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Topic: The troublemakers Mars, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune and Pluto
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meyray
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Registered: Oct 2012
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posted July 04, 2013 03:22 PM
  
Have you ever been in a relationship that was strongly influenced by one of these planets? I understand every person is different and every person has different limits. Some find comfort in Saturnine relationships, others are suffocated by them. Which type of relationship are you most likely to assimilate and which one are you most likely to run far away from? This is how I understand them (at their worst):
Mars animalistic, turbulent, violent, tense, aggressive
Saturn heavy, monotonous, censoring, restricting, dampening
Uranus short-lived, shocking, changeable, nervous, erratic
Neptune delusional, deceitful, disappointing, depressive, unrealistic
Pluto obsessive, draining, torrid, irrational, vindictive Most dysfunctional relationships are usually a combination between two or more. Please share your experiences because Im tired of my threads dying so young. I will shove this one down your throat.
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Doux Rκve
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posted July 04, 2013 03:42 PM
Saturn in relationships can be very gloomy.
Although I'm very Saturnian myself, and am often attracted to Saturn in others and in synastry, it usually becomes very.. "negative" over time.I don't mind Mars so much, unless it's heavily afflicted in the composite chart. Uranus.. now that one can be attractive but you can usually tell it's not gonna last or be very serious.
Especially if your own Uranus is weak. Neptune is very attractive, but can be very confusing.
It lures you in and before you know what's going on, you're trapped in an illusion.
It's beautiful while it lasts, but often leaves you dry, eventually. Now, Pluto.
That one is wicked, cause there are usually a lot of mind games involved.
It's like the people involved want to hurt each other, to have the upper hand no matter what.
It's actually very interesting to observe.
It can get addictive and obsessive, even slightly psychotic.
Pluto changes you, for better or for worse. Of course these planets are present in most relationships, and not all of them are doomed or dysfunctional, but it takes a lot of honesty, integrity and bravery to deal with the hard aspects and make the best out of them.
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I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 1585
From: Saturn
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 04, 2013 03:45 PM
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I will shove this one down your throat.
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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Doux Rκve
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posted July 04, 2013 03:46 PM
^ omg  IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 1585
From: Saturn
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 04, 2013 03:49 PM
Well, this is the only way I could contribute to this thread  ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
Knowflake Posts: 1497
From: walking with my head in the clouds!
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted July 04, 2013 03:49 PM
Mars, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto...they're in order too! Least damaging to most damaging!  quote:
meyray: Please share your experiences because Im tired of my threads dying so young. I will shove this one down your throat.
LOL! Okay well I experienced a Plutonic relationship two-ish years ago..had all the themes! Depths, rage, obsession...I fell kinda hard, but he was obsessed to the point of threats towards the end. His Sun and my AC were at the same degrees, and both squared each other's Pluto. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted July 04, 2013 03:54 PM
Waiter, I`d like to have a bit of everything on the menue, please. IP: Logged |
Doux Rκve
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posted July 04, 2013 04:12 PM
Ceridwen the brave one. IP: Logged |
CatMote
Knowflake Posts: 255
From: New Britain, CT, United States
Registered: Apr 2013
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posted July 04, 2013 04:17 PM
eh...ill take me some mars and pluto...
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Sun Aries Moon Pisces
Mars Pisces Venus Pisces
Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo
Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio
Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn
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Moon is Lunatic
Knowflake Posts: 87
From: Moon
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 04, 2013 04:25 PM
Wow, I sound like combination of all of those. I must be very bad. IP: Logged |
meyray
Knowflake Posts: 283
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posted July 04, 2013 04:42 PM
As for my experiences I can only give two stories.The first relationship was very Saturn influenced, there was some Pluto and Mars as well but Saturn was supreme overlord. I was Saturn-influenced, he was Mars-influenced. Despite our arguments and not so occasional repulsion of each other it felt safe and steady. True there was great frustration but I liked the security. Pluto reared its ugly head when it was over. However the second one
it was Uranus/Neptune influenced. And I couldnt bare it. It was much more fun and happy than the first one but it was so
bizarre, confusing and especially nervous. I was going through some anxiety problems back then the effect it had on me was awful. It was like mental electricity. I ended it as soon as possible. tl;dr version personally I would take Saturn, Mars and Pluto before Uranus and Neptune
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Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 2817
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 04, 2013 05:17 PM
you're forgetting the sun too, that's a malefic. IP: Logged |
meyray
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posted July 04, 2013 05:22 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
you're forgetting the sun too, that's a malefic.
Yes but I don't think it does that much harm. In fact I'm on the edge about Mars too. It seems to me that they don't act up (that badly) unless they're rubbed by the outer planets. Sun and Mars are much more personal while the outers tend to dominate with their energy. At least that's how I feel it. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 2817
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 04, 2013 05:32 PM
Yes it does..
Planets that combust are pretty much engulfed by the sun.
Those planets do not operate individually anymore...
It's all ego driven, they become extra fuel for the sun.So yeah the sun can be pretty scary.
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greatquincunx
Knowflake Posts: 109
From: Houston
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 04, 2013 06:12 PM
Only with hard aspects from Saturn or Mars.
Seriously, those gass guzzler planets don't hold a candle to a hard aspect of Merc-Mars.I can't even talk to this fool :-/ IP: Logged |
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