posted February 01, 2013 02:42 AM            

Sun/Mars/Venus/Mercury conjunct in Virgo... So much Virgo... And Moon in Aquarius.

And I'm kind of a Super Aries... Sun/Moon/Venus/Merc in Aries, Mars in Gemini.

His Virgo all heavily trines my Neptune/Saturn/Uranus in Capricorn, and my personal planets trine his Uranus & Saturn in Sagittarius. His Jupiter is also conjunct all my Aries, and his NN is Aries. My SN is Virgo, but my 9th house Pisces I'm taking care of myself, so I'm not really that worried about that aspect.

He lives abroad, and I'm moving abroad in three weeks (I met him literally on his last night in town), we held hands and kissed (soooo innocent, but it was beautiful, like first love). When we met he had been flirting with me all night very obviously and when he had to leave to go back to his friend's house (honest-to-God, for propriety's sake, as they even texted him to ask if he was coming back that night), he blurts out that I have to get a layover in Germany, and upon realizing that wasn't possible decided immediately he would come fly to me wherever I was as soon as possible. Which is, I guess, NOT Virgo-like at all, but I could be wrong. All I know is, we were kissing, I felt this weirdly pure, perfect feeling, told him this ("I can't stop kissing you"), he mumbled, "This is getting out of hand," and quietly disengages himself, refuses to look at me, lets go of my hand last, and bolts. Anyway, this was about two months ago, and since then he writes me... every other Sunday. On-the-dot. I think one day he'd forgotten, because I got an email from him at what would have been 3AM Monday morning, 9PM Sunday mine. I'd tried writing him spontaneously in his language even, off-schedule, to try and spur something out of him... Nothing. I suspect he'll be writing me in a few days, as this is an "every other Sunday" week.

How do I deal with this? I'm 100% on a schedule. He still talks about visiting me; his last letter was REALLY heavy on that. If he sparked when we kissed etc, I've honestly no idea at this point. I've never been pursued in this way before, if I even am. I'm used to Cancers, or any kind of fire sign in the chart, or... hell, even Pisces. Gemini. But what is this Virgo doing? Is he just feeling me out obsessively? Is he serious?