posted September 15, 2012 02:58 PM            

To quote an excerpt from Jan Spiller's Astrology for the Soul:

"Owing to their passionate instincts, Aquarius North Node people have a strong need to be in a relationship. But they tend to lose the relationships in which they feel profound mutual passion and often end up marrying people they care less deeply about. When they are with someone they enjoy but who doesn’t arouse their passion, they can establish the distance to be them-selves and make appropriate decisions. Their basic qualities of friendliness and support shine through, and the other person feels safe and desires a closer union with them. Sometimes these relationships work out well. Having a marriage partner that is essentially a friend gives them the independence they need to focus their unlimited creative energy on humanitarian projects."

I'm interested in a girl that has NN in Aquarius and I think she's going through this with me. I'm just not sure she knows how to handle the energy of the connection and she runs or blanks out. It also doesn't help that she's a Virgo Sun and Venus in Scorpio...

I guess my question is to all NN in Aquarius people, what does that intense type of passion feel like and is there anything I can do to try and make things easier for her?

Are there success stories where an NN in Aquarius is in a relationship with someone who does arouse that kind of passion or do most imagine it to be some kind of rollercoaster ride and stay clear?

posted September 15, 2012 04:42 PM            

Very true about it being an individualistic journey as I know my NN in Virgo was and I still have conflict sometimes because of my Pisces Moon so I don't know if I'm regressing at times or just blissfully in the source.

posted September 15, 2012 05:35 PM            

From the other persons point of view, my experience was that if it wasn't their way, they wanted none of it. They're friendly people and warm but seriously, the drama. They may not see it but throwing a fit in a department store to complain about the service isn't unheard of with south node in leo.

They try to be VERY helpful but it again has to be their way. That part is very confusing because in trying to tell em that what they're giving isn't helping, instead of listening they take it personal, shut down and pull away.

South node in leo could be better understood as that very glamorous person that sends an invite to someone to go to dinner. If they knew what was good for them, they wouldn't turn down the invite.

That might've worked before but south node in leo isn't in that position anymore but the impression is still there. They'll get offended just the same.

The lady i knew with it had more than a handful of romantic interests at any given time BUT there was always SOMETHING! they didn't have enough money if u asked her or they didn't have it together and she would actually do things to belittle them in one way or another; if he had less money she'd give him money only to then get disappointed that he wasn't well off.

Once she would do that, she'd lose interest.

Mind you, none of them were people to have been in a position to be established. She ran across plenty of em but always chose the one's lesser off to prop herself up to feel better. She had sun in pisces.

posted September 15, 2012 07:28 PM            

Yes, apparently that's another lesson of theirs - that other people won't necessarily follow their script or how they think things should progress.

I have my Aquarius ASC conjunct her North Node which is apparently a tie where I'm supposed to help the individual move towards their growth path, but on a personal level, I'm definitely not looking to be the 'savior' and I guess because I am aware of these behaviours/traits I need to be very careful that I don't try and force feed her growth and just lead by example.

posted September 15, 2012 09:27 PM            

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Achieving the mission of your nodes isn’t about completely abandoning the South Node in favor of the North Node. It’s about achieving balance in your life.

People tend to live too much in the South Node way of life when they are young, and learn to BALANCE their South Node with North Node behaviors as the learn and move forward in life.

People with an Aquarius North Node, and a Leo South Node when they are young tend to live too much in the ‘Leo’ mode of life. Life is a big drama where everything feels like a big deal, and they may focus too much on personal interests, and romantic passion, as opposed to community involvement and friendship.

This person needs to BALANCE these two parts of their life, not completely abandon one part for the other. They need to learn to balance passion with objectivity, romance with friendship, and personal interests with community interests.

I have South Node in the 5th house, and North Node in the 11th house. I definitely intend to marry someone I have romantic feelings for, couldn’t imagine doing otherwise. But I also recognize that I need a partner who is a friend, and who shares the same social interests as myself. I’m looking for both in the one partnership… friendship and passion… balanced in the relationship.

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posted September 15, 2012 11:04 PM            

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I enjoyed reading this immensely and am gonna copy this to my computer for later reference.

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