posted September 19, 2014 11:18 PM            

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Originally posted by fenia:
you mean, they change their minds? after having sex?

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posted September 19, 2014 11:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
Fire signs like being constantly engaged mentally and emotionally. The more fun things feel, the less likely they are to leave.
If things seem depressing or too "heavy" on an emotional level, it can make them feel suffocated.
Judging by your chart, you're probably someone who would easily get on with fire signs.

Sometimes Pisces people can lose themselves in a sea of pure hurt and sadness... A person with predominant fire would react to this ^ with fear and apprehension - not with compassion.
But considering your Leo/Aries placements - you're probably an optimist at heart.

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I love the coy cat/mouse game. They love me because I'm ethereal, silly and fun but when I want commitment even if they ask for it; I can't get it 100%. They are more in their head than in real life

posted September 19, 2014 11:50 PM            

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Originally posted by livictori:
but when I want commitment even if they ask for it; I can't get it 100%. They are more in their head than in real life

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Fire signs can commit right away if the chemistry is right. They can also hold affections for very long and be very stable in their affections with the right person.

It might be something else in your synastry or something else that clashes in personality.

posted September 20, 2014 01:29 AM            

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Originally posted by livictori:
I love the coy cat/mouse game. They love me because I'm ethereal, silly and fun but when I want commitment even if they ask for it; I can't get it 100%. They are more in their head than in real life

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That might be less to do with fire signs and more because you're a Pisces sun (presuming here, off of Odette's response. I have not seen your chart yet)

Here's why - as something to consider - your Sun is one of the planets that describes men in your life. The how's and why's I'm too lazy to research right now, but it's been said. The nature of Pisces itself is slippery.

posted September 20, 2014 01:30 AM            

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Originally posted by livictori:
Not after sex but after they capture my attention and convince me to consider them as a partner

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Keep in mind, with heavy fire signs if everything is not perfect, they will walk away esp if they have been through bad break ups before.

posted September 20, 2014 01:53 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
That might be less to do with fire signs and more because you're a Pisces sun (presuming here, off of Odette's response. I have not seen your chart yet)

Here's why - as something to consider - your Sun is one of the planets that describes men in your life. The how's and why's I'm too lazy to research right now, but it's been said. The nature of Pisces itself is slippery.

If you have Sun in Pisces it's akin to having Neptune in the 5th house. Do you have a fire sign planet or a fire sign ruling that house in general?

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My Neptune is in Sagittarius but in the second house. Here's my chart

posted September 20, 2014 02:12 AM            

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Originally posted by livictori:
My Neptune is in Sagittarius but in the second house. Here's my chart

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That explains a lot. You have Moon and Venus - your two fire sign planets, trine Neptune. And you're a Pisces Sun. It doesn't mean you're doomed just that your relationships with fire signs in particular will probably always be Neptune-y in some way. They're creative, or they're too good to be true, or they're unavailable in some way, or they aren't realistic.<< just examples.

posted September 20, 2014 05:37 AM            

Considering your placements finding someone who has a lot of fire but perhaps isn't a fire sun could be a good option. I was going to suggest a Scorpio Venus or moon but that might clash with your Venus and moon.

posted September 20, 2014 07:46 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
That explains a lot. You have Moon and Venus - your two fire sign planets, trine Neptune. And you're a Pisces Sun. It doesn't mean you're doomed just that your relationships with fire signs in particular will probably always be Neptune-y in some way. They're creative, or they're too good to be true, or they're unavailable in some way, or they aren't realistic.<< just examples.

They could love you forever but without other synastry aspects to speculate, so from those trines alone, probably won't ever get a commitment from them.

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posted September 20, 2014 07:50 AM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I'm a Sag and if I'm honest I find water Sun's very difficult to deal with. So if at first it's all fun and flirty, it usually goes wrong quite quickly and as others have said fire signs can get spooked by too much too soon or they can tell it's not going to go anywhere so they move on.

Considering your placements finding someone who has a lot of fire but perhaps isn't a fire sun could be a good option. I was going to suggest a Scorpio Venus or moon but that might clash with your Venus and moon.

Hmmm. Interesting predicament!

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posted September 20, 2014 11:42 AM            

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Originally posted by livictori:
I'm not too emotional. What I really feel is like a leo. I find pisces annoying usually because they're so emotive and fantasy like. They make decisions that don't make sense to me

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The Pisces I know are not really emotional either. There is just something that doesn't click for me, or rather both. We start by flirting then end up as friends. I have two good male friends where that happened.

I'm seeing an Aqua now and he has a Leo moon. He comes across very Leo. I like Leo moons. Leo moons seem to really shine through.