posted August 29, 2011 10:32 PM            

I'm on the inside.. What are your thoughts? Will this be just a friendship or something more?
I've known him for a few months now, but only found out his d.o.b. yesterday. This relationship has sneaked up on me. I thought I saw him as a friend/acquaintance but lately I've been wondering...
I was very surprised that he is a Cap Sun. I was so sure that he'd be a Leo or a Libra based on his behavior towards me. In fact I wasn't even curious about his chart because I was *that* convinced that I had him 'figured out' astrologically LOL
He seems affectionate - which is not really Capricorn-like. But that might be his Leo AC.

posted August 30, 2011 03:15 AM            

-your Moon conj his Sun/Merc

-if you indeed are Cancer rising then you 2 have a huge point of compatibility, conj ASC rulers. the Sun/Moon also doesn't receive any hard aspects from either natal so that is a plus.

-DSC rulers would also be in the same sign

-your H11 Sun/Venus, his H11 Moon

-his ASC/Saturn trine turns your Sun into a grand trine, in Fire so hyped energy but energy that can last and is sustainable, no burn outs since it's stabilized by his Saturn.
There's more it's just hard (messy) to read the natals that way.

posted August 30, 2011 09:13 PM            

I have had internet problems and havent been able to sign on..

I like the sun conjunct merc/Moon AND Juno!
Seems like extra comfort with each other.

IDK about Mars neptune... Your use to it.. But he may not see you clearly..

Im so against neptune, now... Makes u feel like you live in perfect world... lol

NN on the MC.. hummm...

Saturn/Venus..
WOW... may stick together for a while..

posted September 02, 2011 03:28 AM            

This relationships has taken a strange turn.

I'm not sure how to react to new developments. Here is what's been happening...

Lonake - Yes he is a co-worker!

So - basically there's another guy who is working with us of late. I like his personality, but Capricorn guy can't stand him. He is gay - and when Capricorn guy leaves the room he chit-chats about how hot Cap guy is and how nice his ass is LOL I'm serious!
I attribute this ^ to his Scorpio Mercury.

Anyway, I find it funny myself... but Cap guy cannot see the humor in this situation at all.
I am seeing a side of him that is very cold/nasty, because of the way he is treating this other guy - and I'm starting to wonder whether I even like him ... hmmm

I don't know what to think. Am I making a big deal out of something that isn't?
I mean he has not done anything too bad... but his overall behavior is very dismissive/patronizing towards this guy - and sometimes he just completely avoids him like the plague.
If I happen to be talking to him, he avoids me also.

I was thinking that maybe if there was a lesbian working with us who was hitting on me and saying these things about my ass etc -- maybe it would make me uncomfortable as well.. I really don't know. But I still wouldn't be disrespectful towards her because I have too much Pisces in me.

posted September 12, 2011 01:17 AM            

I have a feeling Transiting Mars in Cancer - having come into opposition with our Capricorn stuff.... jump started something that either wasn't there before, or that was lying dormant.. and now it's come to the surface. It's genuinely scaring me.

I actually preferred it when we were friends - which is basically most of this year.. Things were so laid back and I just didn't see him this way...

How can you start liking someone over night - like this?

Is it the Mars transit?

I feel like I should stay away from him for some reason.
But then sometimes I feel like being as close as possible to him. And he always gets close - like he sits close.. his body language is all over me lol

I don't know....

I feel weird about this whole thing. I feel liek he REALLY likes me.. I mean strongly likes me...
But on the other hand... I don't think we're right for each other.. and I'm sensing something holding him back.
I also have things holding me back.

It's like getting a glimpse of something that could be sooooooooooooo sweet and perfect... and for some reason you think "I just can't go there" - because other things are stopping you.

posted September 15, 2011 07:23 PM            

One is that he is too possessive and traditionally minded (traditional as in: wow you mean men and women can be just friends? not in the century I come from).

He feels weird about the fact that he’s not my one and only male friend in the world. I have many male friends. He is being cold towards me simply because, during a formal event we went to – I talked a lot to this other guy. Apparently I didn’t give him enough attention. Poor thing – felt left out…. Now it seems his claws are coming out.
Maybe it’s the Aries Mars? He wants my attention allllllllll to himself. He’s too competitive wth other men… and it starts over the smallest things (not only over me).

My second problem is – the other day - he went from being sweet and nice to me – to being a jerk, in a matter of minutes, because of a career-related thing. This is about a program which was specifically set up for women, which I took advantage of. Partaking in his program has considerably improved my CV. Instead of being happy for me – as I would be for him – in the same situation… He is angry and envious.
I understand that he is having some problems right now and it is not easy for him financially… but I felt like he instantly took it out on me… He’s reaction was basically - “why the HELL should women specifically benefit from this???” - ( said slightly more tactfully).

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I’m really just spilling the beans… Do you think he isn’t worth it - girls?

I’m very undecided. He can also be very sweet and affectionate – all of the positive things you read about Capricorns being fatherly. He does care about me.. If I’m in a bad mood, he asks me what’s wrong and he’s really good listener. He always wants to help me. He seems reliable and he’s verrrrrrry cute… really cute!

posted April 22, 2012 11:39 PM            

He lied to me about how old he was. I'm so annoyed right now
I was born in '86. He said he was born in '87... and he was actually born in '89. He seems so much older though. He thought I might have an issue with his age.... for some reason.

This is the real synastry and composite!