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Topic: Does something in a guy's chart indicate if he wants a serious relationship?
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Alleycat9
Newflake Posts: 20
From: Philadelphia, PA, USA
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 25, 2013 07:41 PM
  
Sorry I might be jumping the gun here, but just wondering about someone new. Do I need to post his birth chart or are there aspects you'd tell me to look for? Thanks!IP: Logged |
PlutoFish
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 25, 2013 07:43 PM
Look for Juno for long-term relationships - the Venus in his chart and Mars in yoursIP: Logged |
Alleycat9
Newflake Posts: 20
From: Philadelphia, PA, USA
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 25, 2013 07:46 PM
Do I look at what each of our Juno signs are? Sorry this is new to me. His Venus is Taurus & his Mars is Aries & my Venus is Leo & Mars is Scorpio. I know a synastry aspect we have is Venus trine Mars if that matters.IP: Logged |
PeterPan
Knowflake Posts: 125
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posted October 25, 2013 08:03 PM
Look at he's moon and 7th house, this applies for women aswell, if he has a taurus, scorpio, capricorn, cancer etc 7th house he prolly is interested in long term, pluto adds that effect aswell.IP: Logged |
Alleycat9
Newflake Posts: 20
From: Philadelphia, PA, USA
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 25, 2013 08:22 PM
Thanks for the clarification! His Sun is Taurus & Moon Capricorn & Pluto in Scorpio. He doesn't have any planets in 7th house though, so what does that mean?IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted October 25, 2013 10:37 PM
he could have 'serious' relationship placements but if there is no chemistry/lasting synastry with you it won't happen. just a thought... the partner could make all the difference and not just his own placements. most men are serious when it's the right partner.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 25, 2013 11:40 PM
99% percent of people will want/have a serious commitment at some point in their life...
Asking if he wants one from his natal is pretty generic..
What you want to look at is synastry/composite to see if he would want a commitment to you specifically.IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 1629
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 26, 2013 12:03 AM
Sun in Virgo conjunct Venus in Libra.Venus conjunct Chiron. Venus trine Saturn. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted October 26, 2013 03:35 AM
Leo/Virgo/Libra/Scorpio influence are the most likely to want to be in a relationship and work to make it happen.Aries/Sagittarius/Pisces influence are the least likely to want a relationship in their lives. They are not reliable as lovers. Taurus/Cancer influence very much want and need a partner but they are very traditional and require a lot of babying and spoon-feeding. Needless to say that since you are in the position of "parent" - you will be the one doing most of the work in the relationship. Gemini influence - generally make better friends than lovers but it's not impossible to make a serious reationship work with these Gemini-types as long as you are not possessive or conservative.. and you accept them are as opposed to trying to change them. Aquarius/Capricorn influenced are the coldest of the lot in the sense that they tend to be strongly left-brain analytical people and not very romantic or at least not in an overly emotional way. They do want a relationship in their lives but they generally take into account things like social and financial status and other practical considerations before they make a commitment. They go with their head, not with their heart. Once they are sure though and they do commit to you - they are probably the most faithful due the Saturn influence and their high self-control levels. IP: Logged |
amelia28
Knowflake Posts: 2468
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posted October 26, 2013 03:54 AM
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Originally posted by Alleycat9:
Do I look at what each of our Juno signs are? Sorry this is new to me. His Venus is Taurus & his Mars is Aries & my Venus is Leo & Mars is Scorpio. I know a synastry aspect we have is Venus trine Mars if that matters.
I think that trine is excellent for attraction specially if combined with some nice pluto aspects but you are talking about marriage so... I suggest you post his chart first so people can give their opinions on what kind of mate he will be. Also post your chart so people can see what aspects you two have involving juno if you are thinking marriage and long term. My husband and I have had a rocky ride but my vertex conjuncts tightly his north node, My eros conjuncts his saturn exact. Most importantly, his juno conjuncts exact my sun sign and his saturn conjucts tightly my sun sign but out of sign. Some people dont like it when saturn is involved but saturn has to do with karma and it provides durability and commitment to a relationship so any relationship that lasts a long time will have some saturn aspects involved. In my experience meaningful relationships also involve the vertex, the northnode, eros, saturn and juno. Edit: people here are big on sun/moon aspects in synastry as well and is always good to have a nice mars/venus aspect like you have with him.
You should also eventually check out your composite chart to see if everything is scattered or if there are stelliums involved and at least one cluster of planets residing in one house, it gives relationship direction, purpose and focus some people think. Start off by just looking at this his chart to see what you have in your hands, the good and the bad and decide if you want to go for the ride.
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