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MoonMystic
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posted April 20, 2022 03:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm curious what to look for with a person I'm figuring out.
What would define overly obsessed and insecure nature in a man? He says things occurred in life that made him this way but I think it may be in the natal as well?
Thank you.

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plutonianmenace
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posted April 20, 2022 04:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonianmenace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pluto aspects and a whole lot of em.

Source:

Guy who has Pluto aspecting damn near every planet in his chart gets quite obsessed.

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MoonMystic
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posted April 20, 2022 04:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
plutonianmenace thank you.

Do you think a specific sign, house or aspect with Pluto may bring these tendencies?


He has Pluto (5th) in Libra ? relationships. His Pluto is contraparall
his 5th house too.
Trine Sun, trine Mars Cnj Saturn
Sextile Neptune, trine NN.

He pursues me but freaks out almost daily. The best we can do is like 2 days before something causes him to panic.

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posted April 20, 2022 05:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Watch out for Scorpio and Leo Suns or any placements in these signs. Especially when afflicted they are obsessive.

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MoonMystic
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posted April 20, 2022 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Athenegoddess,
Thank you! How about Leo Venus? He's devoid of the more personal energetic Scorpio placement.
Actually looking now he has nothing in Scorpio unless I count asteroids.


This situation is making me see I'm dangerous with certain type of people.
I think this pattern has followed me through life. The obsession from most the one's I've been involved is off the hook. Though I try to shine the need for healing, they just won't get past the fixation which the dance never ends.
Pluto Libra may be reason for this dynamic.


Adding:
My mother gets on me about it like it's a "me thing". So could my fixed energy present unhealthy obsession?

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sashavittoria
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posted April 20, 2022 08:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sashavittoria     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Pluto in the 5th (Scorpio) and I get obsessive. I posted about specific synastries in the thread on limerence - there were some specific commonalities with my "limerent objects".

He sounds similar to me. I have Pluto in the 5th (Scorpio) trine Mars (Pisces, 9th), square Saturn (Aqua, 8th), and sextile Neptune/Uranus (Cap, 7th).

As vansio once told me, "Us 5H Pluto people will not stand to be repressed culturally, creatively, romantically, existentially."

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posted April 20, 2022 09:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with Pluto aspects. Pluto in the 5th house of fun, could turn the themes of the 5th(which are not intended to be serious) to be very serious indeed.

When in aspect to Sun/Sat & Mars , it could suggest an area of life that has a lot of charge surrounding it. "Fun" is very serious business. There is nothing casual about it. The term "lighten up" is lost to these people. Or atleast when it comes to 5th house themes.

I have Sun sextile Pluto and (luckily) with Jup/Nep conj Sun(ruling house 5), it offsets some of the intensity of that aspect. But Sat is also contra-parrallel the 5th house, so it still feels very serious.

I often find that when I get "casual" with people,I end up really(and unintentionally) hurting their feelings. And the resentment on their end lingers on. This even when I try to make amends 😮

I am not tooting any horn(least of all my own) when I say that these people(Pluto/Nep reacting with 5th house in some way) could have issues with psychic boundaries in terms of 5th house matters.

They may walk into a social situation. And already people are "claiming" them as their own (without informing the placement holder). And this can spark off animosity/competition amongst the group that has gathered because everyone there may want a "piece" of them etc.

An example is if a really attractive stranger walks into game night with close friends. Most people there (as it is with attractive people when Plu/Nep is involved) will react either with STRONG dislike/like. And this may affect the dynamics of the interactions already present in the social gathering i.e things may get hectic as feelings of jealousy/possessiveness and competitive rivalry for the stranger's attention surface etc.

It may also be that the Pluto in 5th house person is the one who immediately gets obsessed/infatuated with someone at that game party. This to an extent where they just cant conceal it.

It may spill over to them(the chart holder) crossing pyschic or physical boundaries where (in the 1st instance), they react with scorn at anyone talking to/smiling with/trying to get close to the attractive stranger. This even if they don't directly talk to the stranger themselves. They still "claim" them "psychically" and may give others the body language or "look" to "get away from their possession" etc. Making it difficult for the stranger to mingle with others.

The 2nd instance could be more abrupt( and blatantly inappropriate) when they touch /fondle the stranger OR intentionally push others away as they cockblock their "property" and claim them for all to see. Considering it an "offense" for any friend of theirs to make a move i.e "but you know I like them.So back off!" Etc.

The latter is usually when Mars is with Pluto or interacting with Plu in house 5. Saturn will be more the former(restrained but exploding with desire within etc).

With Mars/Sat both there with Pluto, there is a switch between cool restraint (Sat) and outright possessiveness (Mars). Either way though, feelings are difficult to hide long term and others can only describe tge intensity of how they feel as akin to "burning" for the native. Or the native can only describe their feelings as "torture" to withhold from their desired object. This because of their potency & urgency

Pluto-Mars-Sat mix is no joke.I will also add
that Sco energy on Ven/7th house can do similar things 😶

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aquaguy91
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posted April 26, 2022 03:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Moon opposite Pluto and Venus square Pluto. I'm very insecure with women. I barely even talk to women anymore. Lol

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