posted June 17, 2012 08:56 PM
Kinda long but PLEASE any advice is appreciated::This is all starting to get complicated and confusing really fast. I dont have birth stats but I have alot of Pluto Energy and he has alot of Neptune we also both have earth elements.
How we met was not the traditional way it was more or less like a business dealing. He is a rich guy (boat,condos,beach house, porsche, mansion etc) and also successful, really smart. He pays all of my major expenses while I am studying for a degree.
Well pretty soon, 3 months or so he says he loves me without really saying those words. He more or less writes it in a poem (such a Pisces!). This left the Scorpio in me very suspicious, it had only been 3 months. Also, he said previously that he wasnt looking for any commitment.
He seemed to be conflicted. He said that he was going through too much (divorce is final but still hurt). But at the same time he did not expect to find someone he got along so well with so fast. At this point, I am doing what I hate the most in the world, become *vulnerable* and tell him that I prefer serious relationships as well. This kinda shuts him down.
Well, 2 or so months later he calls me up and says that he is starting to develop feelings for me. He says that he thinks about me too much, he wants to just spend time with me, that he wants to just take care of me. That he wants me to *want* it as bad as he does.
So here is the thing, whenever I am a cold/detached Scorpio this Pisces guy seems to be all over me. But when I am even a little decent he kinda shuts down. To complicate things he is about 28 years older than me.
Can anyone with Pisces experience tell me if this is normal? How do they pursue? Is this guy just crazy or sweet or fickle?