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Topic: Scorpio sent his daughter after me?
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esheep123
Knowflake Posts: 222
From: brooklyn, ny usa
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 07:46 PM
  
He cut me off over a year ago. I left him alone, because that's what he said he wanted. He didn't contact me at all, after my last attempt. He had requested a game of Words With Friends on the iPhone back in April. I played, he never made a move after me. Today is exactly a YEAR since the last time I saw him. It's also Venus Rx, and conjunct my Venus exact. His 11 year old daughter suddenly friends me on Facebook. I'm not sure what to do, I know he uses her FB. I don't want to hurt the little girls feelings. I do love her, and even resorted to reading her Twitter so I could have a connection to them. (stalkerish I know, packed eighth). I don't want to go back the way I came. I came far, people, I transformed my thinking after this knucklehead ripped my heart into smithereens. He has a Gemini Moon, and Libra Venus. I know, I know, I'm a trooper. He hurt me, and didn't respect me, and treated me like a stranger and it feels so rough.  So, I don't know what I'm asking, but, yeah. WHat do you think? IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 3289
From: Saturn-free H12 ;)
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 07:54 PM
The curse of Venus Rx!Oh,so you like Gotye!  Well,that Words with Friends incident is so Scorpy,one should make a caption out of it  Obviously,you know better -what do you do on FB? refuse,ignore? I know for Twitter is unfollowing Do that IP: Logged |
esheep123
Knowflake Posts: 222
From: brooklyn, ny usa
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 07:55 PM
Venus, it's his daughter, who for her birthday, I debated on sending her an anonymous present, but thought that it's too desperate looking.I love that little girl.  IP: Logged |
esheep123
Knowflake Posts: 222
From: brooklyn, ny usa
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 07:57 PM
Somebody that I used to know is perfectly timed for Venus Rx too, don't you think?IP: Logged |
vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 313
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted June 16, 2012 07:59 PM
You can accept her on facebook , but control your privacy. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 3289
From: Saturn-free H12 ;)
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 08:00 PM
I know. GREAT SONG.
What is a 11 yr old kid doing on social network? And the man using his kid. You know using kid is wrong.
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esheep123
Knowflake Posts: 222
From: brooklyn, ny usa
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 08:04 PM
Vickymadness, yeah, that's a good idea. But I'm going to wait a few days. Maybe she'll cancel the request on her own.VenusDiSirus, sadly lots of children have social networking sites. But he's a great dad, and he is on his game. He's aware. He's a Scorp! IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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From: Saturn-free H12 ;)
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 08:10 PM
Maybe you should wait till Venus is direct again,to weigh on whether to accept it or not.Does she have her privacy on? If not,you can still see stuff,and there's room for him to act.
*I am still baffled at not playing the words game It is mean,yet so funny and childish
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esheep123
Knowflake Posts: 222
From: brooklyn, ny usa
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 08:16 PM
She has her privacy on. I can't see much. Yeah, I'll wait for Venus to go direct. That's the smart thing to do. Thank you.Wanna be more Baffled? The day before he requested the Words with Friends game, his daughter Tweeted that he was going overseas for a month. So I knew not to expect him to play at all. Jokes on him, no? I figured he was trying to make sure I wasn't mad at him if something happened to him on his trip. That was an instinctual (benefit of the doubt) feeling I had. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 3289
From: Saturn-free H12 ;)
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 08:21 PM
So,he did leave overseas??IP: Logged |
esheep123
Knowflake Posts: 222
From: brooklyn, ny usa
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 08:22 PM
That's what the girl tweeted. And then she tweeted she was riding to the airport to see her dad off. I have no doubt that he went. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 3289
From: Saturn-free H12 ;)
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 08:27 PM
I don't know why he would do that... No wefi on the liners? or roaming? He can play,if he wants to.IP: Logged |
mercuranian
Knowflake Posts: 523
From: the 12th house
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 16, 2012 08:31 PM
IGNORE and FORGET his a**!!
(you know it's the right thing to do)IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 3289
From: Saturn-free H12 ;)
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 08:38 PM
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esheep123
Knowflake Posts: 222
From: brooklyn, ny usa
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 08:39 PM
I've moved on, actually. I met this Cap sun/Libra moon/ Scorp rising guy. He's so sweet. A little nuts, but soooo cute.I could live without Scorp--NOW. Last year, I could have died, and wouldn't have given a sh!t. He hurt me so bad. It took how many full moons, eclipses, and a Pluto transit to my rising (still has yet to reach ONE MORE DEGREE) to work through the mess. He was mean, and disrespectful, and the worst part, he told me that I misunderstood him...How do you misunderstand "I love you" Well,anyway, I like the idea of not answering until after Venus turns direct. ANd then my answer to the request should be easy, right? IP: Logged |
esheep123
Knowflake Posts: 222
From: brooklyn, ny usa
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 08:40 PM
Venus, lol, so funny.Words with friends was after a conjunction between Uranus and my natal Merc. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 3289
From: Saturn-free H12 ;)
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 08:43 PM
Yeah,you can always blame Uranus for internet and similar stuff
Pair that with Merc and you have communications work in mysterious ways IP: Logged |
esheep123
Knowflake Posts: 222
From: brooklyn, ny usa
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 08:45 PM
I had a dream the night before that he was sitting at his desk, holding his phone and frowning.I've got Neptune Sag in 12H. I 'see' things in a practical way... IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 3289
From: Saturn-free H12 ;)
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 08:49 PM
Phones have starring roles,I see I have H12 Merc. If I dreamt something like that,I would ask myself do I want for him to call me knowing it is not ok IP: Logged |
esheep123
Knowflake Posts: 222
From: brooklyn, ny usa
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 08:57 PM
I would love to tell him what I really think, now that the fog has cleared. Now that he's off that pedestal...I would tell him that he was not fair to me. That he was a liar, that you don't treat someone you 'love' like that. I would tell him that he hurt me, and he was selfish. I would tell him he's a coward for running away from our relationship. You don't bail because it becomes intense. His darn air moon. A Scorp who isn't really a Scorp, you know? But it's pointless. He'll just retaliate and put the blame on me somehow. He's good at that. I forgive him, through it all. I won't hate him. I won't give him that kind of power over me.
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VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 3289
From: Saturn-free H12 ;)
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 09:02 PM
"His darn air moon. A Scorp who isn't really a Scorp, you
know?"
Yeah,I know.But you say it is pointless having in mind his possible bad reaction? What if he's really feeling sorry? IP: Logged |
esheep123
Knowflake Posts: 222
From: brooklyn, ny usa
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 09:07 PM
It's been a year. If he is contacting me, I believe he's trying to ease his guilt, or in need of an ego boost, that I will no longer supply.He is not going to win. No siree bob. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 3289
From: Saturn-free H12 ;)
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 09:10 PM
Indifference is best vengance when flame is old IP: Logged |
mercuranian
Knowflake Posts: 523
From: the 12th house
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 16, 2012 09:12 PM
quote:
Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Indifference is best vengance when flame is old
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esheep123
Knowflake Posts: 222
From: brooklyn, ny usa
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 16, 2012 09:13 PM
Who am I kidding? I miss him like crazy.I YEARN for him, like I made up the word. But I can't go backwards. It's not fair.
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