posted November 26, 2011 10:58 AM            

lessons that YOU learned after having been in a relationship or dated one; sun in VIRGO.
--post your ascendant

GO!!!!!!!!

posted November 26, 2011 01:07 PM            

DO: SHOW us that you care about us, instead of tell us.

DON'T: Make us feel threatened/attacked in any way, because we will become defensive on your a$$ and tell you EXACTLY what we think about you and your stuck up attitude/fancy pants car, house, etc/sloth-like lifestyle/the fact that you smack your lips when you eat [insert any other highly annoying personal tendencies here].

posted November 26, 2011 01:14 PM            

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Originally posted by enchantress299:

DON'T: Insult our tendency to constantly rate things on a scale of 1 to 10 (for ourselves). So yes, I realize that I am extremely picky when it comes to movies (books, music, etc-everything really), but that's because I really only want to watch the best movie for ME. Why would I waste my time with any thing else?

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argh!.. these postings were intended for the other people who dated the virgo but i can't resist! i want to add on to this just for future's sake... i second the quote and would like to say this: DON'T QUESTION IT!

our movies rule, yours suck! i have a taste for something specific; i'm open-minded but trying to shove something else down my throat that is already a bit dated and from my experience; my saying "i'm not going to like it" literally means that.. i won't.. listen to me when i say so and maybe suggest something else.

posted November 26, 2011 01:22 PM            

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argh!.. these postings were intended for the other people who dated the virgo

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Yeah, sorry... Other people on other threads were doing it, so I had to jump on the bandwagon. ESPECIALLY because Virgo tends to be very misunderstood.

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i want to add on to this just for future's sake... i second the quote and would like to say this: DON'T QUESTION IT!

our movies rule, yours suck! i have a taste for something specific; i'm open-minded but trying to shove something else down my throat that is already a bit dated and from my experience; my saying "i'm not going to like it" literally means that.. i won't.. listen to me when i say so and maybe suggest something else.

force-feeding me a sh*tty film isn't going to win you any points but it's sure going to make me think twice about ever taking a trip for movie night over at your place again, that's for sure.

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posted November 26, 2011 02:15 PM            

Show that you have opinions and a brain! Virgos are ruled by mercury afterall, and most of us find intelligence and wit terribly sexy. Show that you are knowledgeable, that you're going places, that you've got dreams and aspirations. Show that you keep up with the current world news, that you're not just an empty shell.

Give us space. Most virgos like it. Needy people need to tone down the clinginess.

Make us feel secure- when we get uneasy, we might not mention it until it builds up. You don't want it to get to that point.

Open up to us. We like it when we feel that you're showing a different side to us. We are great listeners, and we are highly dependable.

Keep well presented. Our eyes abhor sloppiness and mess.

BE YOURSELF! WE JUST WANT HONESTY, WE CAN SEE PAST THE FAKENESS. We ALWAYS see past the act, so just be genuine. Don't try to impress us. Just be the real you. Cos that's what we want to get to know afterall.

Learn to talk problems out. Don't just hold it in. We like to talk through our problems and get it sorted.

Don't

Swear like a sailor. I swear too alittle, but it gets too much if you swear 2 times in every sentence.

PLAY MINDGAMES! We hate it! We're straight forward and it just ****** us off.

Make huge emotional scenes, esp in public. It's embarrassing.

Don't exclaim forevers and crap like that. They don't exist, don't go making grandiose exclamations of love. If you love us, be realistic, and SHOW IT.

posted November 26, 2011 03:08 PM            

Almost a year with a Virgo, and I have a Virgo mom...

Yea, for sure, dont take their critisisms personally.

Dont try to fix their depressions, just back off and guard yourself from the (temporarily) terrible down energy.

Dont over-emote and dont create drama.

Do appreciate their groundedness and sensibility.

Absolutely DO love them for who they are, be honest...

And the biggest dont..critisize them...o lordy dont ever critisize them!

posted November 27, 2011 10:30 AM            

Do trust them. They are very genuine. (But there are exceptions so don't trust blindly, nows)

Do sit back and enjoy the ride. <3 I love virgos.