posted November 07, 2011 12:10 PM            

From what I've noticed, some scorpios ( I guess, depending on their planets and placements) are heavily scorpios, and some are not-so-scorpio-scorpios. Would it make a big difference if, lets say, a scorpio has alot of fire in his/her chart, vs. scorpio who has alot of air? (Fire Scorpios and...Flying Scorpios?! haha)

I've heard many mixed thoughts about scorpios when they are in relationships. I just had a friend tell me the other day about how she felt scorpios don't know what they want and usually cannot commit to you. (Maybe this applies more to the scorpio male rather than the scorpio female) I feel scorpio females are much more loyal and committed.

And..what's up with the mind games? Scorpios act like they don't know or don't care or they are just saying something for the sake of conversation..but it's things like "Oh so..after your drunken incident, are you going to stop drinking now?" (Notice the way he phrased it..he didn't say "are you gonna drink less" at first, he said that later when he had to ask a SECOND time since I wasn't able to give him an answer). I get the feeling that he likes to probe into my life - but in a playful, almost childish way. HOWEVER, if I don't answer or if I'm vague (sometimes I can be very vague in my answers) he'll keep asking..and asking...and ask again..

Another thing I noticed is that they like to "casually" bring up things like "what are you doing when you go home from work today" or if I made a dinner reservation and have to wait for my scorpio bf, he'll ask "so, what will you do while you wait" but, if I give him a vague answer (I like to joke around ALOT) or try to be mysterious, he gives me that "stare" and playfully bites me (actually sometimes it does hurt!!!)

I don't have a stinging scorpio...I just have a biting one!

posted November 07, 2011 12:13 PM            

and as far as what the rest of what you were saying....yes scorpio loves to play games....and yes, a scorpio will assume after a bad incident you will stop or slow down with a bad behavior...its only logical after all, LOL

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted November 07, 2011 12:15 PM            

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Originally posted by NickiG:
yes, it does make a big difference if a scorpio has a lot of fire vs a lot of air...as is for any sign....i'm a scorpio with a lot of air and earth (well, air void but gem asc and merc singleton) so i tend to let things go easily while i believe a scorpio with a lot of fire would be far more resentful

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Hmm...maybe I feel he is more like the air and earth type, but he has his moon (aries), venus and merc (sag) in fire. He has Mars/Jupiter in Cap. Would that make him more intense (if he has more fire in his charts)? He seems very playful and childish though..Or maybe that's just what he WANTS me to see..

posted November 07, 2011 12:17 PM            

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Originally posted by malicefey:
Hmm...maybe I feel he is more like the air and earth type, but he has his moon (aries), venus and merc (sag) in fire. Would that make him more intense? He seems very playful and childish though..Or maybe that's just what he WANTS me to see..

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with personal planets in fire signs it will make him more playful (i have a leo moon and i do act childish) it can also make him "fire off" easily but short lasting...he will not forget any wrong done to him but if you sincerely apologize he will forgive you

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted November 07, 2011 12:21 PM            

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted November 07, 2011 12:24 PM            

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Originally posted by NickiG:
one of my mind games is when my bf asks me where i want to eat...i'll say "i dont know" or "you choose" while having something in mind and i expect them to know where i want to go or what kind of food i want....or i'll genuinely want to be surprised...but which?? who knows other than me

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Hahahaha, you guys are cruel!! But cute or atleast I think it's cute..LOL!!!! Actually my bf is the same as you.."I don't know.."

Me: What do you wanna do today
Him: I duno..
Me: Ok..what do you wanna eat today
Him: I dunnooooo
Me: Is there any other phrase you know in english other than 'I dunooooo'
Him: >_> *Bite*

posted November 07, 2011 12:29 PM            

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Originally posted by malicefey:
Hahahaha, you guys are cruel!! But cute or atleast I think it's cute..LOL!!!! Actually my bf is the same as you.."I don't know.."

Me: What do you wanna do today
Him: I duno..
Me: Ok..what do you wanna eat today
Him: I dunnooooo
Me: Is there any other phrase you know in english other than 'I dunooooo'
Him: >_> *Bite*

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LOL one of the best things about fire though, is spontenuity....fire loves surprises (pleasant of course) so go ahead and take him to a museum (like a body museum with nothing but body parts) or a historic (like dinosaurs) museum or a really pretty scenic spot you know of that he doesnt and have a picnic

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted November 07, 2011 03:16 PM            

Small samples:
Oct.1 - "I love you, I want you in my bed, I wanna see you and I can't handle the distance"
Oct.3 - OMG I can't stand the pressure, we need to break up and be by myself, I can't stand it"

Nov.4 - I'm no good for you, I will do terrible things to you, I like power games and manipulation, I have felt things for you but I can't express them, I am f**ked in the head"

Nov.5 - I want you and I love you, I wanna try to make things work, we just freaked out due to the distance [note: I didn't], we can do something good together, I am a better person and I don't need to wallow in the past anymore. Just give me some time to think."

Nov.6 - Arse to mouth, all women are the same"

posted November 07, 2011 03:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Choc:
My soon-to-be ex is an unevolved Scorpio Sun [Leo Moon, Sco Venus, Gem Mars and Sag ASC with some tough planets in his 1st H].
He can be schizophrenic.

Small samples:
Oct.1 - "I love you, I want you in my bed, I wanna see you and I can't handle the distance"
Oct.3 - OMG I can't stand the pressure, we need to break up and be by myself, I can't stand it"

Nov.4 - I'm no good for you, I will do terrible things to you, I like power games and manipulation, I have felt things for you but I can't express them, I am f**ked in the head"

Nov.5 - I want you and I love you, I wanna try to make things work, we just freaked out due to the distance, we can do something good together, I am a better person and I don't need to wallow in the past anymore. Just give me some time to think."

Nov.6 - Arse to mouth, all women are the same"

Honest to God I have not said or done anything to trigger such insanity.
I've only gotten in trouble with friends and family.
At the moment I'm like

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Whoa...I have my venus in scorpio and I can definitely say that during the first 3-4 months of the relationship with my current scorpio boyfriend, I was (literally) like a huge wave of emotions. One day I will be happy, perfectly fine, and then the next day I think about his actions, his words and I go "omg this isnt going to work, why is he so vague and confusing and mysterious and blah blah blah blah blah"

I cry sometimes just thinking about it, but then after that I will stop and go "wtf am I doing this is stupid"...-_-

But I guess that's cuz I had to get used to the scorpio-ways. I've never been in a relationship prior to this with a scorpio and now I am intrigued!

I also heard that there are 3 different types of scorpios..one is the unevolved one ( I guess the one you mentioned ) the grey lizard and the eagle.

I'm not sure but, don't they categorize the scorpios into these 3 animals based on their birthdays too? Like if you are an october scorpio you'd be the unevolved scorpio, etc..but I'm not sure..does anyone know?

posted November 07, 2011 03:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Choc:
My soon-to-be ex is an unevolved Scorpio Sun [Leo Moon, Sco Venus, Gem Mars and Sag ASC with some tough planets in his 1st H].
He can be schizophrenic.

Small samples:
Oct.1 - "I love you, I want you in my bed, I wanna see you and I can't handle the distance"
Oct.3 - OMG I can't stand the pressure, we need to break up and be by myself, I can't stand it"

Nov.4 - I'm no good for you, I will do terrible things to you, I like power games and manipulation, I have felt things for you but I can't express them, I am f**ked in the head"

Nov.5 - I want you and I love you, I wanna try to make things work, we just freaked out due to the distance [note: I didn't], we can do something good together, I am a better person and I don't need to wallow in the past anymore. Just give me some time to think."

Nov.6 - Arse to mouth, all women are the same"

Honest to God I have not said or done anything to trigger such insanity.
I've only gotten in trouble with friends and family.
At the moment I'm like

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posted November 07, 2011 04:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Choc:
I know, Although there still are one or two issues that need to be resolved immediately.. BUT he won't answer his ******* phone. [b]Flames on the side of my face.[/B]

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Blah, I hate that...I like to be direct, upfront and talk problems through while scorpios ( or atleast the ones I've met ) tend to avoid it.

posted November 07, 2011 05:31 PM            

What broke us was her lies, I just lost heart with being lied to in such a see through way.

posted November 07, 2011 10:42 PM            

With her current object of desire, she seems to use her indecisiveness as a means of control. The indecisiveness allows a certain amount of distance which clearly it's all just a means to cover up a fear of total trust. She's been pretty nuts in this relationship... won't admit they're dating or commit to him but forbids him to talk to any new girls, gets suspicious about the old ones. I guess with all those Scorpio placements she has more than enough patience for the fighting, the dramatic meltdowns they both have with each other... honestly they're a match made in heaven. If only he could drive himself at 24, I bet they'd be married already. He's an Aqua with a Cancer moon btw.

posted November 07, 2011 10:53 PM            

He said the wrong thing to me.. Im done with him...
I told him off and f.... u... and dont ever call me again

So Scorpio how to you like that Leo Mercury/ Mars??
Cuz he picked the wrong person, to say that crap too...
bye bye... See ya on the flip side...

posted November 07, 2011 10:55 PM            

I find them alittle too broody and emotionally intense (not in a good way)
They're usually secretive, kinda manipulative and have tendency towards being emotionally and verbally abusive.

I'm mostly not that into the broodiness.
Having an air stellium, and have jupiter being my strongest planet by far in my natal, as well as being pretty strongly uranian, I need sb more carefree and happy.

And people say scorpio moons are loyal. Um...

posted November 08, 2011 08:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Choc:
My soon-to-be ex is an unevolved Scorpio Sun [Leo Moon, Sco Venus, Gem Mars and Sag ASC with some tough planets in his 1st H].
He can be schizophrenic.

Small samples:
Oct.1 - "I love you, I want you in my bed, I wanna see you and I can't handle the distance"
Oct.3 - OMG I can't stand the pressure, we need to break up and be by myself, I can't stand it"

Nov.4 - I'm no good for you, I will do terrible things to you, I like power games and manipulation, I have felt things for you but I can't express them, I am f**ked in the head"

Nov.5 - I want you and I love you, I wanna try to make things work, we just freaked out due to the distance [note: I didn't], we can do something good together, I am a better person and I don't need to wallow in the past anymore. Just give me some time to think."

Nov.6 - Arse to mouth, all women are the same"

Honest to God I have not said or done anything to trigger such insanity.
I've only gotten in trouble with friends and family.
At the moment I'm like

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Not schizo lol (think you misunderstood the actual meaning of the word?) more like bipolar lol

posted November 08, 2011 08:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Choc:
PS. I just found out he has blocked me from seeing anything about him on Facebook. classy move. That effing c^#t. Haven't stopped crying. What the f--- did I do to him?.....I just can't.....

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Oooo...ya...what a b****, lol.

I noticed that my scorpio has a tendency to play "mind games" with me but in a VERY VERY VERY SUBTLE WAY. Sometimes I feel like I'm the one that's thinking WAY too much into subtle details but..hm..I have a feeling he does it on purpose.

FOR EXAMPLE:

He saw me going through my facebook the other night and was browsing through my guy friends' facebook and were going through their pictures. He kept turning his head to see (He was laying in bed next to me with his laptop on) and after about 5-6 minutes, I see in the corner of my eye that he's going through pictures of his friends (who were female)..very SLOWLY. Like, wtf dude, I KNOW YOU WERE IN THE MIDDLE OF TYPING AN E-MAIL.

After that he went back to typing his e-mail.

posted November 08, 2011 08:09 PM            

I commented on a guy actor who I said was my favorite and how much I really adore him and his acting.

A bit later, he points to the actor's wife (who is an actress in a movie we saw) and says "She's so cute". I'm sure he wanted a reaction out of me, so I bit his arm.

posted November 08, 2011 08:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Choc:
I have a feeling he's doing this because he wants to make me act a certain way towards a certain person..Which is 1]basically emotional blackmail and 2]not working cuz I am a proud individual.
I will make a thread for this b**lsh** tomorrow. This cr@p is tearing me apart right now.

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That is one big unevolved scorpio...but if you can hang in there, maybe it'll pay off in the long run???? :\