posted December 04, 2012 06:12 AM            

Like because of me one of them stopped cheating and getting remarried to his ex, the other realized what love felt like again and took that to show his ex girlfriend, and the last one started gaining self esteem and started traveling! It's crazy because I'm still in the same spot living my same little boring life. what's the deal?

The only Pluto in my natal is -
Pluto square Sun
Pluto conjuct Saturn
Pluto trine Mars
Pluto square Mercury

posted December 04, 2012 07:19 AM            

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Originally posted by JLyn ~:
I've noticed a pattern with my last 3 crushes, lovers, boyfriends. They all had Pluto in my 7th house but what makes me think "what the ___" is Pluto is about transformation, so basically my relationship becomes transformed, but it always seems they have more of an impact of the transformation and the Pluto in my house!

Like because of me one of them stopped cheating and getting remarried to his ex, the other realized what love felt like again and took that to show his ex girlfriend, and the last one started gaining self esteem and started traveling! It's crazy because I'm still in the same spot living my same little boring life. what's the deal?

The only Pluto in my natal is -
Pluto square Sun
Pluto conjuct Saturn
Pluto trine Mars
Pluto square Mercury

The only thing I've learned is to be more alert.

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Sometimes aspects work in reverse like that and don't affect the person whose house gets trigger/activated, but affect the other party.

Either way, I'm not entirely sure why you view a 'constant', consistent life as boring? Like...did you read back what you just wrote? Most of your exes don't even seem to know their heads from their @$$es and keep bouncing from person to person, back and forth all over the place, constantly breaking up and making up with people - and the other one, hated themselves and now they're overcompensating by trying to play Indiana Jones or something...

posted December 04, 2012 09:00 PM            

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Originally posted by StacyLewis:

Sometimes aspects work in reverse like that and don't affect the person whose house gets trigger/activated, but affect the other party.

Either way, I'm not entirely sure why you view a 'constant', consistent life as boring? Like...did you read back what you just wrote? Most of your exes don't even seem to know their heads from their @$$es and keep bouncing from person to person, back and forth all over the place, constantly breaking up and making up with people - and the other one, hated themselves and now they're overcompensating by trying to play Indiana Jones or something...

Having a consistent, stable, 'boring' life isn't necessarily bad. Trust me, I know some people who live lives that are supposedly 'exciting' - and their lives are actually filled with enough drama, trauma and chaos for several lifetimes, and a lot of em have issues on top of issues. Sure, they might not be leading monotonous lives, but more often than not, those types are often lost and in a lot of pain. If your worst complaint about your life, is that it's dull to you, be grateful for that. At least your life is peaceful and your head is screwed on straight. Sounds like your exes, aren't that fortunate.

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Your right. And I appreciate the straight forwardness, I like that. I watch all my so called friends with such an exciting life but their so unhappy emotionally, it's kinda ironic huh? But it's amazing how much life's I've changed but I'm still living the same, peaceful yes, but it gets lonely.

I'm starting to think with those experiments the planet person feels it more.