posted May 09, 2012 10:34 AM            

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Originally posted by ProudestLeo:
More specific...how does it play out or affect ones love life? Because from what I've read its supposed to make the person a very frustrated one in that area of life...

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Cafe Astrology -
Sun square Mars, Sun opposition Mars
There is an unmistakable competitiveness and a "me-first" attitude with those who have Sun square or opposition Mars in their natal charts. The fighter persona is most apparent in youth, when the child is described as a "bundle of energy", or it is remarked that he or she "can't sit still". The abundant energy generated by the hard aspects (especially the square) between the Sun and Mars is hard to direct in childhood. Later in life, ideally, those with these aspects have learned to channel some of their excess energy into productive avenues--perhaps through career, sports, or any area where competitiveness is considered an asset. Nevertheless, people with these aspects can meet up with more than their share of conflict, and they can most certainly rub people the wrong way. They are very motivated to get things done, to take action rather than simply talk about something, and to get from point A to point B as quickly as possible. Those who know them quite well might describe these people as hot-headed and temperamental at times. They are easily frustrated, and they're given to impulsive actions and assertion of their wills. If the aspect is found in cardinal signs, it gives impulsiveness and a short temper. If the aspect is found in fixed signs, the natives can be very hard-headed and willful. If it's in mutable signs, it gives a restless and frustrated impatience.

Essentially, those with Sun square Mars in their charts have faced conflict and are not particularly afraid of it. They have faced having their need to assert themselves blocked. Their parents may have done as much as they could to "tame" what they felt to be excess energy or aggression. In other words, they know all about conflict and blockages, so that when they are faced with a challenge or a roadblock, they don't run away from it or hide under the covers feeling sorry for themselves. They meet challenges head-on.

Sun opposition Mars people are more confrontational and argumentative than active. In youth, they might feel that they often face anger from others. They might see the Mars energy as coming from the outside. If and when they face the fact that the aggression is actually a part of their own personalities, they are more equipped to direct the competitive energy into productive avenues.

posted May 09, 2012 12:00 PM            

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Originally posted by ProudestLeo:
Yeah, I read that but it dosen't tell you how it could play out in love...plus I would like to hear some personal experiences

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posted May 09, 2012 12:19 PM            

      Sometimes you appear temperamental which can be advantageous. You become aggressive or depressed at any kind of restrictions. This leads to a desire to satisfy your needs using any means necessary. This will annoy people because this behavior can be tolerated by almost no one. If you want to avoid arousing anger, make an attempt to restrain yourself. Before doing anything, be sure you know exactly what you want. Make an effort to control your anger and exercise patience and tolerance; this is the only way to achieve your ambitions without entangling yourself in conflicts.

posted May 09, 2012 08:31 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
Do your mean how would this aspect effect you in relationships? That would depend on the type of people you attract and how you are in relationships with other people manifest certain attributes. EX. Your natal sun square some's mars.

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