posted November 11, 2014 02:40 AM            

If they bothe have venus-mars conjunct, the they have something in common.

posted November 11, 2014 01:55 PM            

He may like her very much.

Generally,Venus in Aries has little in common with Venus in Virgo.

But here we have Venus in Virgo conjunct Mars.Very nice. He understands her feisty nature.

Now for her,the Mars in Aries conjunct will heighten the Venus in Aries position. Making this lady "too hot to handle".

Virgo is essentially a sign of minimalism. And Aries is not. So there must be an aspect by planet to make her relate to his nature better.

So if there is a Saturn aspect to her Aries Venus/Mars mix,that would be nice.

posted November 12, 2014 12:00 AM            

I read that if person A Saturn hit person B 's personal planet and vise versa usually common in long term relationship. It indicate strong bond between them. However I wouldn't say that a couple without Saturn contact couldn't work, they are other indicators, so don't make a generalization.
But over all, Saturn is like glue that keep relationship together. Saturn get such bad rep, I personally like it's maturity and seriousness. It keep us on our toes. Every planets and sign have their own positive and negative side, it's up to us how to use the energy.

posted November 12, 2014 02:09 AM            

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Me and him have like 6 placements of Saturn trine and sextile each others. Our Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Venus, and some other planets trine and sextile each others Saturn, it that a good thing to have?
We also have Moon sextile Jupiter, Mars sextile Ascendant (this probably explain why he likes to look at me, lol) There others, but I forget.

But for sure I remember, our Moon square each others Moon. How can it work out? He have trouble understanding my bubbly, playful Gemini moon. How to fix this? As you read me correctly, my Gemini Moon are easily bored, further add to my Aquarius Venus, which make me appeared even more distant to him.

Well what ever 'friendship' we have, it going somewhere, lol. The other day I find myself cooking him his late dinner, so he can eat after he get out of work. I don't know if I do that out of "affection" or out of "gratitude" since he always help carried my grocceries and help with my laundry.

I think I am giving him mixed signals again, like last time I rejected a date with him, but then I find myself buying him a B-Day present, smh. So I am blowing hot and cold with this guy.
You know he is NOT Asian right? My parents doesn't like his skin color, but to be honest, I don't care what they think because I don't live with my parents, they can't control who I date.

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posted November 12, 2014 02:55 AM            

Me and my wife are a Libra / Scorpio couple. By all accounts, Astrology says that we shouldn't be compatible at all (with Libra being very analytic and Scorpio being more instinctual.)

However, our Synasty aspects paint a different picture. Have a look:

posted November 12, 2014 03:33 AM            

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Thank you Xodian, will look at your thread. I'm new to astrology, so I am learning as I go.Wish you and your wife lots of happiness. Happy holiday to you guys too.

So who the Libra and who the Scorpio? Are you the Libra? or she?

I'm trying to show my affection to this Libra guy. No doubts his feelings, but my powerful Aquarius Venus is always at work preventing me to get lovey dovey with him, and we being interracial is even more NEW to me.

So may I ask you Xodian, because you a male here. So if there a girl who cook dinner for you to eat after you get off work. She is also respectful and helpful to your mom. Buy you B-Day present. Then that is already showing affection right?
I don't know what else to do for this Libra, so frusterated!

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Thankyou for your well wishes . And I wish the same to you and your S/O .

I am the Libra and she is the Scorpio (I am a Leo Asc. while she is a Libra Asc.)

As for my perspective on your matter; Personally speaking... HELL YEAH that's affectionate! Not just affection but thoughtfulness and helping as well! I mean which guy wouldn't like it if his S/O cooked him food, bought him presents and gets along with his folks?!

In my opinion, what you did for him more than qualified as being lovey dovey. Out of curiosity, what does he wants out of you interms of being affectionate? You don't have to answer if the question is too personal .

posted November 12, 2014 04:18 AM            

Taken from http://kannonmcafee.wordpress.com/declinations/

'Parallel Planets in Supposedly “Incompatible” Signs

First, those signs that are in Northern declination, Aries through Virgo, there are possible P aspects created between planets in different signs, unlike conjunctions in longitude.

posted November 13, 2014 12:15 AM            

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He just want me to be his girl. And I keep send him mixed messages. Like I nicely rejected his date invitations, but then I buy him a B-day gift. My fault is I keep him hanging, and not give him the direct answer, now I want to give it a try.

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I can see why he would be so confused over the whole issue (though I am not sure if buying someone a B-Day gift constitutes as showing signs of being an item with them.) But yes, if I were you I would try to clear up any given misunderstandings as soon as possible . Now by “give it a try” are you saying that you want to try dating him?

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He have a rough childhood, and he grow up in an environment full of gangs, drugs, and violence shooting. So he not the typical Libra, I think his life experience overshadow his sun sign traits.
Because we all know a Libra don't do things like: sit outside a girl staircase waiting to ask for her number right? I know we live in the same neighborhood and all, but still... lol

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You are right in the fact that much like any other sign of the Zodiac, the environment plays an important role in shaping up a person. Ghandi was a Libra but so was Heinrich Himmler (the commander of the Nazi SS) and so is Vladimir Putin. With Libras, you will find that their core ideals and their experiences play an important role in how they weigh things in life and while they try to be fair an unbiased in their disposition, you will find that other key astrological placements in their charts will skew their prespective greatly.

So while his Sun sign might be saying to him that sitting infront of a girl's staircase and waiting for her seems kinda inappropriate, the influence from rest of his chart might skew his decision on the matter.

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He have Taurus Rising though, I think this explained why he so persistent with his chase, and his steady affection. Your an Leo Asc, so you probbaly more passionate than him. His Taurus Asc likes steady and fixed affection, and that sometimes bored my bubbly Gemini Moon.

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Well the Taurus Rising explains the “sitting infront of the girl's stairway” thing Lol! What is his Moon Sign if you don't mind me asking? And while we are at it, let me ask you this: What is your ideal relationship? I mean, what qualities are looking for in a partner (please list both physical and mental.)

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I know I blow him hot and cold when he chase me. So now I try to make it up to him. So I cook him dinner if he doesn't get off work too late, and learn his culture food recipes.

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I can see why he likes you as you are appealing right up front to his rising sign Lol! Tauruses love food!

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But all this is still new to me. And our culture differences make it harder. He is Black guy (are there alot of Black in Canada? Probably less than here where I'm at USA) and for an Asian girl like me, I get nervous around him (I shouldn't be though, since I grow up in the U.S)

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Actually African Canadians are the third largest Minority Group here in Canada (with South Asians being the first.) So you will find that interracial couples are quite the norm here in Canada. Most of us don't really think anything about it really. If anything, diversity is quite welcomed here and you will find that mostly everyone integrates pretty well within Canadian society .

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I'm trying to make it work, but I'm still in shock, seriously who in their right mind would get freaky with someone in their own neighborhood? It just too Taboo.

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I personally don't find it to be a Taboo at all. If anything, I would say it makes more sense for two people from the same neighbourhood to hookup since both of them have had a chance to know each other pretty well. Love is love. You can't help who you fall in love with.

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I don't know if you and your wife is an interracial couple, or if you have any friends that is. Maybe you can help share some tips on how to survive a interracial relationship, :-)

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We are indeed an interracial couple , but this has never been an issue for us since both us are bi-racial to begin with. I am half Middle Eastern (from my dad's side) and Half Spanish (from my Mom's side) and she is Half Spanish (from her Dad's side) and half Japanese / Taiwanese mix (from her Mom's side.) Yeah complicated isn't it? Lol! But while it might seem complicated for most people, for me and her, Culture wasn't a barrier at all. Maybe its because both of us never really related completely to our individual cultures. Heck, when I was in the Middle East, I was treated like an outsider for being “too white” Lol! (Even though I served two and half years with the Military over there.) I guess I looked too white for the locals:

http://i.imgur.com/GhCK5zq.jpg

That's me BTW.

And when I was in Spain, I couldn't fit in with the locals since, to them, I was too “foreign.”

It was when I came to Canada that I actually found a place where I belonged. No one here cares about what background you come from or what your culture might be. So long as you live as a good human being that contributes to the well-being of society and lives well with others, that is all that matters here.

posted November 13, 2014 11:49 PM            

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First of all, WHOA, you look really HANDSOME, your eye color is so beautiful. You sure are charming, you look like a Libra too, the well balance face.

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My two Leo placements thank you for the compliment . You should see my wife's eyes. Her eyes are the paradigm of what a Scorpio's eyes should be. They are deep deep green. And you are quite the looker yourself . I can see why that Libra of yours has the hots for you.

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My parents doesn't like his skin color, but I come to the point that I don't care anymore. I live on my own, I don't live with my parents. They have no control over who I date.

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… As it should be. Don't get me wrong, there are moments where there is good reason to listen to your relatives on the matter of dating the right guy but not when it comes to unwarranted discrimination.

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Back to my Libra, he might sound across as creeper, but he is not, As he never stalk me, he only stare at me when ever we bump into each others. It IMPOSSIBLE not to run into your neighbors, we run into each others alot in the parking lot, lol. It is a BIG neighborhood here, it like a whole community itself, just HUGE.

Sure he sit outside my staircase wait for me to asked for my #. But he was respectful enough NEVER come near my door, or tried to come in my apartment. (he knows i live alone with a dog).
Even when he help me carried my groceries, or help with my laundry, he would carried it to right outside my door, and leave it there at the doormat. He never insist to go inside, or asked to go inside. So to be frank, he have self control, he knows what he doing.

I buy him a b-day present, because I want to show my appreciation for all his help. I didn't expect it to lead him on. Now i am finding myself cooking him dinner the other day, smh. I am not even sure if it affection or appreciation.

After work if he see my apartment lights off, he knows I sleep, and he doesn't disturb me, he would just text and tell me he just got off work.

But if my lights is on, he would call me and say he wants to see me, and he waiting outside my staircase, lol. Hoping me step outside to talk to him.

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That is good . I see that you mentioned the fact that he has a Pisces Moon. So he is emotionally sensitive and feels things on a deeper level. That explains the need for him to talk to you often. That would also explain why you have an attraction to the guy as his moon resonates well with your Sun (you are a Pisces if I am not mistaken.) Being a Pisces Mooner that he is, he will keep doing these things for you without asking for anything in return and that Taurus Rising of his will give him the strength to keep on doing these things. So you will have to make your intentions known as soon as possible because he isn't going to stop doing these things Lol!

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I don't have any ideal relationship, I only want the most basic simple things. I don't care what skin color he is, I just want him to love me for who I am, and not controlling me like a bird in a cage.
I been out on my own since young age, so I always like independent, I like to go to work, to have my own money, and not depend on anyone. I like 50/50 financially in relationship.

I want a marriage where both husband and wife working and build a family together, NOT the traditional marriage where the the wife MUST stay at home.
You know how in Asian traditional culture, the mother in laws like the stay at home wife, and raise kids type. I can't do that, I like the freedom western culture more.

I don't mind cook, clean for him, as long as I can balance out my working schedule, he should NOT have any said in my choice of choosing to work. Is that too much to ask? To me working is equal to my SELF-WORTH.

I am very SENSITIVE when it come to this, because I have a long term relationship before with an Asian guy back in my college days, we dated from his Bachelor degree up to him finished his Master degree.
Then he start to proposed, then his traditional Asian parents get all controlling on me, want me to quit working and just be a wife/maid for him, serve him like a king. Well, NO WAY, I argue back and I broke up with him (my Ex-BF).

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I admire that a lot . Its an excellent mindset to have and this is one of the reasons why I ended up falling in love with my wife. She is an independent minded person and has a career of her own that she is pursuing. She is a Medical Student on her way on becoming a Doctor. She has given over 10 years of her life doing nothing but studying and working and she still has about 4 more years to go. I admire her commitment towards her goals and her perseverance and I support her ambitions all the way through.