be convinced, then listen to the other side and be convinced of that! But if I believe strongly in something that I'll stick to my convictions.

7. Is it very important for you to be liked by everyone?

Yes, but I'm working on that

8. Do you usually take the initiative in inviting people to you want to be better friends with to hang out, taking the initiative to contact them, etc. Or do you usually take a more passive role?

I would contact them, but would stop if it wasn't reciprocated

9. Are you extremely shy around someone you have strong feelings for?

Yes - if there is a guy I really like I'll probably go to great lengths to avoid him, unless he talks to me and it's easy to talk to him. Ignoring him wouldn't be a 'play' but just because I'd be nervous.

10. If someone did something to make you really mad, would you tell them or would you ignore them and hope that they will get the picture that you're mad at them and then they will come to you asking you what's wrong.

I'd tell them but try to be calm and nice about it.

11. Do you usually try to keep the same friends, or can you let go of most people quite easily.

I never had that many friends to begin with. Now that I have some good friends I would be sad to let them go.

12. Do you often feel that you get walked all over a lot, or do you maybe even sometimes imagine that you do?

Not really

13. When someone has hurt your feelings to the point that you were about to cry in front of them, would you admit how hurt you were afterwards or would you try to play it cool?

Depends - if it were someone I wasn't that close to, I'd play it cool. If I was close to them, I'd tell them if I thought it would help things

14. Do you enjoy talking about emotions with someone you want to be close to or is that too suffocating a subject?

I like it talking about emotions (maybe it's my Gemini Moon)

15. Do you like close emotional bonds with people? At what point would you begin to feel suffocated with someone? How close is too much closeness?

I like closeness, I only feel suffocated if I feel like I'm being controlled

16. Do you see everything in a more romantic light than it really is? For example when someone says "Don't worry, you'll do great, you can do it!" Do you blush and think "Awww!" Also, if a person of the opposite sex smiles at you from across the room, would you see it as romantic automatically?

The first one no, I'd see it as platonic unless I liked the guy and wanted to read something into it, then second one I'd think was romantic probably

17. Would you say that you are more of a dreamer or a realist?

Dreamer

18. Are you prone to being forgiving, or do you hold grudges?

Forgiving

19. Are you very selective with your friends? Or are very accepting and nonjudgmental. Do you feel a need to protect the underdog and those who are socially awkward and feel left out?

I think I'm pretty accepting with most people, but I wouldn't be friends with everyone. I don't judge the or try to change people (I will listen to them and be nice and respectful), but I want to be friends only with positive and kind people.

20. How dedicated are you towards your friends?

Very much so

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