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Topic: Uncontrolled Feelings?
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swampys
Knowflake Posts: 504
From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 26, 2013 06:26 PM
  
Today I cried in my psychiatrist's office because I was mad at him. When people teased me in school it was usually really hard for me to hold back my tears.But I don't cry a lot. Like, it seems like it takes a lot for me to cry on my own and I can't fake cry. I hate crying in front of other people so I know it's not an attention thing. Doesn't a 12th house moon make me secretive about my feelings? I don't know why I would ever let a person see me cry. IP: Logged |
k e p h x i
Knowflake Posts: 84
From: St. Paul, MN, USA
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 26, 2013 06:28 PM
Indication for reserved feelings go from the general to the detailed aspects. Like, I'm really reserved because I'm a Scorpio with a Virgo Moon, so. But, I remember reading one of my aspects that said I was really reserved with my emotions.------------------
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Barbee
Knowflake Posts: 112
From: Buffalo, NY, USA
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 26, 2013 07:07 PM
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Originally posted by swampys:
Today I cried in my psychiatrist's office because I was mad at him. When people teased me in school it was usually really hard for me to hold back my tears.But I don't cry a lot. Like, it seems like it takes a lot for me to cry on my own and I can't fake cry. I hate crying in front of other people so I know it's not an attention thing. Doesn't a 12th house moon make me secretive about my feelings? I don't know why I would ever let a person see me cry.
Everyone has an occasional period like this. Stress, or a feeling of extreme frustration without a solution can make anyone cry. I wonder if you have something transiting a critical spot in your chart right now. IP: Logged |
Moon_girl
Newflake Posts: 16
From: College Park, Md, U.S.
Registered: Jan 2010
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posted March 26, 2013 07:15 PM
FWIW, I have a 12th house moon and I hate people seeing me cry. Even giddiness I prefer to keep under wraps. Sigh. I'm sorry that you had a crap day, dear. IP: Logged |
swampys
Knowflake Posts: 504
From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 26, 2013 10:56 PM
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Originally posted by Moon_girl:
FWIW, I have a 12th house moon and I hate people seeing me cry. Even giddiness I prefer to keep under wraps. Sigh. I'm sorry that you had a crap day, dear.
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enchantress299
Knowflake Posts: 644
From:
Registered: May 2009
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posted March 26, 2013 11:15 PM
Take it from me hon... Crying is not something that you want to hold inside all of the time. Your psychiatrist's office is a safe environment for you to cry, and it's better for it to happen there then in front of the people tormenting you. When you hold all of your emotions inside of you all the time, you are more likely to lose control of them at odd moments (like overreacting and blowing up at some small incident that occurs). Regardless, my mother cries when she is really angry and so does one of my close friends. It's actually not that uncommon. Do you have heavy water aspects? I theorize that it sometimes comes with Mars in water signs or other certain water rising signs (both of them have Cancer rising). To be honest, I sometimes wonder if they cry because their anger is also tied in with their inner hurt. However, it's also a loss of control or loss of face, so that could cause an extreme reaction like crying, I think. Crying is vulnerability so it is scary, but it's worse to stifle your emotions so much that you forget how to really positively emotionally communicate with others. You can't stop yourself from exclusively feeling one emotion. When you try to numb one emotion, you numb all of them, including the positive ones. Better to work through the emotion with someone you trust who is supportive of you. IP: Logged |
swampys
Knowflake Posts: 504
From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 26, 2013 11:26 PM
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Originally posted by enchantress299:
Take it from me hon... Crying is not something that you want to hold inside all of the time. Your psychiatrist's office is a safe environment for you to cry, and it's better for it to happen there then in front of the people tormenting you. When you hold all of your emotions inside of you all the time, you are more likely to lose control of them at odd moments (like overreacting and blowing up at some small incident that occurs). Regardless, my mother cries when she is really angry and so does one of my close friends. It's actually not that uncommon. Do you have heavy water aspects? I theorize that it sometimes comes with Mars in water signs or other certain water rising signs (both of them have Cancer rising). To be honest, I sometimes wonder if they cry because their anger is also tied in with their inner hurt. However, it's also a loss of control or loss of face, so that could cause an extreme reaction like crying, I think. Crying is vulnerability so it is scary, but it's worse to stifle your emotions so much that you forget how to really positively emotionally communicate with others. You can't stop yourself from exclusively feeling one emotion. When you try to numb one emotion, you numb all of them, including the positive ones. Better to work through the emotion with someone you trust who is supportive of you.
My Mars is in Capricorn in the 6th house and my Ascendent is Leo. IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 344
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted March 27, 2013 10:36 AM
I usually only cry in front of someone when i am mad at them, not when i am hurt. I have a Leo Mars, maybe thats why. I hate my pride being hurt and it causes an angry tear fest. Its funny because I'd be shouting and crying at the same time. While throwing stuff at them. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 252
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 27, 2013 12:01 PM
My daughter has a 12th house moon.She cries and screams and lets it all out lol
Im sorry you feel that way <3
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Gemini sun 12th
Cancer asc 1st
Taurus moon 11th
Taurus venus 11th
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Lunae
Knowflake Posts: 483
From:
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 27, 2013 12:06 PM
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Originally posted by Orange:
I usually only cry in front of someone when i am mad at them, not when i am hurt. I have a Leo Mars, maybe thats why. I hate my pride being hurt and it causes an angry tear fest. Its funny because I'd be shouting and crying at the same time. While throwing stuff at them.
Wow, THIS. Now I understand. I have Sun in the 5th, conjunct mars, which I think is also similar to a Leo mars? XD IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 344
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted March 27, 2013 12:29 PM
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Originally posted by Lunae:
Wow, THIS. Now I understand. I have Sun in the 5th, conjunct mars, which I think is also similar to a Leo mars? XD
yes, most definitely it does by both the hoyse placement and aspect. I also have a Sun / Mars conjunction even though it's out of sign.
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